Originally posted by forum_dude:
y complain so much

Ya, to be gracious, you should not complain so much.
This is Asia, a culture, why should we follow the west, the west have their bad point too, homosexual, psychopath, lost of virginity at young age, dirty and child sex, carry guns, drugs, alcohol abuse and high divorce rates.
What i gather from the west is that they do criticise people, but in a cuning way that we sometime cannot comprehend and thought that it was nice to hear. Just like eg, "hey lady, I guess that shoe you are wearing fit your lovely mommy too", if i do not understand, i will think that it fit my mum and look good, but actually it means "old fashion". But in the Asia context, we are more direct, " Angel, that shoes look old fashion lah", no doubt it is direct and not so nice, but it tell you the truth of it. That is one part of Asiatic culture that i love here, be direct and be truth to yourself. So in a sense, if a person eats with a open mouth, tell him the truth, if he insist that, it is the way he likes to eat, so be it.