Originally posted by OneWithTheForce:
I notice in Singapore that many of the outgoing uni educated girls often prefer Caucasians. Some of the reasons they give are- can communicate better, more outgoing than locals, less introverted.
One other thing I've noticed though is a lack of understanding and appreciation of why asian guys are like that.
It's cuz:
1. Pressure from parents to get into medicine- so all free time goes to tutoring, learning piano and violin (borrrrring). No time for music, playing weekend sports etc.
2. National service. Further regimentation of the male mind for 2 years, which females can happily avoid. Wear the same clothes every day. Woohoo.
In the meantime, girls can happily go from school to uni/work knowing they are free from this and meet "outgoing" clubbing guys- read westerners.
I know this is a bit long. But Asian guys arent boring dull saps by choice. 21 years of enforced study and soldiering can "dullify" a person.
Next time you go out with your western bf, say thank you to the SG guys, just for shouldering the burden of parental expectations and military obligations.
Yeah, I'm a bit angry. Three babes last weekend gave me the cold shoulder for white dudes.
1. Do not, and I repeat, do not condemn all SG girls. Not everyone likes westerners as their partners.
2. You just have yet to meet the one SG girl that is not like what you have seen.
3. Not all SG girls go clubbing to meet guys. Some go for their drinks or music. It may sound, "ya rite.. bullcrap" but you will be surprised.
4. Don't make SG guys sound pathetic or so honourable by saying "... say thank you to the SG guys, just for shouldering the burden of parental expectations and military obligations".
Guys like you, who ain't confident about themselves, pales in comparison to those Confident SG guys that I see.
Self reflect before you generalise the SG girls.