Understanding And Feelings Of Others

• hudax1

  2 Jul 07, 20:03

  Hey,
  
  I have wandering to make due to understanding of others. Can we as human beings understand people thru observations?
  
  With/without understand feelings. Can we look at people thru fidget of eyes and expressions. Care to explain in details about it?
  
  Can reasoning kills feelings of another. Let me elaborate and give, Example "Why are we tired"? Perhaps we are tired. Also we are tired. Can this gives us assume that it kills a feeling of arousement of FEELINGS?
  
  You mind giving me your views and discuss about it?
  
  Regards Hudax
• BusSpeeder

  2 Jul 07, 20:05

  Originally posted by hudax1:

  Hey,
  
  I have wandering to make due to understanding of others. Can we as human beings understand people thru observations?
  
  With/without understand feelings. Can we look at people thru fidget of eyes and expressions. Care to explain in details about it?
  
  Can reasoning kills feelings of another. Let me elaborate and give, Example "Why are we tired"? Perhaps we are tired. Also we are tired. Can this gives us assume that it kills a feeling of arousement of FEELINGS?
  
  You mind giving me your views and discuss about it?
  
  Regards Hudax

  oh hudax is here again. and no, it doesn't kill feelings.
• 0oohLaLa

  2 Jul 07, 20:08

  another thread where "SMLJ" seems like an appropiate term to use
• Salamon

  2 Jul 07, 20:08

  catch no ball
• hudax1

  2 Jul 07, 20:13

  My point is all that I say it matters right. It work?
• Cool-gal

  2 Jul 07, 20:13

  i know it this time.
  u wanna read ple's feeling thru their body language rite?? i think MPH sells this kind of book.
  i only know afew of body languages.
  actually quite easy, u can try relate it thru our daily activities as well.
  like wad are we thinking abt when we show this kind of body reaction, of coz it differ from everyone, but at least it gives u a guideline.
  
• hudax1

  2 Jul 07, 20:16

  Thanks CoolGirl!
  You give me experience in understanding it better. My clarified. Body language comes from Communication Skills.
  
  Before I begin. I am asking for assurance. How about expressions of people? How about language of communicating to others?
• Cool-gal

  2 Jul 07, 20:28

  now i dun understand u.
  wad language of communicating? english and chinese?
  expression of ple of wad?? like did u say anything to incite their expression? or just wanna guess ple's expression thru silent observant?
• 0oohLaLa

  2 Jul 07, 20:29

  this is like chinese language then use babelfish translate
• hudax1

  2 Jul 07, 20:33

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  now i dun understand u.
  wad language of communicating? english and chinese?
  expression of ple of wad?? like did u say anything to incite their expression? or just wanna guess ple's expression thru silent observant?

  Language of communicating of skills. English Communications Skills. it can explain body langauge. Exrpression of people of emotional intelligence. It can see people expressions. ' Ignite' Not, at all. That also can thru observations. It can tell yourself of behaviour
• Xephone_xenon

  2 Jul 07, 20:52

  SMLJ
• Cool-gal

  2 Jul 07, 20:56

  huh? ok..
• relax_crown

  2 Jul 07, 20:58

  Originally posted by hudax1:

  Hey,
  
  I have wandering to make due to understanding of others. Can we as human beings understand people thru observations?
  
  With/without understand feelings. Can we look at people thru fidget of eyes and expressions. Care to explain in details about it?
  
  Can reasoning kills feelings of another. Let me elaborate and give, Example "Why are we tired"? Perhaps we are tired. Also we are tired. Can this gives us assume that it kills a feeling of arousement of FEELINGS?
  
  You mind giving me your views and discuss about it?
  
  Regards Hudax

  do u mean by seeing people body languages? don't understand, can explain simplier?
• relax_crown

  2 Jul 07, 21:00

  Originally posted by hudax1:
  Thanks CoolGirl!
  You give me experience in understanding it better. My clarified. [b]Body language comes from Communication Skills. Don't understand?
  
  Before I begin. I am asking for assurance. How about expressions of people? How about language of communicating to others? all bold words i don't understand!

• coolgeek84

  2 Jul 07, 21:03

  Originally posted by hudax1:

  Hey,
  
  I have wandering to make due to understanding of others. Can we as human beings understand people thru observations?
  
  With/without understand feelings. Can we look at people thru fidget of eyes and expressions. Care to explain in details about it?
  
  Can reasoning kills feelings of another. Let me elaborate and give, Example "Why are we tired"? Perhaps we are tired. Also we are tired. Can this gives us assume that it kills a feeling of arousement of FEELINGS?
  
  You mind giving me your views and discuss about it?
  
  Regards Hudax

  Translated to English:
  Hey,
  I was wondering regarding the way we understand others. Can we as human beings understand other people just through observations?
  
  Can we just look at people's eyes, gestures and expressions and understand what they are feeling? Care to explain in details regarding this?
  
  Can reasoning out kill the feelings of others? Let me elaborate and give you an example, Why are we tired? Perhaps we are indeed tired, also we might be tired. Does this mean that we can assume that this kills the arousement of our feelings?
  
  It still sounds damn wrong.. lolz..
• ChoCoChips

  2 Jul 07, 21:05

  Originally posted by coolgeek84:

  Translated to English:
  Hey,
  I was wondering regarding the way we understand others. Can we as human beings understand other people just through observations?
  
  Can we just look at people's eyes, gestures and expressions and understand what they are feeling? Care to explain in details regarding this?
  
  Can reasoning out kill the feelings of others? Let me elaborate and give you an example, Why are we tired? Perhaps we are indeed tired, also we might be tired. Does this mean that we can assume that this kills the arousement of our feelings?
  
  It still sounds damn wrong.. lolz..

  so what he said wasnt english?!
• ispyyy

  2 Jul 07, 21:15

  Yes... u can...
  But the first thing u have to do is :
  
  "Talk less , listen more"
  
  
• kengkia

  2 Jul 07, 21:21

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  huh? ok..

  hi Cool-gal...
• SturmDerSchatten

  2 Jul 07, 21:29

  It varies from person to person. Someone who is in tune with his/her own feelings will tend to have a greater ability to guess the feelings of another, because he/she will be able to read the signs. (Although, this is all just my own speculation, I suppose this is why introverted people can seem more empathic and sympathetic.)
  
  There's also something called "Cold Reading"; I find I can do it ok enough, but it takes a lot of practice, and you'll need to be very slick in talking (in case you make a mistake). See Wiki for details.
  
  Reasoning will not kill empathy or feelings. However, if one is too logical and direct, it will "kill" feelings, like you said. Sometimes, intuition just works best.
• Cool-gal

  2 Jul 07, 21:33

  Originally posted by kengkia:

  hi Cool-gal...

  hi ah keng.
  
• kengkia

  2 Jul 07, 21:34

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  hi ah keng.
  

  how have u been all these while....good?
• Cool-gal

  2 Jul 07, 21:54

  Originally posted by kengkia:

  how have u been all these while....good?

  buey pai lor.
  u??
• kengkia

  2 Jul 07, 21:57

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  buey pai lor.
  u??

  working,learning driving,buy 4D, eat, slp....and the cycle goes round what u think....
• Cool-gal

  2 Jul 07, 22:01

  Originally posted by kengkia:

  working,learning driving,buy 4D, eat, slp....and the cycle goes round what u think....

  wahhh, not bad leh.
  full of activities sia..
  
• coolgeek84

  2 Jul 07, 22:01

  Originally posted by ChoCoChips:

  so what he said wasnt english?!

  Hmmm.. As far as I know.... No?