Quite true... eventually, the older single women in Singapore will have to lower their expectations or start looking for a rich foreign man if they still want to get married.
sg men can be loser here but there are viet, thai, china girl who wants them.
sg men are a hit overseas!
Not to mention thai,viet and china ladies are hella more attractive than singapore gals.
not for long lar, the educated viet and china girls are beginning to have a taste for the exqusite..Originally posted by BoxHiller:sg men can be loser here but there are viet, thai, china girl who wants them.
sg men are a hit overseas!
At least they prove their worth by having qualities of a men's wife.Originally posted by beavan:easiest way out of their poverty cycle.
I don't really like getting married but should i have to,i've already decided not to marry/date anyone who is singaporean.Originally posted by SoulDivine:Quite true... eventually, the older single women in Singapore will have to lower their expectations or start looking for a rich foreign man if they still want to get married.
Sometimes, I wonder what is the percentage of Singaporean men that will actually marry a local woman. 50% ?
Because from my family history (true story)...My grandfather (Singaporean) marry my grandmother (Indonesian).
My father (Singaporean) marry my mother (Malaysian).
My 2nd uncle (Singaporean) marry my aunt (Indonesian).
My 3rd uncle (Singaporean) marry my aunt (Singaporean), but is now divorced.
My 4th uncle (Singaporean) marry my aunt (Malaysian).
Each of the women mentioned above becomes a Singaporean (Pink IC) after getting married to Singaporean man.
As for me, whether I will get local or foreign woman as my wife is still a big unknown.
So, assuming that the number of male and female births in Singapore are well balance, and 50% of Singaporean men wed foreign women... then how is the remaining 50% of the Singaporean women able to find a husband?
I wonder if she herself is qualify for the 5Cs.Originally posted by Catknight:Basically high calibre means:
good looking
humorous
highly educated
and of course the 5C thrown in
If any singaporean males has the above list, he will probably have many admirers and girlfriends, 30plus year old women will need to stand aside.
Originally posted by Catknight:human ( man or woman ) tent to forget to ask themselve whether they meet the same citeria as what they are expecting from others......
There's this news about speeddating of singaporeans..in newpaper yesterday
The men in fact again at losing end getting rated as usual and women too but there's one particluar one I want to bring up.
34 year old financial controller Joyce Tia admitted she has high expectations and is looking forward to meeting more high calibre men with better citeria..she has the vote of highest rating from the men..
She said she did not want people to feel lousy so she she didn't give super high scores or low marks.
Though Sg women are not stepford women and I think most men wouldn't want that either..but enough is enough stop the male bashing and take agood look at oneself..
Maybe most singaporean men are not good enough for singles like Miss Tia,,she should look overseas and get AngMoh men.
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You ll not marry a sg gal bcos you are a foreigner mah. Yeah, foreigners should look for foreigners mah.Originally posted by boka:I don't really like getting married but should i have to,i've already decided not to marry/date anyone who is singaporean.
Even if she happens to be a nice girl,there will not be any consideration.
Simple put,since i've made a promise to never ever date local girls,it is necessary that this promise be carried out.
The remaining 50% of the female population can look for foreigners too.
But even so,foreigners especially the caucasians love filipino.
ya... I truely agreed the last sentence... woman are all the sameOriginally posted by dreamykite:You ll not marry a sg gal bcos you are a foreigner mah. Yeah, foreigners should look for foreigners mah.
Woman are all the same. Same in term of physically build and mentally build. You will realise that they are all the same after your marriage, be it they come from Malaysia, China, Sg, etc.
but still... the question is ---> In the relationship, is the effort comes from one sided only??? In these TS's case, the lady in the story is only waiting for a one sided relationship...Originally posted by ispyyy:ya... I truely agreed the last sentence... woman are all the sameThey are all the same after yr marriage... It just depends on whether both, man and woman, are willing to place efforts to solve problems together...
and not forgetting she's already 34......coming to end of PLCOriginally posted by elindra:Since she is a financial controller I would think that she wants a man who is even more successful than she is
However, men who are good, nice and more successful than she is very likely already marriedto women who were with them before they became successful
I believe there are still good men out there just that they are on par or less successful than she is
She either has to lower her standards or keep looking and maybe she will "strike gold"
However, no one can fault her for not knowing what she wants
Yeah! Totally agree. There are nice gals out there. Infact, my friends around me are all nice gals leh......Originally posted by lakopi:not all women are like tat...
i have guy fren whose gf not only accepted my fren who is lower educated than her and earn lesser than her..but also she taught him the value of saving..now they getting married.
Sorry Sg men are not losers !!!Originally posted by BoxHiller:sg men can be loser here but there are viet, thai, china girl who wants them.
sg men are a hit overseas!
are you sure? some ppl always think that outside moon is prettier than inside moon. (translate to chinese)Originally posted by boka:Not to mention thai,viet and china ladies are hella more attractive than singapore gals.