Guys see gals as gfs?
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go die riaos ?!Originally posted by gLc:bored at night lah.
okay lah i go sleep alr.
nite nite ferret, giga.
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not yet.Originally posted by Ferret:go die riaos ?! 
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i wanna see more action
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Huh! only 2 types of guys, wha! very difficult to choose lah??Originally posted by gigabyte14:there are two types of guys
desperate and non-desperate
Please increase the types to at least 10 types, even apples also hv alot of types ok. -
Since u said for us gal, it a work of nature that all guys we meet in the begining, are mere frens. Guess it is also a work of nature for guys to think that all gals is a potential gf to be or for some CKP guy, a good sex partners.Originally posted by forumer84:Just something to share..why is it dat some guys out there,when they make friends with girls,they will see them as potential targets,and not just friends?
Would u consider them as despos?
Consider a typical cases in sgf :
Guy meets girl. Start going out together as frens. Gal is comfortable with guy. Gal is enjoying his company. Guy falls for gal gradually. Guy doesn't dare to confess. Gal has no idea wats going on. Gal continues to treat him nicely or even be closer with him. Gal goes into "best buddy"mode. Guy thinks gal likes him too. Guy gathers courage to confess. Gal is surprised. Gal rejects guy but still keeps in contact. Cos she does not want to lose a GOOD FRIEND. Guy thinks still may hv hope cos gal is giving him second chance ..and the story goes on..
The prob with the above scenario is that the guy view the girl as a potential gf right from the BEGINNING whereas for the gal, it is just as friend. Period.
i think the prob is dat many guys don noe there is a DISTINCT difference btw how a gal would treat a good friend vs a potential bf/husband,
and how they would LIKE TO BE TREATED by a good friend vs a potential bf (tis is the tricky part guys)
Guys need to ACCEPT this fact because it is how girls think.
And nothing can change their way of thinking cos it is a work of nature.
imo,the general rule is, if a girl feels very comfortable with a guy, can pour out all her problems,woes, and crap, jokes,laughs with the guy and all = good friend material ONLY, typically.
Btw,pple say dat good friends can become couple and they cite the case of the mediacorp couple Priscilla Chan and her fiance. But these sort of cases is very RARE. Theirs could be due to under exceptional circumstances.
Im not trying to dent the hopes of guys out there who hv been gd friends with a girl they like and are trying to bring it to the nxt level.
Just trying to portray reality and hope it can help spare fellow bros frm unnecessary agony.Reality bites.
juz my 2cetns.
So let nature decide. -
That's a good habit, heart donation is very much wanted.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:i have a bad habit of falling for girls too easily. its not about despo or not la. it's just a character thing. i give my heart away too easily
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Ya wang lee hong dun like uOriginally posted by angel7030:That's a good habit, heart donation is very much wanted.
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Guessing that its just the mentality of us guys lah. .
Nothin abnormal bout that rite?
Only bad thing is that we guys will tend to get hurt. . .
again. . .
and again. . .
and again. . . . .
den again. . . . . . . -
Originally posted by maskedangel:Guessing that its just the mentality of us guys lah. .
Nothin abnormal bout that rite?
Only bad thing is that we guys will tend to get hurt. . .
again. . .
and again. . .
and again. . . . .
den again. . . . . . .
me kena hurt 4th time will stop jioing girls haha... fear to love.
Coward or whiner doesn't bother me. With $$$ and power, i will get all the girl i want in the world.
Instead of emotionally attached to the girl, me use $$$ to control her. This makes my life easier. -
then what are the signs that show that the girl like the guy?
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I would like to quote this statement from you, " if a girl feels very comfortable with a guy, can pour out all her problems,woes, and crap, jokes,laughs with the guy and all = good friend material ONLY, typically."Originally posted by forumer84:Just something to share..why is it dat some guys out there,when they make friends with girls,they will see them as potential targets,and not just friends?
Would u consider them as despos?
Consider a typical cases in sgf :
Guy meets girl. Start going out together as frens. Gal is comfortable with guy. Gal is enjoying his company. Guy falls for gal gradually. Guy doesn't dare to confess. Gal has no idea wats going on. Gal continues to treat him nicely or even be closer with him. Gal goes into "best buddy"mode. Guy thinks gal likes him too. Guy gathers courage to confess. Gal is surprised. Gal rejects guy but still keeps in contact. Cos she does not want to lose a GOOD FRIEND. Guy thinks still may hv hope cos gal is giving him second chance ..and the story goes on..
The prob with the above scenario is that the guy view the girl as a potential gf right from the BEGINNING whereas for the gal, it is just as friend. Period.
i think the prob is dat many guys don noe there is a DISTINCT difference btw how a gal would treat a good friend vs a potential bf/husband,
and how they would LIKE TO BE TREATED by a good friend vs a potential bf (tis is the tricky part guys)
Guys need to ACCEPT this fact because it is how girls think.
