Should you reveal all your saving to your future spouse?

• NeverSayGoodBye

  27 Sep 07, 12:41

  .....haha was curious should married couple need to reveal all their personal saving to each other? Besides money in the bank, others can be investment, i.e shares or property?
• noahnoah

  27 Sep 07, 12:43

  
  
  Dont think so
  
  If i buy properties for myself put my name will do
  
  If wife buy for me
  
  then of course must put my name lar
  
  
• Fatum

  27 Sep 07, 12:45

  
  my money is her money ... her money is her money ....
• StarPuppy

  27 Sep 07, 12:45

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  Dont think so
  
  If i buy properties for myself put my name will do
  
  If wife buy for me
  
  then of course must put my name lar
  
  

  
• <Precious>

  27 Sep 07, 12:47

  That will be your worst mistake!
• xcloud23x

  27 Sep 07, 12:54

  Dun stupid la even i fark her 1 million times i also will keep 80% saving to myself.
• ispyyy

  27 Sep 07, 12:55

  Reveal reveal lor...
  I will be as poor as her...
• hisoka

  27 Sep 07, 12:58

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  my money is her money ... her money is her money ....

  wait she run away after all your money in her name how?
  
  must have contigency plan mah
• NeverSayGoodBye

  27 Sep 07, 12:59

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  Dont think so
  
  If i buy properties for myself put my name will do
  
  If wife buy for me
  
  then of course must put my name lar
  
  

  .....find me a wife like you had mentioned
• NeverSayGoodBye

  27 Sep 07, 13:01

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  my money is her money ... her money is her money ....

  .....Huh!? are you so kind?
  
  Shouldn't you keep some for yourself?
• NeverSayGoodBye

  27 Sep 07, 13:03

  Originally posted by :

  That will be your worst mistake!

  .....umm, so what you meant is not to reveal everything in your bank account?
  
  what happen if she ask where are all your money came from?
• Fatum

  27 Sep 07, 13:04

  
  can you profess to truly love a person you cannot even fully trust ? .....
• NeverSayGoodBye

  27 Sep 07, 13:04

  Originally posted by xcloud23x:

  Dun stupid la even i fark her 1 million times i also will keep 80% saving to myself.

  .....pity your wife
• mhcampboy

  27 Sep 07, 13:05

  now u all say dun reveal... but when married.. sure reveal one....
• de_middle

  27 Sep 07, 13:06

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  wait she run away after all your money in her name how?
  
  must have contigency plan mah

  he never say he got how much so why scared
• Cool-gal

  27 Sep 07, 13:07

  i wont tell my husband but he must tell me his.
  
• hisoka

  27 Sep 07, 13:09

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  can you profess to truly love a person you cannot even fully trust ? .....

  if the one you love is gulible and prone to excessive spend for example, i doubt you can fully trust her esp in items of finance.
  
  even if you truly love a person, some things trust is not enough.
• Fatum

  27 Sep 07, 13:11

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  if the one you love is gulible and prone to excessive spend for example, i doubt you can fully trust her esp in items of finance.
  
  even if you truly love a person, some things trust is not enough.

  yes I understand .....
  
  but if that's the case ... then maybe she's not the one then, eh ....
• noahnoah

  27 Sep 07, 13:11

  
  
  frankly speaking if have a fixed monthly income
  
  very easy to know how much savings left one
  
  but for sales comission basis hor
  
  can hide until no one know one
  
  
• Nata|ie

  27 Sep 07, 13:19

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  frankly speaking if have a fixed monthly income
  
  very easy to know how much savings left one
  
  but for sales comission basis hor
  
  can hide until no one know one
  
  

  Exactly!!!!
  
  I agree totally.
• kiss_my (_i_)

  27 Sep 07, 13:21

  NeverSayGoodBye
• noahnoah

  27 Sep 07, 13:22

  Originally posted by Nata|ie:

  Exactly!!!!
  
  I agree totally.

  If future wife ask
  
  hows the sales
  
  got close bo
  
  Just said no will do
  
• Cool-gal

  27 Sep 07, 13:39

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  If future wife ask
  
  hows the sales
  
  got close bo
  
  Just said no will do
  

  
  wife cheater alert!!
• relax_crown

  27 Sep 07, 13:41

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....haha was curious should married couple need to reveal all their personal saving to each other? Besides money in the bank, others can be investment, i.e shares or property?

  i won't tho..... haha
• Master -_-

  27 Sep 07, 13:43

  sounds like my auntie...when she divorced my uncle(who's my father's brother), we later found out she owns 3 terrace houses and a condo in 6th avenue and Dalvey estate all these while, she said she stayed in a 3 room flat at redhill