What does it mean when she says
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Originally posted by Deino:
kinda...i dunno wot its called but i was trying to use this method on a girl i liked coz she's the type who won't fall in love with a guy so easily(thats wot she claimed)...until another one of my classmates asked me to be her bf...lol...i actually love being single...but i thought i'd go on with her instead...
huh u go on? means in relationship with her le ar?haha u sounds like my case lidat..
anyway single is really good until u have a girl that loves u very much..
IA
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Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:
huh u go on? means in relationship with her le ar?haha u sounds like my case lidat..
anyway single is really good until u have a girl that loves u very much..
IA
oh...went on with my classmate who asked me to be her bf...lol...
i prolly thought that i should learn to love someone else i dun really have feelings for...
and its goin on rather smoothly...maybe i'm trying to prove to myself that a relationship doesn't have to start with love but rather with ideals, trust and many other words that can be mashed with them... -
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the battle not lost yet
u can move on wif other gals, in the meantime keep her in sight, why limit yrself to just her?
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Originally posted by 00king00:
the battle not lost yet
u can move on wif other gals, in the meantime keep her in sight, why limit yrself to just her?
Well.. this type of thing very hard to say....
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Ok, dude, this is direct from a gal like me, no use reading guyus reply, they just dun understand gals feeling.
Answer: NOT INTERESTED with you.
Sori but that is life. Me use to reject guys that way, even in sgforum PM
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Give it another try and then, 'THREE STRIKES AND YOU'RE OUUUUUTT!!!'
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sometimes i want to text her things like "my heart thinks of you more often than it thinks of me. and too, my heart wants to be closer to you than to me. my heart cares more about you than it does for me. see, i've told you my heart belongs to you. do you believe me now?"
u betta not text her that unless u wish not to talk to her anymore!!
but from d way i c, u r realli in lov wit dis girl..so i tink u shdnt gif up juz yet.. try moving her wit ur sincerity..
asking u to take it slow doesnt mean tt she's rejecting u..so, so long tt u don wanna gif up, i guess u shd still try winning her over..but nvr be aggressive when making ur moves..btw, in some cases, even if she were to reject u one day, doesnt mean tt she don like u, u noe..maybe she has a prob tt she mite haf been kping from u..
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instead of fretting over endlessly..
just ask her out to have a talk..find out her feelings towards u..instead of dragging the whole thing..
if she don't like..then just let her go..
*miNty` prays for u that her reply will be positive*
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Originally posted by Short Ninja:
Give it another try and then, 'THREE STRIKES AND YOU'RE OUUUUUTT!!!'
Guys, dun waste your time, look for the next gal in line, if a gal like a guy, she will not reject him outright, she will give clues, pointer and tease him before accepting his dating which she so much wanted inside her heart ya. -
Originally posted by miNty`:
instead of fretting over endlessly..
just ask her out to have a talk..find out her feelings towards u..instead of dragging the whole thing..
if she don't like..then just let her go..
*miNty` prays for u that her reply will be positive*
wah so good ah lol
anyway all the best dude
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Guys, dun waste your time, look for the next gal in line, if a gal like a guy, she will not reject him outright, she will give clues, pointer and tease him before accepting his dating which she so much wanted inside her heart ya.
Just trying to encourage the poor fella because everybody needs to seek confirmation a couple of times before moving on..mah -
How about when you confessed to a girl that you like her, and ask if she want to give a r/s a try and she say that:' hmm.. actions speak louder then words?'
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just ignore her bah, if she's interested she will reinitiate contact
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move on....
there is easier catch out there....
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Originally posted by fwy87:
Okay the previous times I've asked her if she'd like to go out with me, she always replies with "another time perhaps :)"
Last night I texted her after conversing with her about her recent trip overseas, asking her "Hey, do you think maybe I could take you out for a movie sometime?", with her replying "hmm movie, we'll see about that :)"
i don't understand what she meant :/ help me someone!
Dude, that is a reject, but in a polite way. (with "another time perhaps" but never.)
If she wanted to go out with you but have other plans at that point of time, she will initiate another meetup with you, but did she? I assume it's a no.You tried twice, how about giving it another go? Good luck.
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Originally posted by fwy87:
Okay the previous times I've asked her if she'd like to go out with me, she always replies with "another time perhaps :)"
Last night I texted her after conversing with her about her recent trip overseas, asking her "Hey, do you think maybe I could take you out for a movie sometime?", with her replying "hmm movie, we'll see about that :)"
i don't understand what she meant :/ help me someone!
Dude, that is a reject, but in a polite way. (with "another time perhaps" but never.)
If she wanted to go out with you but have other plans at that point of time, she will initiate another meetup with you, but did she? I assume it's a no.You tried twice, how about giving it another go? Good luck.
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Originally posted by fwy87:
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sometimes i want to text her things like "my heart thinks of you more often than it thinks of me. and too, my heart wants to be closer to you than to me. my heart cares more about you than it does for me. see, i've told you my heart belongs to you. do you believe me now?"
i'm just plain dumb arent i?
