Confession of a SG woman
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nt all sg women like dat one la.
guys can wait, but when a woman reaches past 40, she will regret.
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petition for bf thread?
u are one brave lady!
since u are so confident of urself, y not post ur pic here? will definitely speed things up.
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Confession of a SG woman, huh? Yep, true blue, SG woman. Talk about 1 thing, drift into another, and at the end of the story, both party dunno whats going on.
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lol... you will find the right one with the time come!
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That is so not true, most woman above the age of 35 who are not married are psychological unbalanced. They are insecure and more demanding than those PYT because they know that their bio clock is working against them. When they find a man, they so really wanna tie him down, so much that they ruin the whole thing.Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:Reminds me when you talk about the young boys... I probably fit into those categories. I'm so crazy about older ladies, not that I needed someone to take care of me, in fact I took care of most of my gf and they are usually a few years older than me... Just to share, I really don't know why I am not interested in young girls, probably DNA? The ironic thing is that I look young for my age and hence I tend to attract the younger ladies. People look at my gf and they usually ask, your sister ah and I was like, noooooo! The thing I like about older ladies is that they are more emotionally stable and when it comes to love, they are really nice and tender, and they makes for good conversation. To me, they are the perfect lady to marry. But don't give up on the younger guys, they may be the perfect guy whom you're looking for. Start from coffee, and friendships, you don't have to start a r/s immediately, things can move slowly and then when you're sure he's the perfect catch, grab it, fight for it.
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That is the problem with the society nowadays, its all about " WHAT I WANT "Originally posted by Catknight:Hollywood lover
I confess. I've been a serial dater of late but I think I've gone far enough with the rebounding, bounced back really happy and now I'm wanting to be in a meaningful relationship that would lead to a serious relationship. Uh huh, yes I'm looking. (Shocking isn't it?) Just a great girl, looking for a great guy to be in a great relationship.
I'm 39, 5'2", rather fit (I love my gym!), with a sharp mind (dull on occasions like after a heavy meal) very attractive (so I've been told alot, various adjectives were used: beautiful, very pretty, Cuuuuute! etc, etc.) Been mistaken often to be in early to mid 20s, sometimes teens? I've been hit on by a 15 year old in a lan gaming place and my teenage cousins thought I still looked like a kid in my 30s 
I wouldn't call myself a sex bomb but I do turn heads very often. I'm rather artistically and musically inclined, so alot of that gets expressed at work and play. I love dancing and the outdoors So what I'm looking for in a man: someone who can get past 10 minutes of conversation with me, is kind, a gentleman, has a great smile and turns me on (hey, women need sexual attraction, too!). I'd like him to be at something like 6' to 6'3" tall and very fit. A good physique is a major turn on for me and maybe, just maybe....that Nicolas Cage type of bad boy look? (but that's really optional) Someone easy-going, fun-loving, who isn't uptight about lots of things, comfortable in his own skin and a good sport. With a broad spectrum of interests and has a mind with some breadth and depth. Reliable (will do exactly what he says he will do) and financially stable. Non-smoking, preferably. Clean and neat. Please send me pics if you do respond.
i want someone this , someone that.......maybe nicolas cage , kaneshiro, tom cruise...blah blah blah.
I think hollywood has destroyed the convenant of the institution of marriage.
In the olden days, u just get married to whoever has been chosen for you and u stick through it! Raise 7 kids and just be happy.
No dun get me wrong , i m not advocating arranged marriages, it just struck me that marriages in the olden days last no matter the circumstances.
I think people looking for life partners should focus on what he or she could contribute to building a family than what they want or expect from their partners.
This brings me to a conversation with a wife of my friend. SHe stated she wants her hubby to be financially stable, Cares about her, gentle, wan 5 Cs....blah blah blah...
I told her in return, " You cant cook, dun do housework, dun like kids. So what does a guy get in marrying you"
She can reply , " Me Lor " -
Singles club.
