Opinion on girls who love to club
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i cannot agree more to oOprinceOo and sEphIrOth.Originally posted by BadzMaro:Avoidence is one thing. To be prepared and know the risks involve and how to minimise and act or react appropriately.
now what comes into play are temptations. how well can you resist when the atmosphere is so right to get loose. -
such stuff is like terrorist attacks. rape too. so the same goes for molestation and being taken advantage. males can be the target of assault and theft too.
if we minimize it, we have already occured some form of damage or loss. however, preparation and prevention is ideal. the best is definitely prevention of visiting such places.
the 2nd option is risk avoidance. e.g not messing with strangers, not going secluded spot. that would be the 2nd option.
thirdly in the event of such an occurence, mitigation is the final and last resort.
we never wan to mitigate any sudden events or emergency because they involve some form of loss. therefore, we try to eliminate them. if some people feel there is certainly a need to go, we seek the second option.
however, some people tend to see these as out of the question and therefore do not take such risks into consideration.
remember no option is right or wrong. its all up to an individual. it is not my right to condemn. -
Opinion, Its depend on the situation.
If a flirty typeof girl going club to flirt and get drunk it is too TURN OFF.
A girl who go for clubbing to meet friends and to remove stress it is quite alrite^_^ -
Girls club u say they hiao........
Girls stay home to knit and read, u say they boring.........
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wad u said is pretty right.Originally posted by :Girls club u say they hiao........
Girls stay home to knit and read, u say they boring.........
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girls don't club doesn't mean they can't do other things than knit and read.Originally posted by :Girls club u say they hiao........
Girls stay home to knit and read, u say they boring......... -
If you are weak , u will fail and fall for the temptation. If u are strong willed and know your purpose there , you will not fall into those kind of temptations. Experiences will also help in knowing or understanding the situation and the kind of person u have contact with.Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:i cannot agree more to oOprinceOo and sEphIrOth.
now what comes into play are temptations. how well can you resist when the atmosphere is so right to get loose.
In the end its up to every single individual. They may be on a mission to score chicks so if they get b|tch slapped around by other ppl or used n abused by the girls , they themselves are to blame. Go casino , be prepared to lose the money u have.
As for the ladies , they should be well aware of the places and people they hang around with. The kind of clubs. There are the more proper clubs n there are the more dodgy clubs. Thier friends will play a major role and then again some girls/guys maybe too stubborn ,drunk or drugged up and refuse to heed the friends advice.
If u TOTALLY want to avoid ANY kind of negative affects or situations then dont go. Those that dont like watch crowds e.g guys/girls, alchohol and dancing to loud music and/or both wouldn't even consider going clubbing. So what u guys should be discussing should actually be about those that LIKE to go and how to avoid those things instead of talking about minimising and avoiding the clubs. Because those that like clubbing either likes girls/guys alchohol and loud music. That is what the purpose of a club is! That are the main factors to what attracts who to where.
I flippin have a club myself i know man. I have seen all kinds of situations go down. And alot of them are to blame themselves. Maybe management can step in n throw people out or have the Police standing right in the middle of the dance floor and the bar , but that aint gonna work. IF i see someone trying to drug the girl , we as management will step in. Staff will warn patrons or any wouldbe victims of drugged drinks. But i tell u one thing. Most drug cases happen within the group of friends.
U cannot save everyone. U can advice and warn.
Not girl that goes clubbing is like what u guys think. True they may be on missions , revealing clothes , socialise , expand circle..whatever sh|t. They go , they should know the risks. -
some thinks that they are strong. but in fact they are weak. and when things happen, its too late.Originally posted by BadzMaro:If you are weak , u will fail and fall for the temptation. If u are strong willed and know your purpose there , you will not fall into those kind of temptations. Experiences will also help in knowing or understanding the situation and the kind of person u have contact with.
In the end its up to every single individual. They may be on a mission to score chicks so if they get b|tch slapped around by other ppl or used n abused by the girls , they themselves are to blame. Go casino , be prepared to lose the money u have.
