Girls' or Guys' fault when guys become horny and perverted??

• Michaeled

  22 Oct 07, 18:55

  In my opinion, who is to blame is immaterial.
  
  Girls like being the center of attention.
  
  Guys just want to get some action.
• spinsugar

  23 Oct 07, 11:20

  hmmm.. I overestimated you.
  
  "Buying" meaning you actually intend to "buy into" these girls. Sorry I didn't explain that earlier, I forget to take into account who I'm addressing sometimes.
  
  That statement that all girls who dress provocatively "zao geng" this and that to "tempt customers" - Lol, sure if you're talking about attracting a suitable mate. Note, suitable mate can mean one night stands, flings, or long-term, depending on the girl, but you can't just go out there and grab a scantily-clad girl and expect her to respond like a prostitute (which is what you're suggesting all these scantily clad girls are trying to be like).
  
  For example, if a girl smells and looks good, it doesn't mean that she is trying to invite potential thieves like you... why can't you accept it as a different form of self-expression, and what's wrong with it as long as she carries herself well and doesn't expose the icky bits and underwear?
  
  There's a thick line between gentlemen and creeps, and that's 2 things - self-control and maturity of thought. You might appear to have abit of the former, but the latter...... hmm.
  
  "as a guy"? I can't get turned on by these girls unless I'm lesbian or bi, so... hmm. Bru bru, wrong number?
  
  

  Originally posted by Seven_Dragon:

  Famous Amos sell cookies, right?
  They use smell and looks to tempt potential customers, right?
  so as a potential customer, u stop and stare and your saliva drop while you look at the cookies hungrily, right?
  It's disgusting to have that look and desires, right?
  If your itchy hand go steal a cookie, u r wrong, right?
  
  So using your analogy...
  These girls are trying to sell their body, right? [wrong]
  They zao geng their white panty, showing their boobs, cleavage, backside to tempt potential customers, right? [wrong again]
  so as a guy, u stop and stare and your saliva drop while you look at these girls in a horny and perverted way, r u wrong? [debatable]
  It's disgusting to have that look and desires, right? [if you do not have these desires, you may be gay]
  If your itchy hand go and touch her boobs, backside, white panty or pull down her skirt, u r wrong, right? [you say leh]
  
  So wrong analogy, because you buy cookies but you don't buy these girls... these girls aren't hookers, they are normal folks only...
  
  please try again wrong number