if you future wife like that how?
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introduce another " slave" to her & get back ur own freedomOriginally posted by CoolMyth:From HWZ:
How?
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Then what you like about her?Originally posted by CoolMyth:From HWZ:
How?
I know of a woman also like that. the hubby dotted on her too much but in the end it only suffocate the hubby.
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Your future wife is Japanese???Originally posted by CoolMyth:From HWZ:
How? -
he married a CFO?
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but the list of things he needs to pay is enough to killOriginally posted by jonchao72:If u read carefully, that woman said she willing to control his finances only...
Can reject mah...
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Forget about it bro..........Originally posted by CoolMyth:From HWZ:
How?
If they claim their pay is abit and still can spend luxuriously better dun marry.......
Juz becoz you have her it doesn't mean she will make you happy wan.......
My uncle's deceased wife used to keep all his salary under their bed without him knowing......
Very pity him you know.....you see him you become stress wan.......his clothes all tattered and torn his wife dun care wan......
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Honestly that gal is really retarded and selfish. If my gf said that to me, i will say BULLSHYT !! I dont care what she thinks..
A wife supposed to help husband to manage finance.. not controlling his money and u only use ur money for ur selfish spending on your own..
Sory man, i just wanna know are most gal in Singapore think that way ??? How ridiculous?! I mean no harm to any Sgporean gals.. Just wanna know Sg lifestyle more. -
guys should ask themselves..will marrying her lead u to a better life?..if u r worst off, then y marry her??...wont u be better off being single?..
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hmm.. but can you live without her??Originally posted by Inzaghi:guys should ask themselves..will marrying her lead u to a better life?..if u r worst off, then y marry her??...wont u be better off being single?.. -
i'd rather pcc for the rest of my life then live wif this kind of gal..Originally posted by iluvham:hmm.. but can you live without her?? -
Originally posted by CoolMyth:
I got a friend who is in the exact situation like this .. on top of that, children expenses all he got to bear while his wife go holiday alone to all over the world using her own money. If my friend want to go, he have to pay for all the expenses ... he pay for the flat and when he sell, half of the proceed go to his wife ... we thought his must be " xian nu " look cause he give so much ... but sigh ... I wonder why he ever want to get married in the first place
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we habben marry yet...
she say next time we marry,
her pay:
1) for herself to spend (she claims that her pay not alot, lan jiao... quite alot for someone with 2 years working exp only), she buys ex ex stuffs one. i see liao also heartache
my pay:
1) hse loan (i think also not alot though)
2) car loan
3) utilities
4) insurance
5) savings (optional for her)
6) misc recurring charges (eg TV license, internet, hp.....)
7) topup her expenses if she not enough to use
maid
9) my lao pei lao bu
10) her lao pei lao bu
she say to prevent me from overspending she willing to help me by taking all my $$ and everyday gib me $5(or any appropriate amt lar)....
she say if cannot fulfill the abot req then no need to get married...
sometimes i think of it also headache
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How? [/b] . .. then my wife wonder how come she never marry a guy like him ? -
there's no such things as one cant live w/o her..its all in ur mindset...n one thing, if those terms are laid down b4 marriage, u can jolly well still be w her, dun get married lorOriginally posted by iluvham:hmm.. but can you live without her?? -
$5 a day quite reasonable
see - $5 for lunch
breakfast + dinner = eat at home
still can have savings from lunch sometimes if not more than $5
i personally know quite of few of these people whose wives give them a daily allowance of $5
coz their logic is if the guys have extra $$, confirm go spend on "miscellaneous" stuff..
so at least limit the extent of these stuff
$5 a day = save the marriage 
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wow.
mabbe my dat frd is one of ur frds. -
i will zhao..
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I think he should ask his gf to do a role reversal
Pretend that he is the girl, and she the guy
If he said the exact same thing to her, how would he feel?
Even if he earns more, and bears all the bills, should she pay for her own insurance and money to her parents??? I mean that is her responsiblity after all!!
I mean how much more is he earning compared to her
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but lealli is canot liddat de lah.
yi ge da nan ren, once in a while sure got monetary obligation de.
den tell ppl he no $$$, sibei lao kui one.
outside in front of others, he is the supreme ruler.
we stil muz behave like meek lil lambs.
tell us turn rite, we turn rite; tell us turn left, we turn left.
me is dos kind hold hands oso half a dainty step behind de.
but in private at hm den it's a different story liao.
scold n whack him, tell him cook, mop the floor n pour me drinks. -
there are all kinds of people in this world.Originally posted by 4getmenot:seriously i wonder if the whole story is true... got so selfish girl?
some guys called it love.
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Eh piangz, even JC and poly students get more than $5 a day lorh.Originally posted by ShiroiYuki:$5 a day quite reasonable
see - $5 for lunch
breakfast + dinner = eat at home
still can have savings from lunch sometimes if not more than $5
i personally know quite of few of these people whose wives give them a daily allowance of $5
coz their logic is if the guys have extra $$, confirm go spend on "miscellaneous" stuff..
so at least limit the extent of these stuff $5 a day = save the marriage -
I respect myself way too much to let her to do this to me
give her a tight slap and tell her to fcuk off -
lets just put it this way.. the husband walks past a shop selling glass figurines and accidentally knocks down one costing $5.90 n his wife cannot be contacted.. he goes straight to police station..Originally posted by ShiroiYuki:$5 a day quite reasonable
see - $5 for lunch
breakfast + dinner = eat at home
still can have savings from lunch sometimes if not more than $5
i personally know quite of few of these people whose wives give them a daily allowance of $5
coz their logic is if the guys have extra $$, confirm go spend on "miscellaneous" stuff..
so at least limit the extent of these stuff $5 a day = save the marriage -
actually $50 per day is ok wad...Originally posted by BadzMaro: TIAM!
i got a friend everyday wife give him 50 bucks. He dont even have money to happy hour... kelian.. drive BMW work in big company. But dinner have to go home.
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Originally posted by Hello Kitty:outside in front of others, he is the supreme ruler.
we stil muz behave like meek lil lambs.
tell us turn rite, we turn rite; tell us turn left, we turn left.
me is dos kind hold hands oso half a dainty step behind de.
but in private at hm den it's a different story liao.
scold n whack him, tell him cook, mop the floor n pour me drinks.
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U must be kidding.Originally posted by ShiroiYuki:$5 a day quite reasonable $5 a day = save the marriage 