For Guys, How would you react....
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you don't have to be gay to be feminine.
sometimes males are born more feminine than others but still have feelings for the opposite sex.
i would have been insulted and even give you a punch.
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Originally posted by maxsee:
Gay...gay la.....there was once a girl who first met me...say i look feminine like Gay woh....i cannot be bother also....why think so much.....most likely ur friend is gay tat's why he so angry la...if not gay.....why bothered what ppl say.....this is their mouth wat....they can say what they like.....call u gay....worse come to worse u call them names also la...LOL
This is what I was thinking too.
If it's not true, then why be so freaking upset? Similarly to the example, if you're tall, you wont be upset if someone calls you a dwarf.
That's my point here.
P.S. I have nothing agains homosexuals whatsoever. I prefer comments from heterosexual guys since they would be 'in the position' of knowing about this reaction more.
I am girl who jokes around. So, I do call & joke most of my guy friends by saying, 'Maybe you're gay' . And they brush it off. Except for this person.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
you don't have to be gay to be feminine.
sometimes males are born more feminine than others but still have feelings for the opposite sex.
i would have been insulted and even give you a punch.
Oh pls, I have lots of male friends who are more to the feminine side and they are NOT gay. Even when i joke with them about this, they would just brush it off as a joke.If it isnt true, why be so upset? Even to the point of wanting to punch the person.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
Oh pls, I have lots of male friends who are more to the feminine side and they are NOT gay. Even when i joke with them about this, they would just brush it off as a joke.If it isnt true, why be so upset? Even to the point of wanting to punch the person.
if you're not doing well in ur studies and i call you stupid. will you be able to accept it?
some are able and some are not. some find it as a joke and some find it as an insult.
so think twice before doing anything. you might hurt more than one's feeling. you can hurt yourself.
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so does this entitle me to call you fat since you're one?
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
if you're not doing well in ur studies and i call you stupid. will you be able to accept it?
some are able and some are not. some find it as a joke and some find it as an insult.
so think twice before doing anything. you might hurt more than one's feeling. you can hurt yourself.
well, if it isnt true, what's the point of being upset?
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
so does this entitle me to call you fat since you're one?
call me fat if you want. I am not upset cause it aint true. -
Originally posted by huzane89:
well, if it isnt true, what's the point of being upset?
take it this way.
you're a mischievous boy.
and one day, people blame you for something that you didn't and had nothing to do with it.
would you be upset about it?
it's the same as the scenario of him being feminine.
and because of that, he's being called gay.
why wouldn't he be upset?
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Originally posted by huzane89:
call me fat if you want. I am not upset cause it aint true.liar liar liar. why'd you have to lie?
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
take it this way.
you're a mischievous boy.
and one day, people blame you for something that you didn't and had nothing to do with it.
would you be upset about it?
it's the same as the scenario of him being feminine.
and because of that, he's being called gay.
why wouldn't he be upset?
if being blamed for something that isnt true, then it's called being framed. That needs proof.
If it's not true, then why be so freaking upset? Similarly to the example, if you're tall, you wont be upset if someone calls you a dwarf.
That's my point here.
But if it's someone's opinion, then why be so upset when you yourself know the truth?
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
liar liar liar. why'd you have to lie?
Call me a liar all you want. cause i know it aint true. -
Originally posted by huzane89:
if being blamed for something that isnt true, then it's called being framed. That needs prove.
But if it's someone's opinion, then why be so upset when you yourself know the truth?
what prove do you have that he's gay?
once again, let me prove my point.
just because you're feminine, it doesn't mean you're gay.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
Call me a liar all you want. cause i know it aint true.yayayaya. you may look at yourself to be chubby.
but too bad. it's my opinion that you're fat. you know it's true. you know it is.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
if being blamed for something that isnt true, then it's called being framed. That needs proof.
If it's not true, then why be so freaking upset? Similarly to the example, if you're tall, you wont be upset if someone calls you a dwarf.
That's my point here.
But if it's someone's opinion, then why be so upset when you yourself know the truth?
you're freakin' stereotyping people.
and people don't pretty much accept that so stop it.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
what prove do you have that he's gay?
once again, let me prove my point.
just because you're feminine, it doesn't mean you're gay.