While you are thinking about it, she is also thinking about the whole thing.
When dah!
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shes just keeping her options open.. shes waiting for a better catch and if there is none, the she'll bo bian go out with you..
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Yea She will definitely go with an action man, but she might settle for a dreamer.
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Hello TS, im willing to help you out on this matter as i've kinda experienced it before. But whether or not you want to try what im about to tell you is entirely up to you.
While its possible that you might have been rejected (ouch), it is also possible that you have jio-ed her out the wrong way..
By asking her, "Do you think we might be able to go out sometime" you are putting pressure on her and putting the ball in her court. You are also coming across as indecisive. Try this:
You: "Well, im going to a concert on (date and time), why dont you tag along?".
Her: "Errmm.. I dunno, my grandma is giving birth on that day.." (insert her lame excuse here)
If she cant, give her another option, something abit more mundane,
You: "On (another date and time), im buying a new pair of shoes, come with me, i need a girl's opinion.."Her: "Really? Thats great! Where do you want me to meet you?"
Or
Her: "Ermmm.. Nah, im doing my hair/nails on that day, im not free as well.. Some other time perhaps?"
Make it about things do you anyway with or without her, and that you are inviting her into your world, geddit? If she still says no, at least you know for sure that she is definitely not into you at all and we can move on with our lives.. Good luck bro! -
Originally posted by fwy87:
sometimes she makes it look as though she might be interested in me too, and yet too sometimes, she just suddenly shuts herself out completely. shes oh so very confusing.
i've told her how i feel about her, shes told me to take it slow but i don't even know if she feels the same way towards me and i dare not ask.
anybody here believe in signs? i call her bumblebee, and ever since the day i met her, 6 months ago, ive been seeing bees all over.
the first bee was a dead bee though, that was right under my flat. then after that i've been seeing posters using bees, bee playgrounds, bee banners, and all sorts of things using bees.
i'm thinking, all of these might be signs, but i might just be dumb and it might all just be coincidental you know?
and for some reason, i keep feeling like shes the one.
shes the only thing ive been thinking about for these past few months.
sometimes i want to text her things like "my heart thinks of you more often than it thinks of me. and too, my heart wants to be closer to you than to me. my heart cares more about you than it does for me. see, i've told you my heart belongs to you. do you believe me now?"
i'm just plain dumb arent i?
it's in ur imagination.
if she's interested, she will show her interest, and go out with you.
i know this stupid idiot, totally insane, at city harvest bible study, he thought this girl interested in him, so he flashed her. he kept insisting the girl was interested in him, because she kept looking at his direction.
so moral of the story is.. just because you think it is so, please have a reality check.
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Originally posted by razor_zorro:
Hello TS, im willing to help you out on this matter as i've kinda experienced it before. But whether or not you want to try what im about to tell you is entirely up to you.
While its possible that you might have been rejected (ouch), it is also possible that you have jio-ed her out the wrong way..
By asking her, "Do you think we might be able to go out sometime" you are putting pressure on her and putting the ball in her court. You are also coming across as indecisive. Try this:
You: "Well, im going to a concert on (date and time), why dont you tag along?".
Her: "Errmm.. I dunno, my grandma is giving birth on that day.." (insert her lame excuse here)
If she cant, give her another option, something abit more mundane,
You: "On (another date and time), im buying a new pair of shoes, come with me, i need a girl's opinion.."Her: "Really? Thats great! Where do you want me to meet you?"
Or
Her: "Ermmm.. Nah, im doing my hair/nails on that day, im not free as well.. Some other time perhaps?"
Make it about things do you anyway with or without her, and that you are inviting her into your world, geddit? If she still says no, at least you know for sure that she is definitely not into you at all and we can move on with our lives.. Good luck bro!totally agree!
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Ermm.. LipGloSs, did you just agree to being asked out or did you agree with grandma's pregnancy woes?
Im juz kidding...
Back to the topic, i feel its the same when frens ask me to hang out. Like, "Hey , maybe we can go play pool some time? Whenever you are free, juz gimme a call.."
As compared to "Yo dude, we are going out for supper tommorow at 10pm. Come join us man, it will be fun.."
I dunno about you guys but im more inclined to go out for supper than shooting pool. Even though i know full well that playing pool is way more fun than going for makan.
So TS, updates?
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Originally posted by razor_zorro:
Ermm.. LipGloSs, did you just agree to being asked out or did you agree with grandma's pregnancy woes?
Im juz kidding...
Back to the topic, i feel its the same when frens ask me to hang out. Like, "Hey , maybe we can go play pool some time? Whenever you are free, juz gimme a call.."
As compared to "Yo dude, we are going out for supper tommorow at 10pm. Come join us man, it will be fun.."
I dunno about you guys but im more inclined to go out for supper than shooting pool. Even though i know full well that playing pool is way more fun than going for makan.
So TS, updates?
I agree abt making it abt things you will do with or without her aniways.. I think I myself will prefer a "date" that sounds that way..Yah TS, how come u nvr reply to anyones' suggestion..