How should Singaporean Girls behave toward Singaporean Guys?

• jojobeach

  3 May 08, 13:21

  Originally posted by elindra:

  Yet again these gender threads have degenerated into personal insults and name-calling

  Can't you see ?

  This is how SG girls should behave towards SG guys.

  You can call their mother anything.. but just give them beer, and all will be fine.

  Men are easy to please. REALLY !!

• elindra

  3 May 08, 13:32

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Can't you see ?

  This is how SG girls should behave towards SG guys.

  You can call their mother anything.. but just give them beer, and all will be fine.

  Men are easy to please. REALLY !!

  
   

  There is no coherency in this argument at all.

  And if this is how SG girls should behave towards SG guys, I would rather they marry a girl from another country because we would all look like illogical, incoherent, ridiculous, unreasonable bitches; they would be better without us. 

• eagle

  3 May 08, 13:43

  I don't like beer. I drink tea, oolong tea and green tea.

• jojobeach

  3 May 08, 13:45

  Originally posted by elindra:

  
   

  There is no coherency in this argument at all.

  And if this is how SG girls should behave towards SG guys, I would rather they marry a girl from another country because we would all look like illogical, incoherent, ridiculous, unreasonable bitches; they would be better without us. 

  Well, in case you didn't realize.

  Them girls from other countries are also illogical, incoherent, ridiculous, unreasonable bitches...... before they become mothers that is.

  So, yah.. the guys are screwed either way...

  Girl, lighten up a little will ya ? But really, guys are not difficult to please...

  Ya try naggin at em like their moma.. they'd all run into their caves.

  All they really want.. is just a little Tender Loving Care. Little bit of " Honey, you did a great job ... wanna get busy sexy ?" here and there...show some appreciation when they do little bitty things to make you happy.. you know ? All adds up.

  So trust me, they are not rocket science.

• Agenda

  3 May 08, 13:46

  There's alot of different people in Singapore alone, and I would say the last place to get an opinion is a online forum.

• Agenda

  3 May 08, 13:47

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Well, in case you didn't realize.

  Them girls from other countries are also illogical, incoherent, ridiculous, unreasonable bitches...... before they become mothers that is.

  So, yah.. the guys are screwed either way...

  Girl, lighten up a little will ya ? But really, guys are not difficult to please...

  Ya try naggin at em like their moma.. they'd all run into their caves.

  All they really want.. is just a little Tender Loving Care. Little bit of " Honey, you did a great job ... wanna get busy sexy ?" here and there...show some appreciation when they do little bitty things to make you happy.. you know ? All adds up.

  So trust me, they are not rocket science.

  Same goes to girls, just have loads of greens yea?

• parn

  3 May 08, 13:47

  Originally posted by elindra:

  
   

  There is no coherency in this argument at all.

  And if this is how SG girls should behave towards SG guys, I would rather they marry a girl from another country because we would all look like illogical, incoherent, ridiculous, unreasonable bitches; they would be better without us. 

  
  Correct, but that is only if Singaporean guys are actually looking for a maid or a slave or a retard to be their wives and girlfriends.

  One who is unable to reason, argue, ridicule, would eventually lose their value as an individual.

  If Singaporean guys is unable to accept the chilli and spice in a relationship, they would be better off spreading their offsprings with girls from other countries.

  And I would expects their future offsprings to inherit their intellectual properties from their mothers.

   

• elindra

  3 May 08, 13:52

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  Correct, but that is only if Singaporean guys are actually looking for a maid or a slave or a retard to be their wives and girlfriends.

  One who is unable to reason, argue, ridicule, would eventually lose their value as an individual.

  If Singaporean guys is unable to accept the chilli and spice in a relationship, they would be better off spreading their offsprings with girls from other countries.

  And I would expects their future offsprings to inherit their intellectual properties from their mothers.

   

  
  I'm not even talking about reasonable argument or not being a doormat

  What I'm talking about is the nonsense I read in this thread like getting personal and turn to name calling and nothing to do with the original 'arguement'

  I don't see anything intelligent or logical about it. I wouldn't even call it an intellectual battle of wits!

