Originally posted by elindra:For sure everyone have bad experiences with the opposite gender. If I wanna bitch, I have plenty to bitch about too, but I'm not going to tar the entire population of guys just because of a few black sheep
I will prefer you label them as black crocodile or alligator, cos black sheep is very general, there are also some good guys in black skin guy.
Originally posted by kopiosatu:can't be bothered really.
ya, agreed, man egosim will not bother anything except RCA in thailand
Originally posted by CUM ON MY FACE:Hope I brightened up your day
Thanks for appreciating my nick. I knew it would frazzle some nerves.
What can I say, if your conscience is clear and you have your own goals in life, good for you! The same can't be said for the many SG duds I've had the ignominy to encounter, who are perpetually wallowing in their own trivialities.
Life is never a bed of roses.
I believe these guys whom u mentioned are deeply troubled by failed relationship or confession they experience in the past.
I am just one of the pathetic example.
"can't be bothered", wait for the right one etc... is an excuse we give to spare us unwanted agony, and they can be auntie asking u when are u getting a gf, must find a gf in university and so on.
Therefore, being one myself makes me appreciate the pain that these guys are suffering. Not that we didn't try, just that we don't know how. We seriously don't understand what the girls are thinking.
The greatest problem that any guy will have to face is to fully understand his gf really.
Originally posted by angel7030:
I will prefer you label them as black crocodile or alligator, cos black sheep is very general, there are also some good guys in black skin guy.
I'm not even talking about skin colour here ![]()
It was a figure of speech
this goes for guys as well as girls...if you don't have goals, don't have ideals, don't have money, don't have jobs, don't know how to make yourself presentable.......how how how are u going to expect the opposite sex to treat you like hot property.
Singaporean girls are great! Singaporean guys are great too! All of us deserve to hook up! period. period. period!!!
Originally posted by elindra:
I'm not even talking about skin colour hereIt was a figure of speech
her replies always out of point one la can link to valleys and hills and god knows what sometimes. ![]()
Originally posted by angel7030:
then, how abt the left one,.. dun alway depend on the right one ya, there are also left ones that can be nurture to the right ones, if u alway wait for the right ones, whereby i hard see in both genders, u wait forever, and in the end, u just give the same excuses to those who ask you, and that is we haven't met the right one.
and mind u, there are also centre, front and rear ones
Ya angel, i appreciate ur comments.
I should say that u are still young and couldn't really see the path that leads to happiness. Nevertheless, it is great knowing u and I seriously hope that u will hold on to ur moral beliefs many years down the road.
In a more serious note, I dun mind being single till i die. Let's look at Tay PingHui, borned a hunk and quite wealthy but then he has yet to get married. Lin ChiLing, 32, going to marry to a toilet bowl tycoon.
So, there are many people out there who can lead a fulfilling life without a spouse, y not me? Y should I always wallow about not having a gf, money, look and so on when i can build my own career, acquire valuable IT skills and have tonnes of $$$ to keep my family happy?
Most importantly, if i die die must have a wife, i can easily get one from any marriage agency and what's more I can choose those that can give me a harmonious family life, not one that constantly quarrel over money.
juz behave as themselves....as they deem fit...wont like any pretense and hypocracies....
don't ask the girls to behave in what way for you. don't ask the guys to behave anyway to you.
Just be yourself. some girls like guys carry their bags, some girls hate sissy guys carrying their bags. some girls want people to open door for them, some girls don't mind you open or not.
some guys just want to have a damn gorgeous girlfriend, some guys want average, down to earth girls who understands him. some guys want girls who can understand they are also humans and will have problems, while some guys will hide all his problems and keep it to himself.
so many kinds of people around. HOW can you expect the girls to behave in the way you want?
In a more serious note, I dun mind being single till i die. Let's look at Tay PingHui, borned a hunk and quite wealthy but then he has yet to get married. Lin ChiLing, 32, going to marry to a toilet bowl tycoon.
So, there are many people out there who can lead a fulfilling life without a spouse, y not me? Y should I always wallow about not having a gf, money, look and so on when i can build my own career, acquire valuable IT skills and have tonnes of $$$ to keep my family happy?