And nothing can change their way of thinking cos it is a work of nature.
imo,the general rule is, if a girl feels very comfortable with a guy, can pour out all her problems,woes, and crap, jokes,laughs with the guy and all = good friend material ONLY, typically.
Btw,pple say dat good friends can become couple and they cite the case of the mediacorp couple Priscilla Chan and her fiance. But these sort of cases is very RARE. Theirs could be due to under exceptional circumstances.
Im not trying to dent the hopes of guys out there who hv been gd friends with a girl they like and are trying to bring it to the nxt level.
Just trying to portray reality and hope it can help spare fellow bros frm unnecessary agony.Reality bites.
juz my 2cetns.
So, in your humble 2 cents opinion, can you please enlighten the guys out there (inlcuding me), How does a girl treats a potential bf then? -
Nevermind, my hansome lover is WongLEE Hong not WangOriginally posted by Uncertain:Ya wang lee hong dun like u -
To a huge extent, I agree with you.Originally posted by forumer84:Just something to share..why is it dat some guys out there,when they make friends with girls,they will see them as potential targets,and not just friends?
Would u consider them as despos?
Consider a typical cases in sgf :
Guy meets girl. Start going out together as frens. Gal is comfortable with guy. Gal is enjoying his company. Guy falls for gal gradually. Guy doesn't dare to confess. Gal has no idea wats going on. Gal continues to treat him nicely or even be closer with him. Gal goes into "best buddy"mode. Guy thinks gal likes him too. Guy gathers courage to confess. Gal is surprised. Gal rejects guy but still keeps in contact. Cos she does not want to lose a GOOD FRIEND. Guy thinks still may hv hope cos gal is giving him second chance ..and the story goes on..
The prob with the above scenario is that the guy view the girl as a potential gf right from the BEGINNING whereas for the gal, it is just as friend. Period.
i think the prob is dat many guys don noe there is a DISTINCT difference btw how a gal would treat a good friend vs a potential bf/husband,
and how they would LIKE TO BE TREATED by a good friend vs a potential bf (tis is the tricky part guys)
Guys need to ACCEPT this fact because it is how girls think.
And nothing can change their way of thinking cos it is a work of nature.
imo,the general rule is, if a girl feels very comfortable with a guy, can pour out all her problems,woes, and crap, jokes,laughs with the guy and all = good friend material ONLY, typically.
Btw,pple say dat good friends can become couple and they cite the case of the mediacorp couple Priscilla Chan and her fiance. But these sort of cases is very RARE. Theirs could be due to under exceptional circumstances.
Im not trying to dent the hopes of guys out there who hv been gd friends with a girl they like and are trying to bring it to the nxt level.
Just trying to portray reality and hope it can help spare fellow bros frm unnecessary agony.Reality bites.
juz my 2cetns.
Because when a girl met someone she love, most probably she'll be shy and dare not talk to the guy. -
some guys are just to self confident that they think they sure can make her his gf.......
these are the guys that aren't being realistic..... -
Singles Club -
not sure
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Originally posted by forumer84:Just something to share..why is it dat some guys out there,when they make friends with girls,they will see them as potential targets,and not just friends?
Would u consider them as despos?
Consider a typical cases in sgf :
Guy meets girl. Start going out together as frens. Gal is comfortable with guy. Gal is enjoying his company. Guy falls for gal gradually. Guy doesn't dare to confess. Gal has no idea wats going on. Gal continues to treat him nicely or even be closer with him. Gal goes into "best buddy"mode. Guy thinks gal likes him too. Guy gathers courage to confess. Gal is surprised. Gal rejects guy but still keeps in contact. Cos she does not want to lose a GOOD FRIEND. Guy thinks still may hv hope cos gal is giving him second chance ..and the story goes on..
The prob with the above scenario is that the guy view the girl as a potential gf right from the BEGINNING whereas for the gal, it is just as friend. Period.
i think the prob is dat many guys don noe there is a DISTINCT difference btw how a gal would treat a good friend vs a potential bf/husband,
and how they would LIKE TO BE TREATED by a good friend vs a potential bf (tis is the tricky part guys)
Guys need to ACCEPT this fact because it is how girls think.
And nothing can change their way of thinking cos it is a work of nature.
imo,the general rule is, if a girl feels very comfortable with a guy, can pour out all her problems,woes, and crap, jokes,laughs with the guy and all = good friend material ONLY, typically.
Btw,pple say dat good friends can become couple and they cite the case of the mediacorp couple Priscilla Chan and her fiance. But these sort of cases is very RARE. Theirs could be due to under exceptional circumstances.
