Originally posted by Evolution IX MR:
Wonder why in every forum, alot despos kenna flamed..
I am one...
Lemme tell you guys why despos act like this....
From a despo's POV its near impossible to get a gf, bf...
He/she will kanna reject again and again..
Firstly, before you call them despos, think.... Why they act despo?
Do you know that a despo is also a human? Do you think he is some sort of a sex maniac? Some are actually decent, hardworking...
Do they ask to be born ugly? Or do they ask to be handicapped..
Ask any despo..... when he sees a couple.. he feel envious and has low self esteem.... why this guy/gal can get bf/gf i cant .... Somemore eg, one guy just ask, the ger become his gf le..
For us despos.... we have tried everything we could think of......
Computer dating, online r/s that bombed big time, real life is also hard.
A despo has no friends...
He will feel hurt, get low self esteem ... and may fall into depression.... And when he cant take it anymore, he commits suicide.
This is a very serious matter...
While you normal guys can get gf how 'bout us handicapped?
So when you meet a despo, encourage him.Be his friend.Invite friends to blind date.
DO not flame him.Do you want him/her to go on the slow road to suicide?
If you want him to have confidence, Talk to him.Be his friend.Make him feel that's fun to live here instead of a cold uncaring place
This also applies to emos alike.So, think before you flame a despo
Sometimes, you may find yourself in a blossoming r/s.
We Tried... do not blame us.. they rejected us
Despos are divided into different categories.
Are u the type that goes around and ask every girl for their tel number?
Are u the type that will pester the girl non-stop even if its clear she ain't into u?
Are u the type that will go and try and tackle ur best friend's "target", despite knowing that ur best friend likes her alot, and have indicated so?
Are u the type that go and tell the gal bad things about ur best friend, and stab him in the back?
For ur info, i had encountered these type of people, especially the last 2 points I mention.
So now u know why people don't like despos?
Of course, despos are human too, we must treat them with respect. But when is too much...too much?