China Girls conned by Singapore men
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Be fair lah... he was not stereotyping them as innocent, just that most of them are simply "doing business" with Singapore men and not conning them... sure there are some out to con Singapore men... but does that make all of them like that... remember it is some... not all...
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beware of hairy underarms prcs.
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i never said ALL were evil and out to con sg men of their CPF money.. what i'm saying is, he's stereotyping them as well as having no choice and asking others to have an open mind, yet not opening his mind to the possiblity (albeit it maybe a shockingly rude one) that it might just be possible that what the other forumers are saying actually do hold some truth as well.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Be fair lah... he was not stereotyping them as innocent, just that most of them are simply "doing business" with Singapore men and not conning them... sure there are some out to con Singapore men... but does that make all of them like that... remember it is some... not all... -
YEAH YEAH YEAH Let em taste their own medicineOriginally posted by FireIce:finally some SG men are getting smarter.
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OK...Originally posted by thumbelina:i never said ALL were evil and out to con sg men of their CPF money.. what i'm saying is, he's stereotyping them as well as having no choice and asking others to have an open mind, yet not opening his mind to the possiblity (albeit it maybe a shockingly rude one) that it might just be possible that what the other forumers are saying actually do hold some truth as well. -
maybe its some chinamen pretending to be singaporean guys who conned them?
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just by looking can you tell the difference between a chinaman and a local chinese guy?
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Huh?Originally posted by thumbelina:y don't u "open urself up to other possiblities" as well and consider that it is possible that these china girls have really been telling u a great big lie? as much as the rest of us should "stop stereotyping" them and thinking that they're money-eating, husband-grabbing $lut$, shouldn't u stop stereotyping them as being innocent little poor things, with no choice/was tricked? as u said so urself, "don't go around generalising, have an open mind, be open to more ideas instead of stereotyipng others". not everyone who tells u a sob-sob story while standing along a geylang street is an angel. even anna nicole smith wasn't as poor thing as she made herself out to be pre-playboy.
Did I stereotype them as "innocent little poor things"? I merely ask that people should not stereotype others based on their country of origin or otherwise. I did not say that ALL of them are innocent.
If you insist, then "all Chinese women are money eating, husband grabbing s|ut". Then maybe the government should ban all Chinese women from coming into Singapore? Right?
Since Chinese women are like that, the Chinese men should be worse. Maybe the government should not be investing in China altogether, since there is not a single Chinese in China who is honourable. Do you agree? Maybe we should ban all Chinese from coming to Singapore, since their sole intention is to grab your husband.
I do not know what kind of grieviances you have against the Chinese women, maybe your husband was snatch by them. But you have to understand, if your husband has strong principles, he won't have been left you for the China women. It takes two to tango.
Geez!! I hope you realised the errors of your thinking. It's stupid! This is my final post here, think whatever you want to, it's not my problem anyway, just highlighting fallacious stereotyping. I hope that with the stereotyping you do, you will accept the stereotyping that other countries give Singapoeans when you visit their countries.
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then that is great, why don't u marry one or get a china gf and let us know how are the china wife or gf?Originally posted by jianfish9:Personally I got nothing against China girls. In fact I find them quite nice and no way inferior to Sg one. I even think that they may make better partners. At least those that I know of.
Wonder why everyone seems to be against them. -
Well, its definitely not out of consideration.Originally posted by qlqq9:then that is great, why don't u marry one or get a china gf and let us know how are the china wife or gf?
Perhaps when the time is right. -
[quote]Originally posted by maurizio13:
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Huh?
Did I stereotype them as "innocent little poor things"? I merely ask that people should not stereotype others based on their country of origin or otherwise. I did not say that ALL of them are innocent.
#1. u're highlighting that others are stereotyping, but u're stereotyping them as well and have no qualms about that. stereotyping doesn't mean only in a negative sense. even if u see them in a positive light, but to the effect of stereotyping, it still is stereotyping. if i saw u in the wrong light, and thought u said ALL of them are innocent, i apologise
If you insist, then "all Chinese women are money eating, husband grabbing s|ut". Then maybe the government should ban all Chinese women from coming into Singapore? Right?
#2. i NEVER insisted that "all Chinese women are money eating, husband grabbing s|ut" what i said, and i quote word for word was "as much as the rest of us should stop stereotyping them and thinking that they're money-eating, husband-grabbing $lut$....". meaning, YES i actually agree with u (LO AND BEHOLD) that we shouldn't stereotype them as blah blah blah.
Since Chinese women are like that, the Chinese men should be worse. Maybe the government should not be investing in China altogether, since there is not a single Chinese in China who is honourable. Do you agree? Maybe we should ban all Chinese from coming to Singapore, since their sole intention is to grab your husband.