As for the ladies , they should be well aware of the places and people they hang around with. The kind of clubs. There are the more proper clubs n there are the more dodgy clubs. Thier friends will play a major role and then again some girls/guys maybe too stubborn ,drunk or drugged up and refuse to heed the friends advice.
If u TOTALLY want to avoid ANY kind of negative affects or situations then dont go. Those that dont like watch crowds e.g guys/girls, alchohol and dancing to loud music and/or both wouldn't even consider going clubbing. So what u guys should be discussing should actually be about those that LIKE to go and how to avoid those things instead of talking about minimising and avoiding the clubs. Because those that like clubbing either likes girls/guys alchohol and loud music. That is what the purpose of a club is! That are the main factors to what attracts who to where.
I flippin have a club myself i know man. I have seen all kinds of situations go down. And alot of them are to blame themselves. Maybe management can step in n throw people out or have the Police standing right in the middle of the dance floor and the bar , but that aint gonna work. IF i see someone trying to drug the girl , we as management will step in. Staff will warn patrons or any wouldbe victims of drugged drinks. But i tell u one thing. Most drug cases happen within the group of friends.
U cannot save everyone. U can advice and warn.
Not girl that goes clubbing is like what u guys think. True they may be on missions , revealing clothes , socialise , expand circle..whatever sh|t. They go , they should know the risks. -
One thing I don't understand though is why girls like to wear revealing clothes, and when they get ogled at, they looked pissed off..
Oh man..if you don't want to be ogled at, then what's the point of wearing revealing clothes? Might as well wear modestly, then there will definitely be no guys ogling at them.. -
Maybe because they like to look pretty , hot and sexy? within the circle of friends ?Originally posted by alleggerita:One thing I don't understand though is why girls like to wear revealing clothes, and when they get ogled at, they looked pissed off..
Oh man..if you don't want to be ogled at, then what's the point of wearing revealing clothes? Might as well wear modestly, then there will definitely be no guys ogling at them..
which girl dont like to look pretty ,hot and sexy u tell me...
Maybe she trying to get her crushes's attention ? It can be a multitude of reasons man.. lol.. -
fashion reveals less as the society opens up and puts aside its conservative sideOriginally posted by alleggerita:One thing I don't understand though is why girls like to wear revealing clothes, and when they get ogled at, they looked pissed off..
Oh man..if you don't want to be ogled at, then what's the point of wearing revealing clothes? Might as well wear modestly, then there will definitely be no guys ogling at them..
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no idea man.Originally posted by xalkyrie:man wats up with this library boy. no more books left to read? -
Like i said , you cant save everyone. Those that are humble and have humility will accept the hand of salvation and are worthy to be saved. Those that are too proud and dellusions of greatness will drown themselves.Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:some thinks that they are strong. but in fact they are weak. and when things happen, its too late.
Many wants to save , many refuses advice of the experienced and want to try themselves. There are those that say wisdom comes through experience. True , but if something happens , thier own stupidity is to blame.
One doesnt have to kill to know what is murder.
Even superman cant save everyone. -
gals love clubbing n guys love to visit pros.
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yar, so best isto avoid. don't test the water unless you are very sure.Originally posted by BadzMaro:Like i said , you cant save everyone. Those that are humble and have humility will accept the hand of salvation and are worthy to be saved. Those that are too proud and dellusions of greatness will drown themselves.
Many wants to save , many refuses advice of the experienced and want to try themselves. There are those that say wisdom comes through experience. True , but if something happens , thier own stupidity is to blame.
One doesnt have to kill to know what is murder.
Even superman cant save everyone. -
going back to the pre historic days.Originally posted by sEphIrOth:fashion reveals less as the society opens up and puts aside its conservative side -
Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:going back to the pre historic days.
not then la!too extreme! -
why u all so lor-saw one? what's there to debate?
my stand is: if you wanna find quality w*ores, go to clubs.
wild girls, free girls etc....better than geylang.
every female you see there, except the auntie cleaners, is a w*ore.
they're free, but thing is that you gotta amuse them and sweet talk them.
after that, they're yours.
i have 0% interest in girls who go to bars/pubs/clubs.
i only want pretty girls who are modern but behave like those in the early 90s (BBQ, movies etc.). -
I feel that revealing outfits and partying all the time doesn't mean anything. Some people are just the fun loving type. As long as they know their boundaries and their boyfriend trust her, why not?Originally posted by holden:Why do girls like to club? For some single girls I understand - they go to see guys, increase the probability of getting attached.