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Found it on Google.Originally posted by Kelthuzad:Who you quoting from?
http://singapore.asiaxpat.com/personals/womenwantingmen/
Look for (Ctrl-F) this text.
F908CDB9-F757-46FF-B9C3-F8FBED4F2146 -
you need professional help.
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LOL! you're not sure what's wrong with you, "why am I still single, am i too choosy, am I too proud or arrogant and worst of all- am I a lesbian?!!"Originally posted by Catknight:Reasons why most are singles and are not suitable homemakers
The questions that I usually get from people I know or work with is this: why am I still single, am i too choosy, am I too proud or arrogant and worst of all- am I a lesbian?!! (not that I have anything against Lesbianism but somehow the thought of it does send chills down my spine)! So I thought to myself 'that's it, i'm gonna have to do something about this instead of waiting around.' Which brings me here. What puzzles me is this: younger men seem more attracted to me and I mean really young and i'm in my late thirties!( Nope, can't see myself robbing the cradle. No.) Although many of my friends and their friends have said that I put lots of younger women to shame. Let's just say I carry myself well. My passion: dancing....something about music that moves me, the right kind of music of course. So love the dance floor, don't drink and hate being hit on at clubs especially so by drunks and younger men. No offence to you young guys but i'm definitely not into teaching you a thing or two. Somehow of late I find myself attracted to caucasian men. Again no offence to the local young men. Not into ONS. In fact, I'm keen on moving into the next phase in life that makes everything I do here in this life worthwhile and meaningful. Well if you get my drift and feel the same way, let's start talking.... Rgds, N
you can dance! which immediately widens your exposure to men and I've heard of many instances in which a person finds their significant other at the dance floor.
ok so maybe that won't work, but you're able to dress well and carry a good image of yourself amongst people
and now you're so despo that you think that there's something queer about your sexual orientation
ok so here we have exhibit A;
A local woman in her late thirties whose passion is dancing, is able to carry herself well, yet is unable to attract men her age and is'nt sure that she's heterosexual.
Then she thinks she's attracting younger guys. Girl, one thing you should know younger guys look at EVERY(decent looking) woman accept grannies and trannies. So its not a matter of whether you're attracting younger guys or not(because young guys tend to be less restricted in their scope of vision) but its the fact that you're unable to attract proper local men.
So finally as a means of comforting herself and thinking that its not her problem but its the local guys problem. "Somehow of late I find myself attracted to caucasian men" LMAO! oh boy... hey wait but there's more!
"Again no offence to the local young men." oh why the fcuk would we be offended when we did'nt want you in the first place!?
And so there we have it folks a 30yr old well dressed, skillful, articulate local woman thinks that she might be gay, only members of the opposite sex she attracts are boys(MILF!) decides that the White man is the Right man.
*takes out the "Local woman attracted to Caucasian men" list, and puts a tick*... and another one... -
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Women at 35 have high sex drive and need attention from guys. Unmarried lady boss r 1 bitchy ass that no 1 want to work with. -
Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:5 C
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Women at 35 have high sex drive and need attention from guys. Unmarried lady boss r 1 bitchy ass that no 1 want to work with. -
Just for discussion...if I have summarized correctly...Originally posted by Catknight:Reasons why most are singles and are not suitable homemakers
The questions that I usually get from people I know or work with is this: why am I still single, am i too choosy, am I too proud or arrogant and worst of all- am I a lesbian?!! (not that I have anything against Lesbianism but somehow the thought of it does send chills down my spine)! So I thought to myself
'that's it, i'm gonna have to do something about this instead of waiting around.' Which brings me here. What puzzles me is this: younger men seem more attracted to me and I mean really young and i'm in my late thirties!( Nope, can't see myself robbing the cradle. No.) Although many of my friends and their friends have said that I put lots of younger women to shame. Let's just say I carry myself well. My passion: dancing....something about music that moves me, the right kind of music of course. So love the dance floor, don't drink and hate being hit on at clubs especially so by drunks and younger men. No offence to you young guys but i'm definitely not into teaching you a thing or two. Somehow of late I find myself attracted to caucasian men. Again no offence to the local young men. Not into ONS. In fact, I'm keen on moving into the next phase in life that makes everything I do here in this life worthwhile and meaningful. Well if you get my drift and feel the same way, let's start talking.... Rgds, N
your 'reasons why most are singles and are not suitable homemakers' are:
- cos most single females like young men
- cos most single females are more attractive than their younger peers
- cos most single females carry themselves well and have passion for dancing
- cos most single females don't drink
- cos most single females hate being hit on in clubs
- cos most single females are attracted to ang moh
- cos most single females are not into ONS
- cos most single females hope to make everything worthwhile and meaningful
A little confusing but if the above is correct....please allow me to ask....