#3. now u are going way off tangent. and y shuld china men be worse? where's the logic
I do not know what kind of grieviances you have against the Chinese women, maybe your husband was snatch by them. But you have to understand, if your husband has strong principles, he won't have been left you for the China women. It takes two to tango.
#4. this is a forum, not a wrestling ring. i nvr attacked u personally, n i don't see y u have to either. we're not playing a 'yo mama so fat' game here. dont' u think its a little bit over the top for u to have to assume that everyone with a bad impression with them means they have some personal grievance against them? using this little logic of urs, i might as well assume that ur pretty good impression of them stems frm u having been treated and serviced u in a pretty good way.
Geez!! I hope you realised the errors of your thinking. It's stupid! This is my final post here, think whatever you want to, it's not my problem anyway, just highlighting fallacious stereotyping. I hope that with the stereotyping you do, you will accept the stereotyping that other countries give Singapoeans when you visit their countries.
#5. i also hope that with the stereotyping you do and whatever 'errors in ur thinking' and may i add, reading, you will accept the stereotypes that others have. and in case all this is too much for u take, i'll just make a quick summary, the point i raised was for u to accept the view points of others as much as u want others to accept ur view ponits that u don't see anything wrong with them and think they're quite nice pple. others think there's everything wrong with them, and don't like them. i'm learning to accept ur pov, y don't u learn to accept that of the other forumers here as well.
oh and btw, besides learning all that, u might also want to learn to not assume that i was married and my dearest hubby left me for the china woman.. for all u know, i might not b married. or for that matter, i might be THE china woman -
then good luck to you.Originally posted by jianfish9:Well, its definitely not out of consideration.
Perhaps when the time is right. -
And I thought it should be the other way round.
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Dog bites man is not news...Originally posted by KrU:And I thought it should be the other way round. -
Stereo-typing is a form of prejudice. Every nationality has its fair share of 'black' sheeps. If you say gals from mainland China is here to cheat, con, or trap SG men - then what about those who got trapped or cheated? Do you think these men were not after 'something' from these gals?
Their lusts, greeds, desires or maybe sympathies let their guards down not just their pants! -
snake head trick people into salvery, gamblers who dont have a choice. the china pros in sg comes to sg using social passes, at their own will. china god is monies.Originally posted by maurizio13:of course we all know they can earn big money in short time. but what is the ultimate reason? did you do case study? if you were a Chinese mainlander in their position, you probably do the same. so.....
don't form generalisation about others without first understanding them first. there are cases of girls being tricked into prostitution on the premise of jobs in developed countries. those snake heads would then force these girls into prostitution to make money for themselves. lots of scenarios around, so don't go around generalising, have an open mind, be open to more ideas instead of stereotyping others.
maybe those prostitutes are the sole daughter of 2 elderly folks who needs medical attention and food. -
Thanks, I hope I can succeed in chasing the one I like.Originally posted by qlqq9:then good luck to you. -
hope if you succeed , you will treat her well and that she will be nice and good.Originally posted by jianfish9:Thanks, I hope I can succeed in chasing the one I like. -
YAY! Hope this serves as a deterrence to them.
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You guys know what's going to happen yeah?
This will be huge news in China; that is, huge comparatively. Even the least read tabloid there (much less, their online forums), has circulation/viewership many times our population.
Conclusion #1 - bad rep. of Singapore; poorer ties with China.
In my head, albeit less politically correct, still a likely possibility:
We will see an influx (or more accurately, a continuity) of Chinese into our tiny island, of which, based on past precedent, many would end up in questionable professions or be the source of public outcry (for whatever reason). The aforementioned incidents only gives them the right to raise this as a defence to their actions; or at least, justification.
Conclusion #2 - Hate brings hate.
Frankly, I wouldn't be surprised if the men in question weren't Singaporeans. TBH, roxy square at least, is frequented by Malaysians; not that I am insinuating anything but I guess quite generally, it is fair to state that Singaporeans don't have the balls to commit something like that - not for such minor returns at least.
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In response to some of the earlier posts, I don't think it is unfair to say that the Chinese have a tendency towards exaggeration. Generalization or not.
We have seen multiple instances in the media of Chinese nationals creating a mountain out of a molehill. Again, comparatively, similar incidents/accidents involving locals do not receive as much coverage, or at least, their plights are not portrayed as favourably. -
woo hoo! its the revenge of the singaporeans!
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Spore men should just masterbate and save money. Some china girls never wash their private area - smelly and fishy. Their armpit hair thick and sweaty.
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especially the dirty old uncles who always throng geylang to select the young pretty china girls.Originally posted by norm:Spore men should just masterbate and save money. Some china girls never wash their private area - smelly and fishy. Their armpit hair thick and sweaty.