• elindra

  3 May 08, 13:52

  Double Post

   

• jojobeach

  3 May 08, 13:56

  Originally posted by elindra:

  
  I'm not even talking about reasonable argument or not being a doormat

  What I'm talking about is the nonsense I read in this thread like getting personal and turn to name calling and nothing to do with the original 'arguement'

  I don't see anything intelligent or logical about it. I wouldn't even call it an intellectual battle of wits!

  Who cares if we talking philosophy or not ? Didn't you see ? We kissed and make up at the end.. now that's the most important part ain't it ?

• jojobeach

  3 May 08, 14:07

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  Same goes to girls, just have loads of greens yea?

  Well.... yaaah... sorta.. ya know.. girl's stuff are more expensive than guys. And since there's much much more variety than the guy's stuff.... technically.. you do have to spend more.

  So...that origami Gucci bag ain't gonna cut it...

  But yes.. you are correct.. it's kinda a mutual thing.

   

   

   

• fudgester

  3 May 08, 14:17

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Can't you see ?

  This is how SG girls should behave towards SG guys.

  You can call their mother anything.. but just give them beer, and all will be fine.

  Men are easy to please. REALLY !!

  Sorry, it's against my religious beliefs to drink.

  And I still fail to see why you have to degrade yourself to the level of insulting the mothers of other forummites.

• jojobeach

  3 May 08, 14:22

  Originally posted by fudgester:

  Sorry, it's against my religious beliefs to drink.

  And I still fail to see why you have to degrade yourself to the level of insulting the mothers of other forummites.

  Dude.. what's your beef ?

  Ya trying to go holy on me ?

  If you fail to understand.. watcha want me to do ? Teach you ?

• fudgester

  3 May 08, 14:25

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Dude.. what's your beef ?

  Ya trying to go holy on me ?

  If you fail to understand.. watcha want me to do ? Teach you ?

  My beef is...... your bashing of the mothers of other forummites.

  What the heck is with that? What did their moms ever do to you?

   

• 16/f/lonely

  3 May 08, 14:26

  Damn...I missed all the mud-slinging!

• Agenda

  3 May 08, 14:26

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Well.... yaaah... sorta.. ya know.. girl's stuff are more expensive than guys. And since there's much much more variety than the guy's stuff.... technically.. you do have to spend more.

  So...that origami Gucci bag ain't gonna cut it...

  But yes.. you are correct.. it's kinda a mutual thing.

  
  I agree, Being a Singaporean for 18 1/2 years. Since young, I've not been very privileged. I try to get the better things in life by working off my ass during the holidays.

  I understand that it is my job as well to make sure my gf/wife/family gets to enjoy life.

  But it's just kinda demanding that girls set standards, not that guy do not. Actually I can mostly stand girls' behaviour just not those that act all high and mighty. And to that, I would say I'm not a typical Singapore guy. I have much of my female friends saying that I'm alot different from the guys they meet. I wouldn't say I'm desirable but I have to say that, I put myself in different situations and try to understand how girls think.

  And sometimes I myself can't stand the way some guys are acting, they want best of a girl but they have nothing to match her, then they start giving loads of lame excuses.

• jojobeach

  3 May 08, 14:28

  Originally posted by fudgester:

  My beef is...... your bashing of the mothers of other forummites.

  What the heck is with that? What did their moms ever do to you?

   

  They are their mothers.. not yours. Did I insult your mother yet ?

• jojobeach

  3 May 08, 14:29

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  
  I agree, Being a Singaporean for 18 1/2 years. Since young, I've not been very privileged. I try to get the better things in life by working off my ass during the holidays.

  I understand that it is my job as well to make sure my gf/wife/family gets to enjoy life.

  But it's just kinda demanding that girls set standards, not that guy do not. Actually I can mostly stand girls' behaviour just not those that act all high and mighty. And to that, I would say I'm not a typical Singapore guy. I have much of my female friends saying that I'm alot different from the guys they meet. I wouldn't say I'm desirable but I have to say that, I put myself in different situations and try to understand how girls think.

