My ger could be pregnant........
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Don't panic 1st... like what a lot of people here said, go get a kit and confirm first. If positive, then decide what you want to do. Keep the baby? Or abort? Then just act on your decision. Just don't be like one of those people who abandon their babies...
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What a irresponsive ways of doing...babies have their rite to carry on. Accept the facts if your gal is really pregnant!!!! The baby is innocent...... After Song liao wanna chao lang????Originally posted by kohanson:You might want to go for an abortion if she's really pregnant.. -
sometimes it's easier said than done, to 'accept the responsibility'. there're always other factors that affect the decision lor... even people who're married have to consider carefully if they wanna have a baby or not. i feel that aborting it is a decision also. if they haven't got the means to bring the child up, then how? it's tough and frightening enough. cut them some slack, will you?Originally posted by sugardaddy:What a irresponsive ways of doing...babies have their rite to carry on. Accept the facts if your gal is really pregnant!!!! The baby is innocent...... After Song liao wanna chao lang???? -
Just for the record. I'm not defending them ok?
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Then you are no different from a murder!!!! What for fuk and try to get away with the respondability? Then both parties should have consider before doing so mah....
If anyone really do so, hope the lost soul will come looking for you for an answer!!!
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Well, it's done already. Condemn also no use. If they really thot about it, they wouldn't be in this predicament right? Bsides it's their decision and baby.
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the symptoms where got come so early 1...now it's still a an embryo( sp ?) anyway it's common to miss the periods due to anything from stress ( likely case) or just that some ppl have irregular periods....normal....anyway it's no point buying the test kit now. even if she is 4 weeks pregnant, the symptoms ( test for certain proteins in the urine present only during pregnancy ) will not show at this stage. if u decide to test it out at a later date, u must understand that it is not 100% accurate. In other words there is a possibility of a false positive ( telling u she is pregnant when she is not ) and vice versa
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Originally posted by newGrounds:
[b]A few weeks ago we did it...........dun ask but we got use condoms leh....
a few wks ah
Now my ger menses late for 1 week liao still no aunty. This few days she's been feeling feverish and very weak and she also feel like vomiting after meals. the effect nt so fast ...no period doesnt mean pregnant....oni few wks ago u all did it mah...bt hard to say sometimes...the sytoms ur gf had like pregnant lidat..or food poisoning..
I scared we could have done it this time.......
I'm feeling very down now. dare to do....nw u scare.....nv tink of the consequences..young ppl haiz....no use cryin over spill milk...
I really shouldn't have done it that nite and I really pray to God that she's not pregnant. If she's not I swear I'll never touch her again until that faithful nite. really really regreted.... if she pregnant,....then wat u gona do?marry her or ask her go abortion or let her be single parent?
anyone can tell me what's the synthoms for pregnancy?
(will post in another post)
any advise? go buy pregancy kid frm guardian v cheap oni and quite accurate....then if still lidat..go see doctor more safe....
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Syptoms of Pregnancy
1. Food cravings: Sure it's a cliché, but food cravings sometimes can be a sign of pregnancy. Don't rely on them as a sure symptom (it may be all in your head, or even a sign that your body is low on a particular nutrient), but if cravings are accompanied by some of the other symptoms on this list, start counting the days from your last period.
2. Darkening of your areolas: If the skin around your nipples gets darker, you may have successfully conceived, though this may also signal a hormonal imbalance unrelated to pregnancy or be a leftover effect from a previous pregnancy.
3. Implantation bleeding or cramping: About eight days after ovulation, you may experience implantation spotting, a slight staining of a pink or brown colour, as well as some cramping. You might also see some spotting around the time you expect your period; this is caused by the egg burrowing into the endometrial lining.
4. Frequent urination: Once the embryo implants and begins producing the hormone human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG), you may find yourself going to the bathroom more often.