Some go to party with their girls, meet friends from different groups all under one house.
For those that already have boyfriends why do they still club? Is twice a week considered excessive? Sure they want to party with their girls, network, etc. But is clubbing with one other female friend any fun at all?
And even then what's the point of wearing revealing outfits with plunging necklines if not to attract members of the opposite sex. And I'm talking about those who already have boyfriends. By all means dance crazily with your girlfriends, but why the need for such revealing outfits. I don't understand.
Can someone enlighten me. Is it worthwhile dating a girl who likes to club?
If you are attached to one who do not know the boundaries, I suggest a quick break would spare you the pain.
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why do u need sign board?Originally posted by parn:I think it's up to the guys to decide if they really wanna date the girl in the first place. Girls don't go clubbing and paste a signboard on their forehead saying "DATE ME PLS".
And it doesn't really matter if either gender feels like showing off their sexiness to the other gender if they are feeling sexy on that day.
We should be allowed to show off as much as we can whenever we're entitled to do so. Else, what's the quality difference between us and the rest?
non verbal actions from these girls are more than enough for sign board.
u can't pull that off. -
What the hell is all this debates.
Guys and girls go clubbing for the SOLE sake of getting attention.
One can stop all the bullshyt about going there for dance and drinks because if that is the sole purpose,then they would have done it in a pub or a place where they can dance to the wall.
Now back on,if ppl dun club because of seeling attention of a certain level,then why even bother to dress to impress?dance to impress? -
last time i young while i still clubbing
majority the girl friends that i knew hor
go there just to get free drinks nia
and get a temp bf to pay for free ride and this and that
i mean nothing wrong in that
if you want to ask them out
they will ask you you pay for my drinks ar
yes, they say on ar
if say no , then too bad dun want to go
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*roll my eyes! Roll my eyes!* My goodness!! I can't believe that man... people have different interest wat.. how many gals like socceer and games?????Originally posted by ghimpheng:but loving soccer is good as it is a sports @ all compare to clubbing drinking and all kinds of stuffs and computer games as long as it is not addiction it is still better than clubbing -
Ok....
I'm admit... I partied a lot, i enjoy drinking with my frenz guys or gals.
Dressing: Gals are can be quite competitive even when they are with a group of gal frenz, r concerned about ppl's opinion when it comes to their outlook. When ur groups of frenz dresses up for party, would you like to dress sloppily? When gals dresses up, it boost our confidence. Even when we look into the mirror, at least it's also more pleasant to our own eyes. I dun understand what's everyone's definition of wearing too sexy? a spagetti top and a pair of skinny jeans might be too sexy for 1, but is normal for the other.
Clubbing: For me, I like to dance to the music, like the atmosphere when everyone is dancing to the music that they like, especially when 1 hit single is playing and you see those who are sitting down stand up and groove together. It doesn't mean dat we gals go clubbing to find new guys. Come on... do u really think we gals need any guys now? Gals without sex won't die... Of coz, it's flattering when guys come up and chat us up, it boost our ego too.. but doesn't mean we have to be real frenz with every guy that comes up to us. Yeah.. i do see if there's any hot guys around when i'm clubbing, but i just ogle, at least i know that there are still good looking guys around. So what, it's just pleasure to my eyes. I might flirt with a guy that pleasing to my eyes on that night, dance together, but that's just it lo. ( thats when i'm single)
PLEASE STOP ALL THOSE THINKING THAT GALS WHO LIKE TO PARTY LIKES TO SLEEP AROUND! THAT'S STEROTYPING! -
i don't see what's wrong with feeling attractive by dressing up and hanging with friends. like my friend summarized: as long as he comes back to me at the end of the day and we love each other, it's okay.
he/she, it doesn't matter, i think living by this rule is so much easier!