  And sometimes I myself can't stand the way some guys are acting, they want best of a girl but they have nothing to match her, then they start giving loads of lame excuses.

  Agenda, you're a great kid. Now .. can I marry you?

• Diao Chan

  3 May 08, 14:29

  Where is my lu bu?

• fudgester

  3 May 08, 14:30

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  They are their mothers.. not yours. Did I insult your mother yet ?

  No, you haven't insulted my mom.

  But I have a right to speak out against uncivillized behaviour.

  And, uh..... insulting the mothers of others certainly counts under 'uncivillized, uncouth, and brutish' behaviour in the books of civillized people.

  So.... what is it that you wanted to teach me?

• jojobeach

  3 May 08, 14:37

  Originally posted by fudgester:

  No, you haven't insulted my mom.

  But I have a right to speak out against uncivillized behaviour.

  And, uh..... insulting the mothers of others certainly counts under 'uncivillized, uncouth, and brutish' behaviour in the books of civillized people.

  So.... what is it that you wanted to teach me?

  Wah.. so hero !

  Good fer you kid !.. Here.. I gib you a sticker . OK ? Good.

• BadzMaro

  3 May 08, 14:39

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• Durotar

  3 May 08, 14:56

  Originally posted by parn:

  IT's funny that you actually used and compared Singaporean culture against Western culture when you implore us to consult the western foreigners regarding the 'gentlemanly' issue over carrying handbag for the girls.

  Maybe you're a foreigner and that could explained why you chose to pick a western foreigner to define as a benchmark for Singaporean males. But let's face it, all foreigners are just plain rude when you place them in the midst of our Asian culture. The reason for that is, they come from a different culture and background and it's not considered rude for them in the place where they came from...but of course if they were to apply Asian culture in the place where they came from, they would be considered more courteous and polite. Therefore your comparison against Singaporean males was really done in a bad taste.

  One more thing I would like to highlight, foreigners regardless of your race and where you come from, generally behave better and more refined and will always put on their best act when they are outside of their home country. And that also apply to SIngaporean too.

  Divorce rates are high around the world and not just in Singapore itself, so if you were to do an accurate comparison for all countries, SIngapore is not as high as mentioned. Reasons for divorce varies and I have never seen a case of divorce stating "unrealistic expectations".

  Words are powerful if used in the correct situations, so please stay focus to the topic and focus on the topic.

   

  Tsktsk...touched a sensitive bone have I?

  You are the one out of topic...that western reference was an example, not a benchmark. And nice inference that I'm a foreigner. When I'm a Singaporean, born in Singapore, staying in Singapore.

  The point of the discussion is about Singaporean girls and guys. And I'd still continue my stand that both sexes expect too much from each other.

• dumbdumb!

  3 May 08, 15:07

  hmm. i wasn't following the conversations, but i was just thinking of mixing in a little scenario.

  let's say.. i've a relative who just passed, maybe an aunt or uncle. and of course it would be very supportive to help out because it would mean alot to my parents.

  and the girlfriend's angry because we actually planned a date on the day of the funeral.

  so i assume western culture would be to screw how my parents feel and please the girlfriend.

  because if i don't, i'll be a mommy's boy, right?

   

  so is this right?

• Durotar

  3 May 08, 15:11

  Originally posted by dumbdumb!:

  hmm. i wasn't following the conversations, but i was just thinking of mixing in a little scenario.

  let's say.. i've a relative who just passed, maybe an aunt or uncle. and of course it would be very supportive to help out because it would mean alot to my parents.

  and the girlfriend's angry because we actually planned a date on the day of the funeral.

  so i assume western culture would be to screw how my parents feel and please the girlfriend.

  because if i don't, i'll be a mommy's boy, right?

   

  so is this right?

  Whoa. Who wants a girlfriend like that? Think the sensible thing is to help out at the funeral right?