Most importantly, if i die die must have a wife, i can easily get one from any marriage agency and what's more I can choose those that can give me a harmonious family life, not one that constantly quarrel over money.
thats abit like denial lor, everyone wants someone that loves em, and embark on a like journey together. if you work hard/play hard, cast out ur bait, u won't be single one la.
ang mos don't = to good all the time.
i rather asian men. i think they are more family ortiented and don't spend too much time partying and stuff.
just my thoughts..
oni wear apron and nothing else.
serves me beer everyday in that apron.
brings me slippers n newspapers.
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Lol my german gf ever did that for me, after that it went all wild
what to discuss when they don't see the need to improve. the end.
Originally posted by qlqq9:what to discuss when they don't see the need to improve. the end.
Oh. Good point.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Oh. Good point.
Can't say it is all - but majority of the singapore guys have too much of super big ego. Can't do anything, once anything is said or done, their fragile ego is bruised and they will start war with the females. Very sad! There are still good ones around, but it is just a handful, so miserable. I have seen with my own eyes that though many of them are married they behave bachalors (I am not referring to the good ones)
Originally posted by qlqq9:
Can't say it is all - but majority of the singapore guys have too much of super big ego. Can't do anything, once anything is said or done, their fragile ego is bruised and they will start war with the females. Very sad! There are still good ones around, but it is just a handful, so miserable. I have seen with my own eyes that though many of them are married they behave bachalors (I am not referring to the good ones)
The good ones are the gems. That is why they are so precious !
If everyone is superman, then nobardie is super anymore !
Originally posted by jojobeach:The good ones are the gems. That is why they are so precious !
If everyone is superman, then nobardie is super anymore !
Sad, good ones are going to extinct.
Originally posted by qlqq9:Sad, good ones are going to extinct.
No they are not.
Just that they are being snapped up so fast... it's hard to find one that's still unattached.
SG girls are smart, they can smell a gem 10 km away.
Originally posted by jojobeach:No they are not.
Just that they are being snapped up so fast... it's hard to find one that's still unattached.
SG girls are smart, they can smell a gem 10 km away.
most of those who song shang men are problematic.
Originally posted by qlqq9:most of those who song shang men are problematic.
???
Me no understand.
You mean girl or guy ?
Originally posted by jojobeach:???
Me no understand.
You mean girl or guy ?
I mean guys who offer themselves to gals. YOu read the title of this thread is already enough to tell how super big inflated ego singaporean guys are.
Originally posted by qlqq9:
I mean guys who offer themselves to gals. YOu read the title of this thread is already enough to tell how super big inflated ego singaporean guys are.
Whats wrong with guys offering themselves to gals ? I get it all the time. Just havta figure out which one is art which one is trash .
I think Parn is a gal. She got tired of guys complaining about girls behaving badly. So she just wants to know what exactly guys wants from gals.
It seems.. not many guys knows what they want afterall.. They just wanna bytch about it for the sake of bytching. *shrugs*
Originally posted by jojobeach:Whats wrong with guys offering themselves to gals ? I get it all the time. Just havta figure out which one is art which one is trash .
I think Parn is a gal. She got tired of guys complaining about girls behaving badly. So she just wants to know what exactly guys wants from gals.
It seems.. not many guys knows what they want afterall.. They just wanna bytch about it for the sake of bytching. *shrugs*
You really have prob understanding my posts, angel interpret my posts very well. What I am driving at is most of the time it is those not good guys who offer themselves to gals. I don't think parn is a gal. just read the last sentence of the post you will know that TS is not a gal. Think you seem to have communication prob.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Whats wrong with guys offering themselves to gals ? I get it all the time. Just havta figure out which one is art which one is trash .
I think Parn is a gal. She got tired of guys complaining about girls behaving badly. So she just wants to know what exactly guys wants from gals.
It seems.. not many guys knows what they want afterall.. They just wanna bytch about it for the sake of bytching. *shrugs*
everybody has their different wants at different points in life ma.. men and women the same. nobody knows what exactly they want too.