- cos most single females like young men >>> why? for sex or looks? Prized collection?
- cos most single females are more attractive than their younger peers >>> Good for you....even if you are a homemaker, you should be attractive to your husband and people around you.
- cos most single females carry themselves well and have passion for dancing >>> definitely not a problem with homemakers. My wife has her own passions and I respect that. Just be mutually understanding and balance commitments with passion.
- cos most single females don't drink >>> my wife and many homemakers drink so it's personal perference.
- cos most single females hate being hit on in clubs >>> personal preference but I trust my wife enough that if she's hit on, she has the decency to deal with it appropriately.
- cos most single females are attracted to ang moh >>>> some ang moh are also traditional so just have to open your eyes and select wisely.
- cos most single females are not into ONS >>> most homemakers are not too, I hope. But I heard some couples' sex life has the frequency of ONS....wonder it's good or bad! ; )
- cos most single females hope to make everything worthwhile and meaningful >>> I believe everyone wishes to do that.
Frankly, it doesn't matter what you choose...it's how you make it out to be. E.g. a single female can help build schools in third world countries, or be successful, be filial, be a homemaker, anything....
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I'm amazed as to why SG women going after Caucasian men are labeled and criticised but the men who buy brides from Vietnam, China and so on, are not labeled.
Let's label these men as well to ensure fairness. -
well cat, each of us has different taste and needs, and im sure u will find and satisfy your own....
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ok,lets call them SPG too, smart person's group...Originally posted by birkin:I'm amazed as to why SG women going after Caucasian men are labeled and criticised but the men who buy brides from Vietnam, China and so on, are not labeled.
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Please learn how to paragraph. I gave up reading that crap halfway through.Originally posted by Catknight:Reasons why most are singles and are not suitable homemakers
The questions that I usually get from people I know or work with is this: why am I still single, am i too choosy, am I too proud or arrogant and worst of all- am I a lesbian?!! (not that I have anything against Lesbianism but somehow the thought of it does send chills down my spine)! So I thought to myself 'that's it, i'm gonna have to do something about this instead of waiting around.' Which brings me here. What puzzles me is this: younger men seem more attracted to me and I mean really young and i'm in my late thirties!( Nope, can't see myself robbing the cradle. No.) Although many of my friends and their friends have said that I put lots of younger women to shame. Let's just say I carry myself well. My passion: dancing....something about music that moves me, the right kind of music of course. So love the dance floor, don't drink and hate being hit on at clubs especially so by drunks and younger men. No offence to you young guys but i'm definitely not into teaching you a thing or two. Somehow of late I find myself attracted to caucasian men. Again no offence to the local young men. Not into ONS. In fact, I'm keen on moving into the next phase in life that makes everything I do here in this life worthwhile and meaningful. Well if you get my drift and feel the same way, let's start talking.... Rgds, N -
it should be interesting to see U post ur pics 1st.Originally posted by Catknight:what I'm looking for in a man: someone who can get past 10 minutes of conversation with me, is kind, a gentleman, has a great smile and turns me on (hey, women need sexual attraction, too!). I'd like him to be at something like 6' to 6'3" tall and very fit. A good physique is a major turn on for me and maybe, just maybe....that Nicolas Cage type of bad boy look? (but that's really optional) Someone easy-going, fun-loving, who isn't uptight about lots of things, comfortable in his own skin and a good sport. With a broad spectrum of interests and has a mind with some breadth and depth. Reliable (will do exactly what he says he will do) and financially stable. Non-smoking, preferably. Clean and neat. Please send me pics if you do respond. -
cat is a male... he just quoting articles from other plc... yet so many just read the contents, and forget abt the headers/footers...