Im not trying to dent the hopes of guys out there who hv been gd friends with a girl they like and are trying to bring it to the nxt level.
Just trying to portray reality and hope it can help spare fellow bros frm unnecessary agony.Reality bites.
juz my 2cetns.who oso thinks priscilla chan is most pretty in media corp?
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gees, i'm guilty of this..Originally posted by forumer84:Just something to share..why is it dat some guys out there,when they make friends with girls,they will see them as potential targets,and not just friends?
Would u consider them as despos?
Consider a typical cases in sgf :
Guy meets girl. Start going out together as frens. Gal is comfortable with guy. Gal is enjoying his company. Guy falls for gal gradually. Guy doesn't dare to confess. Gal has no idea wats going on. Gal continues to treat him nicely or even be closer with him. Gal goes into "best buddy"mode. Guy thinks gal likes him too. Guy gathers courage to confess. Gal is surprised. Gal rejects guy but still keeps in contact. Cos she does not want to lose a GOOD FRIEND. Guy thinks still may hv hope cos gal is giving him second chance ..and the story goes on..
The prob with the above scenario is that the guy view the girl as a potential gf right from the BEGINNING whereas for the gal, it is just as friend. Period.
i think the prob is dat many guys don noe there is a DISTINCT difference btw how a gal would treat a good friend vs a potential bf/husband,
and how they would LIKE TO BE TREATED by a good friend vs a potential bf (tis is the tricky part guys)
Guys need to ACCEPT this fact because it is how girls think.
And nothing can change their way of thinking cos it is a work of nature.
imo,the general rule is, if a girl feels very comfortable with a guy, can pour out all her problems,woes, and crap, jokes,laughs with the guy and all = good friend material ONLY, typically.
Btw,pple say dat good friends can become couple and they cite the case of the mediacorp couple Priscilla Chan and her fiance. But these sort of cases is very RARE. Theirs could be due to under exceptional circumstances.
Im not trying to dent the hopes of guys out there who hv been gd friends with a girl they like and are trying to bring it to the nxt level.
Just trying to portray reality and hope it can help spare fellow bros frm unnecessary agony.Reality bites.
juz my 2cetns.
but it's not everyday you get to see someone who attracts you..
asking for numbers and being friends, does this deem as desparate?
guys who does that get stereotype as 'players'..
not all are like that isn't it?
when you find someone you like, naturally you would try to bring it to the next level..
nothing wrong about that..
but it seems pride gets in the way when things don't go so well..
we guys tend to feel hurt..
it works both ways..
not only guys falls for girls easily, it's all in the heart and mind..
like what you said, girl reject guy or guy reject girl..
then keeps in contact, that seem like a second chance..
but how many people do go for that so called second chance?
"once bitten, twice shy"
humans are all the same, when it comes to someone you like or admire..
when things don't go your way, you tend to find excuses for the one you like..
you'll fill your mind with lies, just to make yourself feel better..
then when the real truth hits, we can't take it..
then start to feel sad, down.. or agonized..
just how i feel.. -
U one time single, later got lover... ya all kind of shit... continue to live in ur fantasy.Originally posted by angel7030:Nevermind, my hansome lover is WongLEE Hong not Wang -
i thought the surname is wang?Originally posted by angel7030:Nevermind, my hansome lover is WongLEE Hong not Wang
how can anyhow change? -
actually no diff... wang and wong whatever it is... as long as we know who the guy is can liaoOriginally posted by MidnightK:i thought the surname is wang?
how can anyhow change? -
Aiya, cannot hv partime bf meh?? sometime u also go out with gals mah, but just normal gf cannot meh? Funny, that is the problem with you guy, when i said bf, all think my steady bf, if the guy i go out with is a boy and is also my fren, it is natural that i said bf mah, but that doesn't mean lover ok.Originally posted by Uncertain:U one time single, later got lover... ya all kind of shit... continue to live in ur fantasy. -
Dunno leh, sometime they said wong, sometime wang, the ticket i bought wrote wong, so some organiser may just mess it up with the hanyu pinyin. But nevermind, it is only his nick, he is so handsome that i went sore throat the next day shouting for him. For the whole concert, he looked my way and smiled once, that is enough to melt me to my knees.Originally posted by MidnightK:i thought the surname is wang?
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hahaha ok ok ... today u sound so politeOriginally posted by angel7030:Aiya, cannot hv partime bf meh?? sometime u also go out with gals mah, but just normal gf cannot meh? Funny, that is the problem with you guy, when i said bf, all think my steady bf, if the guy i go out with is a boy and is also my fren, it is natural that i said bf mah, but that doesn't mean lover ok.
I am expecting flame... not fun de... lol
ya u got a lot of bf? then next time, ur wang lee hong is what? hushand?
when hushand then? lol cannot think of anything