is this true? does smart and talented guys appeal to gals?
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nah.. i dont consider that as flaming.. no worries ya..Originally posted by Ristar:and gals do not choose wat they prefer because of how they are programmed.
gals want a lot of excitement and prefer to be with somebody exciting (who may get only average results), handsome, muscular and is confident (Alpha Male trait) to a bloody fugly nerd (bad dressing, inconfidence, inept in social situations).
thats why, it is also technically wrong to say that u prefer capable and smart guys, since smart alex would definitely fall into this category.
sorry, im not flaming u... i cant sleep. thats all.
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mystee
really? ASL?! lets meet up for coffee.
as always, defensiveness abt it not being true for all gals. i will leave u be then, because it is pointless for me to say/explain anything more.
husband. but in modern society as another forumite has put it so eloquently, anything is possible.
i will leave u with this thought... a psychology book i read some time ago says that any form of excitement with a guy can be misconstrued as love, including fear.
mistyblue
in another point of view (mine)
the gals HAVE to be with a guy (geek) in the game.
how many of these hot gals would have spared the worst looking nerds in the show a second glance if they werent in the game?
if u would, ASL?! -
Originally posted by Ristar:
hmm.. i m not trying to be defensive.. that is the truth.. maybe you are still young to know of women who thinks the same as i do.
[b]mystee
really? ASL?! lets meet up for coffee.
as always, defensiveness. i will leave u be then, because it is pointless for me to say anything more.
husband. but in modern society as another forumite has put it so eloquently, anything is possible.
mistyblue
in another point of view (mine)
the gals HAVE to be with a guy (geek) in the game.
how many of these hot gals would have spared the worst looking nerds in the show a second glance if they werent in the game?
if u would, ASL?![/b]
fyi, i m much older than u.. if u are born in 1985, & i m attached with a stable, "not exciting" bf for 5 yr +...
& lastly.. y do u tink of guys who are capable as a nerd? not all are.. & what wrong with nerds? i tink they are much better than flirts. -
find out more by reading up yourself.. im not abt to give "lessons" in an online forum. and im far from being qualified to do that anyway.Originally posted by mystee:hmm.. i m not trying to be defensive.. that is the truth.. maybe you are still young to know of women who thinks the same as i do.
fyi, i m much older than u.. if u are born in 1985, & i m attached with a stable, "not exciting" bf for 5 yr +...
& lastly.. y do u tink of guys who are capable as a nerd? not all are.. & what wrong with nerds? i tink they are much better than flirts.
wat i'd like to say abt it is that "nerds" expose gals (who needs to be excited to some degree) to a wider range of emotions.
could i be so bold as to say that age has tampered with your thinking?
young gals wanna have fun, which by now everyone knows wat that really means, than settle down. -
since u feel that u understand women so much.. & feel that u are correct.. no point for me to further comment.Originally posted by Ristar:find out more by reading up yourself.. im not abt to give "lessons" in an online forum. and im far from being qualified to do that anyway.
wat i'd like to say abt it is that "nerds" expose gals (who needs to be excited to some degree) to a wider range of emotions.
all i can say is: "to be a woman, to understand a woman" "not all human are built with the same preference" -
lol.
different preferences, yes.
same programming, yes.
in the end, still the feeling that counts.
btw u confirmed this lil fact already. thx.
if my understanding on the fairer sex is lacking however, please forgive me. better men have died before they understood women.
it is also said that it is futile to argue with a gal on a logical level too.
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From your post, its true to a certain degree....Originally posted by xShevchenkox:l wonder if this is true.. that guys that are more smart and talented...can teach or help gals in study stuffs or work are tend to be more appealing and attractive than those normal guys with normal brains?
If those guai gals study type, can learn something from that particular guy.Its possible for tat guy top be more appling then normal guys that dun hv much to share..
Its also depends on what age group u are talking about.
EDITED: For now, i only see rich guys become more appealing...
Of cos got some poor guys they is knn lucky that have a good & understanding gf tat stick wid them. -
hope l can get such good & understanding gfs lor...but if dun hab oso nvm lar...single lor...Originally posted by bo liao:From your post, its true to a certain degree....
If those guai gals study type, can learn something from that particular guy.Its possible for tat guy top be more appling then normal guys that dun hv much to share..
Its also depends on what age group u are talking about.
EDITED: For now, i only see rich guys become more appealing...
Of cos got some poor guys they is knn lucky that have a good & understanding gf tat stick wid them.