5. Fatigue: Feeling tired? No, make that exhausted. High levels of the hormone progesterone can make you feel as if you've run a marathon when all you've done is put in a day at the office. Fatigue is a hallmark of early pregnancy, though probably not a surefire symptom on its own.
6. Tender, swollen breasts: If you're pregnant, your breasts will probably become increasingly tender to the touch, similar to the way they feel before your period, only more so. Once your body grows accustomed to the hormone surge, the pain will subside.
7. Morning sickness: If you're lucky, morning sickness won't hit you until a few weeks after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But as early as a couple of days following conception, you may begin feeling nauseated and queasy. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea can be a problem morning, noon, or night. You may also notice that your sense of taste changes. Some women say they have a metallic taste in their mouth, others that they cannot stand the taste of coffee, tea, or a food they usually like.
8. Your basal body temperature stays high: If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed above the coverline for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant.
9. A missed period: If you're usually pretty regular and your period is late, its worth trying a pregnancy test. A missed period is the surest sign of pregnancy in a woman of childbearing age who usually has regular periods.
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10. A positive home pregnancy test: If you've waited until at least the first day of a missed period to test and the stick turns blue, you're most likely in the family way. Make an appointment with your doctor to confirm the good news, Congratulations! -
If u do abort the baby, don't ever come back to this forum.
We do not welcome baby killers.
But IF u keep it, then bravo, u did good. -
Wow........Originally posted by Unity:If u do abort the baby, don't ever come back to this forum.
We do not welcome baby killers.
But IF u keep it, then bravo, u did good.
/me wondering if u r boy or ger -
he/she doesnt matter....he/she is anti-abortion. and that is very clear to us allOriginally posted by Xiao Long Nu:Wow........
/me wondering if u r boy or ger -
i mean unity ....cos..............i tink tis kinda words normlay dn come out frm guysOriginally posted by hareyizu:he/she doesnt matter....he/she is anti-abortion. and that is very clear to us all
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LOL! If it was as easy as that, then there wouldn't be any more abortions. Its not so easy to bring up a child, especially when you are young and financially unstable.Originally posted by Unity:If u do abort the baby, don't ever come back to this forum.
We do not welcome baby killers.
But IF u keep it, then bravo, u did good.
Anyway, to the originator of this discussion, just cool it and get a test kit. No use going crazy over it. Had a buddy who was in the same situation once too. Turned out to be false alarm in the end. -
I agree with this...Originally posted by Si|verGer:y not go buy pregnency kit? dun keep wait & wait go & check. . .
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for me i will take full responsibility..... act like a man.... dont always fuk and chao fuk and chao
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me too..recently like last month..but i am willing to take full respondsibilities!!!
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thats lame lolxOriginally posted by sugardaddy:me too..recently like last month..but i am willing to take full respondsibilities!!! -
lame??? but at least i got the gut to take the full respondsibility at that point of time....... dun see any lameness in that???
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ren bu ke mao siang
diff ppl gt diff decision in tings -
ya lah i agree, but cant stand babies killer lor.... like i say Song liao chao lang
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nan zi han ta zhang fu mus be guan min le lou
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erm. i heard my friend say that when u have did that thing, it normal to miss your period.. sometimes missing your period dosen mean u are pregant, any way, if you did it for the first time, you will not get easily pregant..
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Originally posted by newGrounds:A few weeks ago we did it...........dun ask but we got use condoms leh....
Now my ger menses late for 1 week liao still no aunty. This few days she's been feeling feverish and very weak and she also feel like vomiting after meals.
I scared we could have done it this time....... I'm feeling very down now.
I really shouldn't have done it that nite and I really pray to God that she's not pregnant. If she's not I swear I'll never touch her again until that faithful nite. really really regreted....
anyone can tell me what's the synthoms for pregnancy?
any advise?
thanks to all.......... -
well.....
take the advice friend!
CHECK UP 1ST...
not necessary preg one...
next time be more careful!
whatever happened, be a man and take up
RESPONSIBILITY!