How do you maintain your friendship??

• NeverSayGoodBye

  26 Jun 07, 12:38

  .....Do you meet your friends once a week? a month? every few months? only on special occassion. If very busy didn't meet up, will you keep in touch by sms-es or other means?
  
  Do you think good friends need to tell you everything that is happening in their live?
  
  
• de_middle

  26 Jun 07, 13:01

  at least once a week for good friends...others, it depends
• Eternal-fire

  26 Jun 07, 13:13

  Dun usually contact or meet up with my frens on a regular basis.
  
  Anyway good frens dun need to tell one another everything. Because what for need to know so much about your good frens, they are not gf/bf what, sometimes things are better left unsaid......
• mistyblue

  26 Jun 07, 13:14

  Low maintenance
  
• NeverSayGoodBye

  26 Jun 07, 13:16

  Originally posted by Eternal-fire:

  Dun usually contact or meet up with my frens on a regular basis.
  
  Anyway good frens dun need to tell one another everything. Because what for need to know so much about your good frens, they are not gf/bf what, sometimes things are better left unsaid......

  .....why is it so? not on a regular basis? too busy?
• NeverSayGoodBye

  26 Jun 07, 13:17

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  at least once a week for good friends...others, it depends

  .....how long have you been doing this?
• NeverSayGoodBye

  26 Jun 07, 13:18

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  Low maintenance
  

  .....you meant one year once?
• rane

  26 Jun 07, 15:18

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....Do you meet your friends once a week? a month? every few months? only on special occassion. If very busy didn't meet up, will you keep in touch by sms-es or other means?
  
  Do you think good friends need to tell you everything that is happening in their live?
  
  

  you can do and expect whatever, ultimately it takes two to clap, takes two to maintain the friendship. If one party is doing the maintenance, it does not work out. Notice these days so many people just don't bother to do maintenance. So to me, friends are just "shen wai wu", don't need to be serious with them unless you meet people who are serious in keeping friendship.
• coffeeortea

  26 Jun 07, 15:19

  the best way is to keep in contact, whether over the phone. physically or whatever.
• Eiizumi

  26 Jun 07, 15:26

  Have sex
  
  Not.
• silvercap

  26 Jun 07, 15:41

  Sometimes I invite my fren to come out, treat them nice food.
• Xephone_xenon

  26 Jun 07, 15:49

  Be a hyocripte
• de_middle

  26 Jun 07, 15:58

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....how long have you been doing this?

  I actually have a very good fren.....and we're like meeting every saturday for almost 4 years
  
  But of late........time is a pblm
• kiss_my (_i_)

  26 Jun 07, 15:59

  dating no friends.
  
• apple*

  26 Jun 07, 16:05

  if calling is like once a mth...if outing is like 2-3mths once...at times jus sms send greeting...
  
• caleb_chiang

  26 Jun 07, 16:11

  whenever we are free lor...
• Darkness_hacker99

  26 Jun 07, 16:59

  Say hi in MSN.
• ndmmxiaomayi

  26 Jun 07, 17:02

  MSN
• seotiblizzard

  26 Jun 07, 17:36

  MSN and Hp.
• rainee

  26 Jun 07, 17:46

  Meet each other whenever we can...cos most of us are working now, so have to consider our working schedule...
  
  Usually meet during the weekend, if dun meet then just keep in touch via MSN...
• technoboy

  26 Jun 07, 18:10

  Yeah MSN, and maybe twice a month for closer friends...
• jondizzle foshizzle

  26 Jun 07, 18:16

  im with most of my friends at least twice a week (not including school)
• Omniknight

  26 Jun 07, 18:32

  this is all so dumb
• Bontakun

  26 Jun 07, 18:34

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....Do you meet your friends once a week? a month? every few months? only on special occassion. If very busy didn't meet up, will you keep in touch by sms-es or other means?
  
  Do you think good friends need to tell you everything that is happening in their live?
  
  

  I try once a week. If cannot I use other venues of communications. HP, sms, MSN, email, mail, DHL, etc, etc...
  
  Good friends no need tell you EVERYTHING at one go. Just what they can say given their openness at that time.
  
  Be a good friend yourself. Do your part in maintaining the friendship. That way they will do their part as well.
• ShrodingersCat

  26 Jun 07, 18:37

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....Do you meet your friends once a week? a month? every few months? only on special occassion. If very busy didn't meet up, will you keep in touch by sms-es or other means?
  
  Do you think good friends need to tell you everything that is happening in their live?
  
  

  colleaguefriends i meet everyday loh. outdoor activitiesfriends I meet at least once a week or longest, once in two weeks. good friends from school with families i meet about once a month.
  
  MSN, sms, email and a telephone call to update each other when necessary
  
  But gawd no that good friends tell me EVERYTHING that is happening in their life cos i think i'd go mad.
  
  just impt things, special things, funny things can liao.
  
  not.. 'today i went to the bus stop... and wait about 24 minutes..'