Okay the previous times I've asked her if she'd like to go out with me, she always replies with "another time perhaps :)"
Last night I texted her after conversing with her about her recent trip overseas, asking her "Hey, do you think maybe I could take you out for a movie sometime?", with her replying "hmm movie, we'll see about that :)"
i don't understand what she meant :/ help me someone!
soft rejection maybe.
choose either 1:
play hard to get, or
not interested in u at all... just a friend... a chat buddy...
Failure.
Originally posted by wonderamazement:soft rejection maybe.
I think so too.
sometimes she makes it look as though she might be interested in me too, and yet too sometimes, she just suddenly shuts herself out completely. shes oh so very confusing.
i've told her how i feel about her, shes told me to take it slow but i don't even know if she feels the same way towards me and i dare not ask.
anybody here believe in signs? i call her bumblebee, and ever since the day i met her, 6 months ago, ive been seeing bees all over.
the first bee was a dead bee though, that was right under my flat. then after that i've been seeing posters using bees, bee playgrounds, bee banners, and all sorts of things using bees.
i'm thinking, all of these might be signs, but i might just be dumb and it might all just be coincidental you know?
and for some reason, i keep feeling like shes the one.
shes the only thing ive been thinking about for these past few months.
sometimes i want to text her things like "my heart thinks of you more often than it thinks of me. and too, my heart wants to be closer to you than to me. my heart cares more about you than it does for me. see, i've told you my heart belongs to you. do you believe me now?"
i'm just plain dumb arent i?
Originally posted by fwy87:the first bee was a dead bee
Answers your question.
thnik that she doesnt like u. look for another rose .
Originally posted by fwy87:sometimes she makes it look as though she might be interested in me too, and yet too sometimes, she just suddenly shuts herself out completely. shes oh so very confusing.
i've told her how i feel about her, shes told me to take it slow but i don't even know if she feels the same way towards me and i dare not ask.
anybody here believe in signs? i call her bumblebee, and ever since the day i met her, 6 months ago, ive been seeing bees all over.
the first bee was a dead bee though, that was right under my flat. then after that i've been seeing posters using bees, bee playgrounds, bee banners, and all sorts of things using bees.
i'm thinking, all of these might be signs, but i might just be dumb and it might all just be coincidental you know?
and for some reason, i keep feeling like shes the one.
shes the only thing ive been thinking about for these past few months.
sometimes i want to text her things like "my heart thinks of you more often than it thinks of me. and too, my heart wants to be closer to you than to me. my heart cares more about you than it does for me. see, i've told you my heart belongs to you. do you believe me now?"
i'm just plain dumb arent i?
when a girl says... 'take it slow'... she means it... and it meant... 'my friend, let's just be friends 1st bah...'
"Why (Are We Still Friends)" Lyrics by 98 Degrees
We do almost everything that lovers do
And that’s why it’s hard, just to be friends with you
Every time your heart is broken by the fool
I want you to know that it hurts me too
It’s hard to wipe your tears away (tears away)
Knowing that you should be with me
Now tell me why
Why – why are we still friends
When everything says
We should be more than we are
And tell me why every time I find
Someone that I like
We always end up just being friends (Just Being Friends)
I would hate for you to find somebody new
Who you really love, cause it would mean losing you
But am I a fool girl not to say
If I’m always scared I’ll lose you anyway
Somehow somewhere I’ve got to choose (got to choose)
No matter if it’s win or lose
Now tell me why
I don’t wanna be like your brother
I don’t wanna be your best friend
I only wanna be your lover
When will this end
If I told you that I wanna be in your life
Then you could be the woman in mine
she's asking for a

BOOYAKA BOOYAKA 619!
move on
not interested in you, that is, rejection.
Originally posted by fwy87:Okay the previous times I've asked her if she'd like to go out with me, she always replies with "another time perhaps :)"
Last night I texted her after conversing with her about her recent trip overseas, asking her "Hey, do you think maybe I could take you out for a movie sometime?", with her replying "hmm movie, we'll see about that :)"
i don't understand what she meant :/ help me someone!
I guess she's hinting that's she's pretty bored with you? Sorry..I'm not too sure about that...pardon me...
well maybe she might have plans or she just doesn't want to disappoint you
She's saying "NO CHANCE IN HELL!" How old are you,kid,21?
By the way,how you got to know her?
Originally posted by fwy87:Okay the previous times I've asked her if she'd like to go out with me, she always replies with "another time perhaps :)"
Last night I texted her after conversing with her about her recent trip overseas, asking her "Hey, do you think maybe I could take you out for a movie sometime?", with her replying "hmm movie, we'll see about that :)"
i don't understand what she meant :/ help me someone!
i think it means "keep in view". she is not that interested in u (maybe there is another guy she likes?), but she wants to keep u hanging ard. dun ask her out liao. wait for her to ask u instead. but dun get ur hopes too high.
After reading your post my friend, I hate to be in love again.
she doesn't want to go out with u
if you want to play one game,
try go to great lengths to help her...let her see wot kind of person you are...
dun make things seem so obvious that you are doing it for the sake of getting her but rather just to pinch her heart through sincererity as a friend..till she contacts you more often
then try to minimise contact with her...see wot she will do etc...
if she doesn't bother to contact you though she remains friendly to you when you try contacting her, then i think you should move on buddy...
this method may be a time consuming one...but hey, not all methods are for the right people right?
Originally posted by Deino:if you want to play one game,
try go to great lengths to help her...let her see wot kind of person you are...
dun make things seem so obvious that you are doing it for the sake of getting her but rather just to pinch her heart through sincererity as a friend..till she contacts you more often
then try to minimise contact with her...see wot she will do etc...if she doesn't bother to contact you though she remains friendly to you when you try contacting her, then i think you should move on buddy...
this method may be a time consuming one...but hey, not all methods are for the right people right?
ahaha this method is call fishing right
stop talking to her and forget about getting attached
Originally posted by mlmersrlosers:
ahaha this method is call fishing right
kinda...i dunno wot its called but i was trying to use this method on a girl i liked coz she's the type who won't fall in love with a guy so easily(thats wot she claimed)...until another one of my classmates asked me to be her bf...lol...i actually love being single...but i thought i'd go on with her instead...
Originally posted by Deino:if you want to play one game,
try go to great lengths to help her...let her see wot kind of person you are...
dun make things seem so obvious that you are doing it for the sake of getting her but rather just to pinch her heart through sincererity as a friend..till she contacts you more often
then try to minimise contact with her...see wot she will do etc...if she doesn't bother to contact you though she remains friendly to you when you try contacting her, then i think you should move on buddy...
this method may be a time consuming one...but hey, not all methods are for the right people right?
agree!!!
tried and tested!!
proved confusing!!
hey wat is the girl will always initiate contact with me.. but then keeps saying dun like me this type of guy.. when i only joke that we are couple...
haha...
IA