Do not fall in love till you think you are PREPARED..
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did u hv enuff money to marry her yet?Originally posted by thelesis:Me? yes.. just broke up with my gal (4 years relationship) so now i am thinking what should i achieve now since my previous goal is to get married with her but now.. no goals.. -
Think of it this way, a gal shelf time is much shorter than a guy. Although you have wasted 4 years in the relationship, that 4 years should mean much more to your girlfriend than to you. Guy tends to look for younger gal whereas gal tend to look for more mature guy...Originally posted by thelesis:Me? yes.. just broke up with my gal (4 years relationship) so now i am thinking what should i achieve now since my previous goal is to get married with her but now.. no goals..
So, feeling better?
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i ever asked my fren the same question too.....i asked, isn't it painful everytime a r/s fail on you.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:hmm, there r ppl craving for a r/s, but sumtime having a gf or bf, is not really as easy and nice as it would turn out.
l hab frenz that tio hurt in r/s before..but they were juz still very keen to find themselves a partner, l dun noe y oso la..
My question Is "Is getting a partner so good?" l tink this is a bit too over rated riaos.. l see alot of ppl getting partners riaos, so much problems arouse, and not happy wif tis, complain tis and that..so what for?
he says, aiya....no feeling just let go loh, by that time how to be hurt
from the way i see things, guess its better to be alone afterall
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Originally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:Some girls love u as a person, some girls love u cos you can give them a good life
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Well, should be enough by now..Originally posted by eagle:did u hv enuff money to marry her yet?
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True... but i think is my responsiblity to take care of her since she already been 4 years with me...Originally posted by royston_ang:Think of it this way, a gal shelf time is much shorter than a guy. Although you have wasted 4 years in the relationship, that 4 years should mean much more to your girlfriend than to you. Guy tends to look for younger gal whereas gal tend to look for more mature guy...
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no, it does not apply to every person... you spend time on girlfriend because you may need to start a new family...Originally posted by thelesis:When you fall in love, you tend to put it all your time & focus on her. You never plan ahead and just want to accompany her all the while but come to think again, girls will leave you eventually. Why do i said so ?
Girls do not feel secure at all if you are not financially stable.
Too much time on them only affect your career ahead but still, some people too focus on their career, in the end... the girl said he don't spend a lot of time with her so she find another...
My point is, why guys must be responsible for everything especially in this high demanding Singapore. Imagine a guy who need to support his family as well as his girlfriend and two years and half for national service, how stressful he can be... that's why many people get to smoke to relieve their stressfulness.. Love can be everything for a while but also very fast, it become a very hurt feeling that lead people to hurt themselve...
Agree, guys ?