For Guys, How would you react....
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For Normal Heterosexual guys,
How would you react if someone calls you gay.
I have many guy friends whom sometime i joke that they are gay. Yet they laugh and ignore it and deny it of course.
But there is this one guy friend, when i called him gay, he was so angry till now he hold a grudge towards me. Is he unknowingly gay, that he himself is afraid to question? Coz since young, he has been very over-sensitive over the issue of someone being gay.
He's kinda feminine. When I asked the people that knew us both about it, many wasnt suprised if he's gay.
What do you guys think?
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if someone call mi gay
i will say of coz i gay ma
coz i happy ma
gay = happy (for mi) -
depending on person, it might deem as insult... You should know how can play and who cannot in your circle of friends mah.
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Originally posted by caleb_chiang:
depending on person, it might deem as insult... You should know how can play and who cannot in your circle of friends mah.
That's the thing. The qn is, would a normal heterosexual guy mind so much about the issue? -
It's just "gay" what... don't need to kick a big fuss about it... gay then gay lor... I call my teacher gay too... because he is Mr Gay...
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i don mind if my friends call me gay..
because i know its a joke for me.
but for others, its all depends.
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i wont be surprised if he isn't gay, you should only reserve those for special people
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the best comeback for being called gay is, "dont worry, even if i was gay...u wouldnt be my type"
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Originally posted by caleb_chiang:
depending on person, it might deem as insult... You should know how can play and who cannot in your circle of friends mah.
kinda sums it all up.
being insulted when called a gay does not mean anything. he might have had a tragic past involving a gay, etc. you wouldn't know and you don't have to know.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
That's the thing. The qn is, would a normal heterosexual guy mind so much about the issue?here's an analogy.
years back, a man raped a very close friend/family of yours and you're deeply affected by it. some time later, someone calls you a rapist for the fun of it.
how would you react?
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gays nia.. whats so bad. gay also got mother born them
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Tbh, if my friend gay anot i dun really care as long he know i dun swing that way and we enjoy each other company ok wat.
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Originally posted by diablo4343:
gays nia.. whats so bad. gay also got mother born them
ya, i respect you -
Its fairly obvious isnt it.
That you had intentionally called him gay.
I will say he has a reason to be upset with you.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
For Normal Heterosexual guys,
How would you react if someone calls you gay.
I have many guy friends whom sometime i joke that they are gay. Yet they laugh and ignore it and deny it of course.
But there is this one guy friend, when i called him gay, he was so angry till now he hold a grudge towards me. Is he unknowingly gay, that he himself is afraid to question? Coz since young, he has been very over-sensitive over the issue of someone being gay.
He's kinda feminine. When I asked the people that knew us both about it, many wasnt suprised if he's gay.
What do you guys think?
i think you shouldn't look at it or so call make fun of it, whether he is gay or guy, if he is your friend, understand him and dun agitate him, same goes to you, you also got your bad points, what if someone say bad about you infront of you or things that you dun want to hear as a friend, sure you get angry ya. Be mature ya, i find sg guy lack of maturity and many still sucking milk in their late 20s.Gay, guy or gal, have friends, friend dun look at each other weakness to tease each other ya. Sometime, a gay is a better friend than a normal person. They are more caring and understanding. We have to accept them, afterall, most are born to be, not their fault, even if you dun like them, respect the parents who born them ya.
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Originally posted by Bus&Soccer l0v3r (VO3x 1):
if someone call mi gay
i will say of coz i gay ma
coz i happy ma
gay = happy (for mi)
sure, u bo gay mah -
DOMO......HARDO GAY DESU!!!!!!!!
gaylord fockers..
well, maybe he was just more feminine due to childhood circumstances and he really dislike it but he cant seem to overcome deeply rooted habits..hence hes upset..and when jokers calls him gay...thats it..you're dead..
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simple, stop calling him gay loh.
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if i am called a gay..i will act gay n disturb the person who calls me that :)) ..hahahahahahahah
cheers
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Gay...gay la.....there was once a girl who first met me...say i look feminine like Gay woh....i cannot be bother also....why think so much.....most likely ur friend is gay tat's why he so angry la...if not gay.....why bothered what ppl say.....this is their mouth wat....they can say what they like.....call u gay....worse come to worse u call them names also la...LOL
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Reminds me of one time i got really pissed when a good bro keep saying i gay. I think that time was too highly intoxicated and not in good mood, thats why reacted a little more then i should have.
But anyways la, some people may be more sensitive ma. Its like calling a short guy a dwarf. He will definately react a little more then ur average person that is NOT short.
If u are tall.. n ppl call u a dwarf, no doubt ur reactions will be much less then that of a short person who has been called a dwarf most of his life. Did i just repeat myself? hahaha
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
Reminds me of one time i got really pissed when a good bro keep saying i gay. I think that time was too highly intoxicated and not in good mood, thats why reacted a little more then i should have.
But anyways la, some people may be more sensitive ma. Its like calling a short guy a dwarf. He will definately react a little more then ur average person that is NOT short.
If u are tall.. n ppl call u a dwarf, no doubt ur reactions will be much less then that of a short person who has been called a dwarf most of his life. Did i just repeat myself? hahaha
yeah..dont hit them where it hurts...try not to call short people dwarves..very insulting especially if they are short but not bulky or little facial hair....you have gnomes and hobbits or even goblins for other short people to be called...
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And its usually the really gay fellas in deniel, will try to call other people gay.
Or in TS case, keep using it to joke about.
Its a somewhat psycho matter to try to justify joking about others are gay, when one sunconsiously wanted to be gay.
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everyone has their different mindsets. some ppl have different views about gay. so i think if he cant accept ur joke,that doesnt mean it's true.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
That's the thing. The qn is, would a normal heterosexual guy mind so much about the issue?
Well, the answer you seek lies on the reaction that your feminine guy friend reaction. What are you trying to prove? That he is not normal and gay???If you are feminine in nature and your friend say you are gay... don't you think it is more like an insult?