Why react so strongly to despos
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Wonder why in every forum, alot despos kenna flamed..
I am one...
Lemme tell you guys why despos act like this....
From a despo's POV its near impossible to get a gf, bf...
He/she will kanna reject again and again..
Firstly, before you call them despos, think.... Why they act despo?
Do you know that a despo is also a human? Do you think he is some sort of a sex maniac? Some are actually decent, hardworking...
Do they ask to be born ugly? Or do they ask to be handicapped..
Ask any despo..... when he sees a couple.. he feel envious and has low self esteem.... why this guy/gal can get bf/gf i cant .... Somemore eg, one guy just ask, the ger become his gf le..
For us despos.... we have tried everything we could think of......
Computer dating, online r/s that bombed big time, real life is also hard.
A despo has no friends...
He will feel hurt, get low self esteem ... and may fall into depression.... And when he cant take it anymore, he commits suicide.
This is a very serious matter...
While you normal guys can get gf how 'bout us handicapped?
So when you meet a despo, encourage him.Be his friend.Invite friends to blind date.
DO not flame him.Do you want him/her to go on the slow road to suicide?
If you want him to have confidence, Talk to him.Be his friend.Make him feel that's fun to live here instead of a cold uncaring place
This also applies to emos alike.So, think before you flame a despo
Sometimes, you may find yourself in a blossoming r/s.
We Tried... do not blame us.. they rejected us -
pls do not lump urself with other handicappeds, they do not act like u
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awww stfu...
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Yes, you were concise and right.Originally posted by xalkyrie:awww stfu...
No one wants to hear a shit from a compulsive liar.
Honestly TS, if you want my views. You need a reality check, go re-examine yourself - and you would realize why people treat you so 'indifferently'.
I am worried for you; your kind of personality won't bring you anywhere in life. Pray do not end up being a beggar in 30 years time, society doesn't need another problem. -
anyway, I am one.. fyi.Originally posted by Ferret:pls do not lump urself with other handicappeds, they do not act like u
And they do.... they cherish a burning desire to get a life partner like normal human beings.
Anyway, you do not understand what i am implying.
Become ugly and you will find out what im hinting at -
it's good to bring out issues like this....
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i didnt think u r one.Originally posted by Evolution IX MR:anyway, I am one.. fyi.
And they do.... they cherish a burning desire to get a life partner like normal human beings.
Anyway, you do not understand what i am implying.
Become ugly and you will find out what im hinting at
Being handicapped doesnt mean u r a despo.
And oh, u mean i am pretty ? lol -
i understand the ugly part.Originally posted by Evolution IX MR:anyway, I am one.. fyi.
And they do.... they cherish a burning desire to get a life partner like normal human beings.
Anyway, you do not understand what i am implying.
Become ugly and you will find out what im hinting at
but i dun go round being a despo.
and that its untrue despo dun have friends. -
one example is me
Classmates shun me.. this is true fyi... -
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Hey... book a place in IMH...
There are ugly people and handicapped people with gf/bf...
Being ugly/handicapped doesn't neccesary implies that you must let it get to you and make your thinking like wise...
Being ugly/handicapped is nothing, being people like you will definitely get flamed and condemn no matter where you go.
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that's a load of crap. i don't believe that's true at all. i want to call to remind you that, you don't matter.
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I'd risk a ban and +1 anytime.Originally posted by caleb_chiang:Hey... book a place in IMH...
There are ugly people and handicapped people with gf/bf...
Being ugly/handicapped doesn't neccesary implies that you must let it get to you and make your thinking like wise...
Being ugly/handicapped is nothing, being people like you will definitely get flamed and condemn no matter where you go.
You got it right. -
I fully understand u feeling... dun get too emo. Be it handicapped or born ugly (i am those scarry, pimply face one), just live it. I kena rejected 4 times liao not even a successful r/s in my whole life... now i am thinking of making lots of $$$ so that i can get a girl because of my $$$... The significance of feeling and emotional support from the other half have long diminished... to me, i am a despo just want a girl.. perhaps from japan / korea .. sg girl u marry u sufferOriginally posted by Evolution IX MR:Wonder why in every forum, alot despos kenna flamed..
I am one...
Lemme tell you guys why despos act like this....
From a despo's POV its near impossible to get a gf, bf...
He/she will kanna reject again and again..
Firstly, before you call them despos, think.... Why they act despo?
Do you know that a despo is also a human? Do you think he is some sort of a sex maniac? Some are actually decent, hardworking...
Do they ask to be born ugly? Or do they ask to be handicapped..
Ask any despo..... when he sees a couple.. he feel envious and has low self esteem.... why this guy/gal can get bf/gf i cant .... Somemore eg, one guy just ask, the ger become his gf le..
For us despos.... we have tried everything we could think of......
Computer dating, online r/s that bombed big time, real life is also hard.
A despo has no friends...
He will feel hurt, get low self esteem ... and may fall into depression.... And when he cant take it anymore, he commits suicide.
This is a very serious matter...
While you normal guys can get gf how 'bout us handicapped?
So when you meet a despo, encourage him.Be his friend.Invite friends to blind date.
DO not flame him.Do you want him/her to go on the slow road to suicide?
If you want him to have confidence, Talk to him.Be his friend.Make him feel that's fun to live here instead of a cold uncaring place
This also applies to emos alike.So, think before you flame a despo
Sometimes, you may find yourself in a blossoming r/s.
We Tried... do not blame us.. they rejected us -
Originally posted by caleb_chiang:Hey... book a place in IMH...
There are ugly people and handicapped people with gf/bf...
Being ugly/handicapped doesn't neccesary implies that you must let it get to you and make your thinking like wise...
Being ugly/handicapped is nothing, being people like you will definitely get flamed and condemn no matter where you go. 
show me an example... -
Despo =/= loner, anti-social, shy, ugly or low in confidence.
I know of people are are sociable and average looking but are despo too. -
Thats cause, their approach is too wrong
They are far better looking than us. -
pm kumlan ah?
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pm wad? and who?Originally posted by gigabyte14:pm kumlan ah? -
You really need a shrink
take note that a partner or friend(s) are something that people can do without
we do not need them to continue living..
maybe you can just die, go suicide emo kid
handicapped is nothing, its your perspective which makes everyone hate you and have the urge to flame you.
you should die... just die
don't waste natural resources..
we are depriving of resources. spare a thought for us. -
Then what's the right apporach?Originally posted by Evolution IX MR:Thats cause, their approach is too wrong
They are far better looking than us.
And who is the 'us' you are referring to in your last sentence? -
anyway, what sort of impairities does he have?
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I mean, they are normal.Why cant they go find it?
For us, we are not. -
i think its hearing.Originally posted by ChingAlvin:anyway, what sort of impairities does he have? -
then u post this for wad.
u want to be flamed also ar?