When will SG women be humble?
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Quite true... eventually, the older single women in Singapore will have to lower their expectations or start looking for a rich foreign man if they still want to get married.
sg men can be loser here but there are viet, thai, china girl who wants them.
sg men are a hit overseas!
Not to mention thai,viet and china ladies are hella more attractive than singapore gals.
Sometimes, I wonder what is the percentage of Singaporean men that will actually marry a local woman. 50% ?
Because from my family history (true story)...
My grandfather (Singaporean) marry my grandmother (Indonesian). My father (Singaporean) marry my mother (Malaysian). My 2nd uncle (Singaporean) marry my aunt (Indonesian). My 3rd uncle (Singaporean) marry my aunt (Singaporean), but is now divorced. My 4th uncle (Singaporean) marry my aunt (Malaysian).
Each of the women mentioned above becomes a Singaporean (Pink IC) after getting married to Singaporean man.
As for me, whether I will get local or foreign woman as my wife is still a big unknown.
So, assuming that the number of male and female births in Singapore are well balance, and 50% of Singaporean men wed foreign women... then how is the remaining 50% of the Singaporean women able to find a husband? -
not for long lar, the educated viet and china girls are beginning to have a taste for the exqusite..Originally posted by BoxHiller:sg men can be loser here but there are viet, thai, china girl who wants them.
sg men are a hit overseas!
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At least they prove their worth by having qualities of a men's wife.Originally posted by beavan:easiest way out of their poverty cycle.
What do local girls have to prove anyway. -
I don't really like getting married but should i have to,i've already decided not to marry/date anyone who is singaporean.Originally posted by SoulDivine:Quite true... eventually, the older single women in Singapore will have to lower their expectations or start looking for a rich foreign man if they still want to get married.
Sometimes, I wonder what is the percentage of Singaporean men that will actually marry a local woman. 50% ?
Because from my family history (true story)... My grandfather (Singaporean) marry my grandmother (Indonesian). My father (Singaporean) marry my mother (Malaysian). My 2nd uncle (Singaporean) marry my aunt (Indonesian). My 3rd uncle (Singaporean) marry my aunt (Singaporean), but is now divorced. My 4th uncle (Singaporean) marry my aunt (Malaysian).
Each of the women mentioned above becomes a Singaporean (Pink IC) after getting married to Singaporean man.
As for me, whether I will get local or foreign woman as my wife is still a big unknown.
So, assuming that the number of male and female births in Singapore are well balance, and 50% of Singaporean men wed foreign women... then how is the remaining 50% of the Singaporean women able to find a husband?
Even if she happens to be a nice girl,there will not be any consideration.
Simple put,since i've made a promise to never ever date local girls,it is necessary that this promise be carried out.
The remaining 50% of the female population can look for foreigners too.
But even so,foreigners especially the caucasians love filipino. -
Husband Store
A store that sells husbands has just opened in New York City, where a
woman may go to choose a husband.
Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store
operates. You may visit the store ONLY ONCE !
There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the
shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch . . .. you may
choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a
floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building! So, a
woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband . .
On the first floor the sign on the door reads:
Floor 1 - These men have jobs and love the Lord.
The second floor sign reads:
Floor 2 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, and love kids.
The third floor sign reads:
Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, and are
extremely good looking.
"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.
She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads:
Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop- dead
good looking and help with the housework.
"Oh, mercy me!"she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!"
Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads:
Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop- dead
gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak.
She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign
reads:
Floor 6 - You are visitor 4,363,012 to this floor.
There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that
women are impossible to please.
Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store. Watch your step as you exit
the building, and have a nice day! -
When will SG women be humble?
NEVER~!
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A lot of times it's like the woman who sets the expectations...
It's time for men to set their expectations and be choosy! Be a real man who accepts nothing less than real women.
doko -
i'm a nice girl wor
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34 year old?
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34 years old is near expiry age. After 35, will have problem giving birth.
If the guy is rich, good looking, humorous, and highly educated, he will be looking for young, beautiful girl to start a family and take care of his kid. Why would he want to look for a career woman when he himself is already successful? -
I wonder if she herself is qualify for the 5Cs.Originally posted by Catknight:Basically high calibre means:
good looking
humorous
highly educated
and of course the 5C thrown in
If any singaporean males has the above list, he will probably have many admirers and girlfriends, 30plus year old women will need to stand aside.
Looking for a perfect man???? Ya, that 'perfect man' will only appear in her dreams or when she is building castle in the air.
Well... i feel most sg guys are nicer than angmoh or foreigners, more cultured and easy going
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Originally posted by Catknight:
human ( man or woman ) tent to forget to ask themselve whether they meet the same citeria as what they are expecting from others......
There's this news about speeddating of singaporeans..in newpaper yesterday
The men in fact again at losing end getting rated as usual and women too but there's one particluar one I want to bring up.
34 year old financial controller Joyce Tia admitted she has high expectations and is looking forward to meeting more high calibre men with better citeria..she has the vote of highest rating from the men..
She said she did not want people to feel lousy so she she didn't give super high scores or low marks.
Though Sg women are not stepford women and I think most men wouldn't want that either..but enough is enough stop the male bashing and take agood look at oneself..
Maybe most singaporean men are not good enough for singles like Miss Tia,,she should look overseas and get AngMoh men.
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wait long long.
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You ll not marry a sg gal bcos you are a foreigner mah. Yeah, foreigners should look for foreigners mah.Originally posted by boka:I don't really like getting married but should i have to,i've already decided not to marry/date anyone who is singaporean.