i dun like spg, but i can understand how they feel.
compare an ang mo: tall, handsome, rich, polite, knowledgable, interesting, enjoy life, generous. (these are the "norm" perception of ang mo by them)
to sg guys: complaining, grumbling, short (compare to ang mo), rigid, uninteresting, not fun to be with, mcp, miser. (these are the "norm" perception of sg guys by them)
who u tink the gers wld choose?
if gers are not choosing sg guys, i tink we guys have to reflect on outselves first. do u complain? grumble? miser? mcp? not fun? boring? -
miss out one thing.Originally posted by Catknight:So as you can see. the decline of local sg breeding espc chinese will not stop...
local men really ahs no choice but venture out this SPG island to look for good companion that does not trat them as ATM and bag carriers
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Yes, it is time, sg men should do some instrinsic thinking.Originally posted by extrinsic:cat is a male... he just quoting articles from other plc... yet so many just read the contents, and forget abt the headers/footers...
i dun like spg, but i can understand how they feel.
compare an ang mo: tall, handsome, rich, polite, knowledgable, interesting, enjoy life, generous. (these are the "norm" perception of ang mo by them)
to sg guys: complaining, grumbling, short (compare to ang mo), rigid, uninteresting, not fun to be with, mcp, miser. (these are the "norm" perception of sg guys by them)
who u tink the gers wld choose?
if gers are not choosing sg guys, i tink we guys have to reflect on outselves first. do u complain? grumble? miser? mcp? not fun? boring? -
exactly ditch fcuked up local asian women and go for not just caucasian women but european women as a whole. After much deliberation I've realised that flat chested, almond eyed, black haired, dark eyed women are just plain ugly. Lets go for that tall, busty, blonde haired, blue eyed barbie dolls. Who wants some plain, blend, short, unromantic, low-class, bad at bed, sexually unattractive asian anyways...Originally posted by angel7030:Yes, it is time, sg men should do some instrinsic thinking. -
thanks for the clarificationOriginally posted by extrinsic:cat is a male... he just quoting articles from other plc... yet so many just read the contents, and forget abt the headers/footers...
i dun like spg, but i can understand how they feel.
compare an ang mo: tall, handsome, rich, polite, knowledgable, interesting, enjoy life, generous. (these are the "norm" perception of ang mo by them)
to sg guys: complaining, grumbling, short (compare to ang mo), rigid, uninteresting, not fun to be with, mcp, miser. (these are the "norm" perception of sg guys by them)
who u tink the gers wld choose?
if gers are not choosing sg guys, i tink we guys have to reflect on outselves first. do u complain? grumble? miser? mcp? not fun? boring?
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Next time be abit clearer when quoting someone else lah... You kena wrongly bombarded by so many people for nothingOriginally posted by Catknight:thanks for the clarification -
yes, sg guys need to learn much. to be a "better" men.
Learn nt to complain so much - in forum, u wan to grumble, it's okay. in reality, please dun..
Learn to behave like a gentlemen - offer to carry the bag for her, open door for her etc. it looks strange but most gers appreciate it.
Humour - try to be humourous, but not too over. dirty joke is nice but dirty jokes are not.
Topic to talk - gers dun like soccer, just like we don't like shopping
Dress sense - If u r meeting a ger on a first date, please dress nicely. u must realise u do not look nice in anything, only tom cruise and the likes can dress anything and still look nice. dress neat+smart is enough.
any shirt that comes with funky wordings are a majour put off. ban slippers, sandals.