when guys say *you dont know her good* ...

• funniegal

  19 Oct 07, 03:07

  what good mostly is leh?
  
  this guy rot with this gal very long.. but this gal, is not pretty, and short...everyone of his frend is shock to see him go with this gal. And heard that is internet meet one. And one the day meet, they gal/bf liao.
  
  nvm.. she pregant...and he say is his baby.. So all his frend ask him to go DNA...but he die die dont want go and insist is his..Ok..lor..up to now..baby 1yr old ba..haven go marry...and the baby is under the gal names..
  
  and the boy father use PI to check on his gal background....and found out she has another boy kid......
  
  but...the boy still dont want to leave..? he sometimes complain he is 'cham' and tired... then on the other hand say aiya You dont know her good..?
  
  WHAT GOOD??
  
  We thought maybe the gal give sex to him...but heard..like dont have...
  
  so i wonder..guys...when you want to let go of this gal..but cannot let go..whats the main reason leh
  
• speakupforyourrights

  19 Oct 07, 03:08

  +1
• gunner77

  19 Oct 07, 03:11

  
  i don understand the last part
• funniegal

  19 Oct 07, 03:16

  Originally posted by gunner77:

  
  i don understand the last part

  oh means..u into this relationship...but everytime you complain...abt this gal..and...then you still dont wan break of with her..and say You dont know her good.
  
  so..when u wan let go but cant let go..what is the reason leh. the good is what good
• Detached

  19 Oct 07, 03:17

  You know sometimes people got so obsessed with their significant other, they can see no wrong. It's not even love, just a reluctance to leave their comfort zone or even a blind obsession.
  
  There are those who love to play the role of a tragic hero; trapped in the most unpleasant of situation but refusing to leave. Don't be surprised people like them exist.
  
  Well, if that guy in the story is a friend of yours. You've already tried to persuade him, the rest is entirely up to him. Lets just hope he would open his eyes soon.
• seotiblizzard

  19 Oct 07, 03:18

  Originally posted by funniegal:

  oh means..u into this relationship...but everytime you complain...abt this gal..and...then you still dont wan break of with her..and say You dont know her good.
  
  so..when u wan let go but cant let go..what is the reason leh. the good is what good

  i think he meant you dont know her well enough.
  
• funniegal

  19 Oct 07, 03:19

  Originally posted by Detached:

  You know sometimes people got so obsessed with their significant other, they can see no wrong. It's not even love, just a reluctance to leave their comfort zone or even a blind obsession.
  
  There are those who love to play the role of a tragic hero; trapped in the most unpleasant of situation but refusing to leave. Don't be surprised people like them exist.
  
  Well, if that guy in the story is a friend of yours. You've already tried to persuade him, the rest is entirely up to him. Lets just hope he would open his eyes soon.

  open eyes..soon
• funniegal

  19 Oct 07, 03:20

  Originally posted by seotiblizzard:

  i think he meant you dont know her well enough.
  

  ya..but her reputation is bery lousy..bery bad.. so we still wonder she got what gd
• Detached

  19 Oct 07, 03:20

  Originally posted by funniegal:

  open eyes..soon

  For the long paragraphs, you patronized me with some stupid smileys. Knn.
• funniegal

  19 Oct 07, 03:21

  Originally posted by Detached:

  For the long paragraphs, you patronized me with some stupid smileys. Knn.

  hehehehe paiseh cos..i dont know what to write..so end up lazy kekeee
• seotiblizzard

  19 Oct 07, 03:26

  Originally posted by funniegal:

  ya..but her reputation is bery lousy..bery bad.. so we still wonder she got what gd

  a person with lousy reputation doesnt mean shes bad deep down inside.
  
  Its all in the name of LOVE la.
  lol
  LOVE is blind.
  