Even if she happens to be a nice girl,there will not be any consideration.
Simple put,since i've made a promise to never ever date local girls,it is necessary that this promise be carried out.
The remaining 50% of the female population can look for foreigners too.
But even so,foreigners especially the caucasians love filipino.
Woman are all the same. Same in term of physically build and mentally build. You will realise that they are all the same after your marriage, be it they come from Malaysia, China, Sg, etc. -
Like...nevah?
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ya... I truely agreed the last sentence... woman are all the sameOriginally posted by dreamykite:You ll not marry a sg gal bcos you are a foreigner mah. Yeah, foreigners should look for foreigners mah.
Woman are all the same. Same in term of physically build and mentally build. You will realise that they are all the same after your marriage, be it they come from Malaysia, China, Sg, etc. They are all the same after yr marriage... It just depends on whether both, man and woman, are willing to place efforts to solve problems together... -
but still... the question is ---> In the relationship, is the effort comes from one sided only??? In these TS's case, the lady in the story is only waiting for a one sided relationship...Originally posted by ispyyy:ya... I truely agreed the last sentence... woman are all the same They are all the same after yr marriage... It just depends on whether both, man and woman, are willing to place efforts to solve problems together... -
Since she is a financial controller I would think that she wants a man who is even more successful than she is
However, men who are good, nice and more successful than she is very likely already married to women who were with them before they became successful
I believe there are still good men out there just that they are on par or less successful than she is
She either has to lower her standards or keep looking and maybe she will "strike gold"
However, no one can fault her for not knowing what she wants -
and not forgetting she's already 34......coming to end of PLCOriginally posted by elindra:Since she is a financial controller I would think that she wants a man who is even more successful than she is
However, men who are good, nice and more successful than she is very likely already married to women who were with them before they became successful
I believe there are still good men out there just that they are on par or less successful than she is
She either has to lower her standards or keep looking and maybe she will "strike gold"
However, no one can fault her for not knowing what she wants
maybe she might have someone who earns more, extremely good looking but might "cheat" on her...who knows, anyway good luck to MS TIA -
Hmmm... I don't think all women look into alot of attributes of a man when they find their partner. At least I don't!
I don't need a man with 5Cs, rich or handsome or whatever. What matters most is the heart!
Pleasant looking will do. He has to be filial, considerate and understanding! Most importantly, loves me for who I am.
Ideally shld be able to support the family even without me working. hehehe so I can become the housewife, take care of home and kids. But that is pretty though nowadays as the standard of living in SG is a little to high for unless you can earn alot!
Nonetheless, not all women are THAT choosy!
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not all women are like tat...
i have guy fren whose gf not only accepted my fren who is lower educated than her and earn lesser than her..but also she taught him the value of saving instead of blowing off his dough at soccer betting..now they getting married. -
Yeah! Totally agree. There are nice gals out there. Infact, my friends around me are all nice gals leh......Originally posted by lakopi:not all women are like tat...
i have guy fren whose gf not only accepted my fren who is lower educated than her and earn lesser than her..but also she taught him the value of saving..now they getting married.
Good and decent. Who cares abt 5Cs, looks and education? LOVE CONQUERS ALL!!!
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Most sg ladies want guys to be successful and wealthy. They also want them to be humourous and sensitive to their needs. For sg men, they want their ladies to be highly educated (common requirement for both genders), gentle, and understanding. The list of expectations can go on forever, but yet some unlikely couples with such expectations still get together, and some will end up in divorce one, two years later or maybe a few decades down the road.
Successful career woman will hardly want to budge in their expectations which they consider to be right and very basic requirements. The same goes for successful career men too.
So what's the point?
Dating, marriage, are not the only things in life that we should seek nor depend too much on for what we think is part of human happiness.
Human feelings, values change too often, sometimes unexpectedly, along the way at each stage of any relationship and only those who make concerted efforts to keep a relationship or marriage going will lead satisfying and meaningful lives together.
By all means, continue to improve on the good aspects of our personality and character and try to correct those not so good ones. But remember also to love ourselves as we are.
If sg women find foreigners to be better than sg men, well, the choice is theirs. What's there to find fault with or scrutinise too deeply into? We can't stop them, just as nobody tries to stop sg men from marrying overseas brides.
In fact, a portion of sg women may have such bad impression of sg men who they have met along the way, that they are actually quite comfortable with sg men looking for lifelong companionship with overseas women. Likewise, the same for sg men.
Personally, I don't think I can ever find a sg girl that's humble as suggested by TS's topic. This is from personal experiences and observations made from the real-life stories of my social circle.
I tell myself not to dream any more and to wake up from it. Dreams for romance, marriage, are best left as dreams. There are more meaningful dreams to have and to realise in real life than most of us would like to think. -
Sorry Sg men are not losers !!!Originally posted by BoxHiller:sg men can be loser here but there are viet, thai, china girl who wants them.
sg men are a hit overseas!
It is just sorry excuse given by some silly women who is dumb enough to join speed dating !!!
If you are a good Sg man, you be attached, married or if still single be confident and good enough no need to pay to be at speed dating to find someone !!!
You must go to the right place to shop !!! You go Pasar Malam to shop that the standard you get !!! Finding a good man is the same. If the man is go good, why would he be paying to joing some speed dating .... common sense .... he be doing something more worth while with his time. -
are you sure? some ppl always think that outside moon is prettier than inside moon. (translate to chinese)Originally posted by boka:Not to mention thai,viet and china ladies are hella more attractive than singapore gals.