Did I ever say that because he's feminine he's gay?Didnt I mention that I have other feminine male friends that are not gay?
Did I confirm that he's gay? If I had known that would I be here asking opinion of heterosexual males here?
I suspect that's he's gay cause all his he added his fb unknown friends who ARE gay and take photos half naked with other men. And from his reaction about the gay community. In addition, from his reaction of holding a grudge for a long time because of this.
That's why I am asking here.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
yayayaya. you may look at yourself to be chubby.
but too bad. it's my opinion that you're fat. you know it's true. you know it is.
hmmm. If you call 48kg of 158cm fat. Then it's your opinion.Easily, you're obese to me.
And you're obese, you know you are.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
you're freakin' stereotyping people.
and people don't pretty much accept that so stop it.
how am I stereotyping here?
BTW, why are you so defensive when i am just asking a simple question on reaction of that person?
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Originally posted by huzane89:
hmmm. If you call 48kg of 158cm fat. Then it's your opinion.Easily, you're obese to me.
And you're obese, you know you are.
if i'm obese, you must be a real sumo
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Originally posted by huzane89:
how am I stereotyping here?
BTW, why are you so defensive when i am just asking a simple question on reaction of that person?
cause i hate stereotype people like you.
i find it real sickenin' of people like you
have you thought of the consequences of your actions?
what if that comment spread to others and to this peculiar girl he has a crush on.
and because of this 'gay' thingy magic. the girl has doubts of him. and what about those homophobic people. some are really against gays and he might get hurt cause of you.
what do you think of that? it's all fun and game to you isn't it?
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
if i'm obese, you must be a real sumo
If calling me a sumo makes you feel better than it's really your own self-esteem issues. Whatever that makes you happy.BTW, why do you seem to have a personal 'vendetta' over the issue?
Like I said, I was merely asking an opinion.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
Did I ever say that because he's feminine he's gay?Didnt I mention that I have other feminine male friends that are not gay?
Did I confirm that he's gay? If I had known that would I be here asking opinion of heterosexual males here?
I suspect that's he's gay cause all his he added his fb unknown friends who ARE gay and take photos half naked with other men. And from his reaction about the gay community. In addition, from his reaction of holding a grudge for a long time because of this.
That's why I am asking here.
how the fuck does having gay friends make you gay?
does that make me who has friends who smoke make me a smoker?
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
cause i hate stereotype people like you.
i find it real sickenin' of people like you
have you thought of the consequences of your actions?
what if that comment spread to others and to this peculiar girl he has a crush on.
and because of this 'gay' thingy magic. the girl has doubts of him. and what about those homophobic people. some are really against gays and he might get hurt cause of you.
what do you think of that? it's all fun and game to you isn't it?
You dont know me and yet you are accusing me of spreading a rumour.
I asked an opinion on his reaction anonymously here. I didnt go around asking my & his friends.
Now who is stereotyping here. Me or YOU?
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Originally posted by huzane89:
If calling me a sumo makes you feel better than it's really your own self-esteem issues. Whatever that makes you happy.BTW, why do you seem to have a personal 'vendetta' over the issue?
Like I said, I was merely asking an opinion.
yaryaryar. i'm fat. all those forummers who have met me before can prove that
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If people suspect I am gay, I wouldnt mind, because gay men has a certain degree of good-lookingness stigma.
So if people suspect Im gay, it means I am good looking.
But I will not be happy if they think I am effiminate or sissy.
Effiminate and sissiness has more to do with mannerism and body language.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
how the fuck does having gay friends make you gay?
does that make me who has friends who smoke make me a smoker?
Did I ever say that because he's feminine he's gay?Didnt I mention that I have other feminine male friends that are not gay?
Did I confirm that he's gay? If I had known that would I be here asking opinion of heterosexual males here?
I suspect that's he's gay cause all his he added his fb unknown friends who ARE gay and take photos half naked with other men. And from his reaction about the gay community. In addition, from his reaction of holding a grudge for a long time because of this.
That's why I am asking here.
Please read carefully before making a misunderstood point on your side.