Should students be cane for breaking the rule
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caning is good, too much of caning is badOriginally posted by Lexanez:This can be very subjective.
I know of a parent who loves to cane for god knows what reason and in the end getting a rebelious child who entered the cell for some wrong doings.
While some may support the idea of spare the rod, spoil the child but in some cases, parents are able to get their child's attention and lead them on the right path.
As for the schools, it is mandatory, they are pressured by one another to use the same punishment so unless you can get MOE to do something, it will last. Basically they tell you some story after that. Oh, in some schools, such as mine, the school tend to be trigger happy, regardless of right or wrong, they piak your butt...
too much of a good thing is a bad thing
that includes if no cane is used
therefore, i somehow feel that a cane is vital, for grave errors by the child/student only
but it's all on the student's head
it's all up to them to think the right way -
Ah you see it's a misconception that corporal punishment+humiliation is the best way to chastise a child. A lot of experts who work with teens and the like say it's best to use other forms of disciplinary action. I know not many Singaporean parents or school believe in this but reasoning with the student and telling him why it's wrong to do what he's doing doesn't only stop the child from doing it like corporal punishment may but it also gives him a different attitude which in the long run is much better as he would have a more positive mindset when it comes to behaviour.Originally posted by gigabyte14:hmm
but then, wouldn't it better to educate the child the hard way now when he/she is still a juvenile, rather when learning when they're all grown up to receive the full punishment? -
But if you cane them you're giving them a hatred of authority and they'll be even more rebellious than before. Why do you think the bad students continue to be bad? It's because the punishment they're receiving isn't right for them. I know a lot of students who just get worse after punishment as they see it as a way to 'get back' at those who hurt them and it's not healthy for their attitude and behaviour.Originally posted by gigabyte14:caning is good, too much of caning is bad
too much of a good thing is a bad thing
that includes if no cane is used
therefore, i somehow feel that a cane is vital, for grave errors by the child/student only
but it's all on the student's head
it's all up to them to think the right way -
it depends lo..if its serious anot..dun tell me hair too long also need rotan
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hair long, DM cut.Originally posted by hatemeifuwantto:it depends lo..if its serious anot..dun tell me hair too long also need rotan
but i always whine to him
Me - Walau eh, you one yrs want cut how many time.
DM, didnt i give u a schoolbook on the hair length is allow?
Me - i cut oledy, u cut, then i must go cut, u give me money ah?
DM - are you being rebelious again?
Me - No, just telling you what i think
DM, say sorry to me.
Me, knn, (go out of school.) -
Ok. Noted.Originally posted by gigabyte14:this is a serious topic, boy
no insulting please.
how would you like it when you are posting in a foreign forum and getting insulted by the forumers there? -
Maybe wear more underwear can helps....Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:You try before?
I kana 6 before I go home got obvious blue black.
On third stroke your legs will wobble.
Its bearable but then still pain la.
I see ahbengs kana can kneel on the floor beg teacher. LOL -
No matter what, i just don't like the idea of caning.
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caning? It helps?
Last tym my frens kena public caning(in front of class), can still be laughing.
Go have private caning can come out laughing like nothing wrong like that.
So?