• Lorry`

  19 Oct 07, 03:27

  maybe he sees more of her good side than her bad....
  and the girl know how to coax the guy, makin him and dont want to leave her
  
  some girls also like that what, the guy dont treat her good but she still stick with him
• stellazio

  19 Oct 07, 03:39

  chim sia..
• Darkness_hacker99

  19 Oct 07, 03:56

  "You don't know her good"?
  
  I don't really know what is the intended meaning..
  
  Is it?
  
  1) You don't know her well enough
  
  2) You don't know her positive/good trait
  
  OR
  
  3) It's good that you don't know her
  
  
• Lorry`

  19 Oct 07, 04:09

  it means the guy was tellin people 'You dont know whats good bout her ....'
  
  the 'her' means the gf
• funniegal

  19 Oct 07, 06:25

  Originally posted by seotiblizzard:

  a person with lousy reputation doesnt mean shes bad deep down inside.
  
  Its all in the name of LOVE la.
  lol
  LOVE is blind.
  

  she's bad deep down realli
  
  sigh...love is blind....blind blind..
• funniegal

  19 Oct 07, 06:26

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  "You don't know her good"?
  
  I don't really know what is the intended meaning..
  
  Is it?
  
  1) You don't know her well enough
  
  2) You don't know her positive/good trait
  
  OR
  
  3) It's good that you don't know her
  
  

  er....u translate into chinese. Yyou dont know her good
• Darkness_hacker99

  19 Oct 07, 06:30

  
• funniegal

  19 Oct 07, 06:34

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  

  yep..but add one more DE . beside the hao
• Darkness_hacker99

  19 Oct 07, 06:38

  Originally posted by funniegal:

  yep..but add one more DE . beside the hao

  Oh I see
  
  So it's
  
  This --> You don't know her positive/good trait
• funniegal

  19 Oct 07, 06:45

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Oh I see
  
  So it's
  
  This --> You don't know her positive/good trait

  er...maybe..kekee..
• AndrewPKYap

  19 Oct 07, 07:04

  Originally posted by funniegal:

  what good mostly is leh?
  
  this guy rot with this gal very long.. but this gal, is not pretty, and short...everyone of his frend is shock to see him go with this gal. And heard that is internet meet one. And one the day meet, they gal/bf liao.
  
  nvm.. she pregant...and he say is his baby.. So all his frend ask him to go DNA...but he die die dont want go and insist is his..Ok..lor..up to now..baby 1yr old ba..haven go marry...and the baby is under the gal names..
  
  and the boy father use PI to check on his gal background....and found out she has another boy kid......
  
  but...the boy still dont want to leave..? he sometimes complain he is 'cham' and tired... then on the other hand say aiya You dont know her good..?
  
  WHAT GOOD??
  
  We thought maybe the gal give sex to him...but heard..like dont have...
  
  so i wonder..guys...when you want to let go of this gal..but cannot let go..whats the main reason leh
  

  Could be guilty conscience. Irrational fears. They feel so wei da. People hor, ridiculous one hor, they believe in ghosts one hor and scare themselves for nothing. They believe in God/gods one hor, just to comfort themselves...
• funniegal

  19 Oct 07, 08:58

  Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:

  Could be guilty conscience. Irrational fears. They feel so wei da. People hor, ridiculous one hor, they believe in ghosts one hor and scare themselves for nothing. They believe in God/gods one hor, just to comfort themselves...

  wa..chim..chim.. i c i c
• AndrewPKYap

  19 Oct 07, 09:08

  Originally posted by funniegal:

  wa..chim..chim.. i c i c

  Dear, don't worry too much about other people... just be clear minded in your own mind and develop your mind so that you become a happy healthy person... it starts with the mind and that leads to wise decisions in your daily living.
  
  Some people will argue that it starts with your mind and ends with your mind, but that is too chim already....
  
  So develop your own mind (hahaha not so easy, easy to say) to a point where you can make wise decisions daily and you will live a happy healthy life.
• de_middle

  19 Oct 07, 11:02

  hmm, the boy is a rare breed