For Guys, How would you react....
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Originally posted by huzane89:
You dont know me and yet you are accusing me of spreading a rumour.
I asked an opinion on his reaction anonymously here. I didnt go around asking my & his friends.
Now who is stereotyping here. Me or YOU?
ouh?
what bout this?
'He's kinda feminine. When I asked the people that knew us both about it, many wasnt suprised if he's gay.'
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Originally posted by huzane89:
Please read carefully before making a misunderstood point on your side.
i would be pretty much upset and hold a grudge on you if you insult me of someone i'm not.
i'm pretty much comfortable with the gay community as well.
does that make me gay as well?
they don't really affect me as long as they don't harm me.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
yaryaryar. i'm fat. all those forummers who have met me before can prove that
isnt it funny since, you calling me fat is your opinion. when i call you obese (my opinion) you will try to debunk my opinion. So double standard. -
Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
ouh?
what bout this?
'He's kinda feminine. When I asked the people that knew us both about it, many wasnt suprised if he's gay.'
is this my opinion or other people's opinion? I asked people whom both of us knew, not our friends. Dont misunderstand hor. These are the people he no longer contact or give a damn about.so dont you worry abt his reputation.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
isnt it funny since, you calling me fat is your opinion. when i call you obese (my opinion) you will try to debunk my opinion. So double standard.ie gotch pr0ofz dhatx uer fatx buut ue dunch havee ani f0rr me duuh.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
i would be pretty much upset and hold a grudge on you if you insult me of someone i'm not.
i'm pretty much comfortable with the gay community as well.
does that make me gay as well?
they don't really affect me as long as they don't harm me.
Stop assuming and stereotyping me.It seems that you and him have a lot of similarity. As I have mentioned many times, I too have joked or call my other male(feminine or not) gay, and they didnt hold a grudge like he did. He's the ONLY one who reacted that way.
I have mentioned this too, I dont mind gay friends.
And you're assuming this person is LIKE you. FIY, he's not comfortable with the gay community. It seems that he hates them too much. I wonder why? Being uneasy or discomfort is one thing, but hating the gay community? He did mention to me that he MIGHT be gay.
P.S. why are you so defensive about this. I merely asking an opinion is he's gay or not from his reaction.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
ie gotch pr0ofz dhatx uer fatx buut ue dunch havee ani f0rr me duuh.
N.A.T.O.I am actually smiling on my side, cause it's hilarious that you are trying so hard to prove I that I am fat, when this is clearly not the issue of this thread.
Stop being childish, aite.
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aiya. go cut urself lar emokid
ahar! you're stereotyping me for assuming this person is LIKE me.
wrong idea dude. not me. a good fren of mine. you have no idea how his life was like.
ouh. so he's not comfortable with the gay community but why state about his reaction of the gay community if he's really not into in?
why are you going against your words?
what the fuck are you trying to prove?
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Originally posted by huzane89:
N.A.T.O.I am actually smiling on my side, cause it's hilarious that you are trying so hard to prove I that I am fat, when this is clearly not the issue of this thread.
Stop being childish, aite.
like duh, i'm using the fat issue as an example of the gay issue.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
aiya. go cut urself lar emokid
ahar! you're stereotyping me for assuming this person is LIKE me.
wrong idea dude. not me. a good fren of mine. you have no idea how his life was like.
ouh. so he's not comfortable with the gay community but why state about his reaction of the gay community if he's really not into in?
why are you going against your words?
what the fuck are you trying to prove?
Are you reading your words here?
Since when that you need to be comfortable with the gay community for ppl to assume you are gay? Like I have mentioned before, he's into hating the gay community too much for ppl to think that he's gay in denial.
Vulgarities. How childish.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
like duh, i'm using the fat issue as an example of the gay issue.
If you're fat, someone calling you fat. Would you be insulted? If it's true, Most would say yes. Cause ppl know you're fat and purposely insult you.
If you're thin as a stick, ppl call you fat. Would you be insulted. Most would say no, cause it aint true.
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I touch them and make those lovey-dovey faces, if I know them well.
If not, there's always the friendly smile and middle finger gesture of gratitude.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
Did I ever say that because he's feminine he's gay?Didnt I mention that I have other feminine male friends that are not gay?
Did I confirm that he's gay? If I had known that would I be here asking opinion of heterosexual males here?
I suspect that's he's gay cause all his he added his fb unknown friends who ARE gay and take photos half naked with other men. And from his reaction about the gay community. In addition, from his reaction of holding a grudge for a long time because of this.
That's why I am asking here.
and what's with this?
from one perspective, you're saying that his reaction was comfortable with the gay community.
and if we were to follow by psychological actions, if he wasn't comfortable with it, you won't place it there because why would he be suspected gay for not being comfortable with them at the first place?
ps, you're being pwned by a kid. yeah. be shamed. ^_^V
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Originally posted by huzane89:
If you're fat, someone calling you fat. Would you be insulted? If it's true, Most would say yes. Cause ppl know you're fat and purposely insult you.
If you're thin as a stick, ppl call you fat. Would you be insulted. Most would say no, cause it aint true.
and if you're a good kid and people call you mat and ahbeng for the way you look. would you be happy? i know i won't. i get that all the time.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
and what's with this?
from one perspective, you're saying that his reaction was comfortable with the gay community.
and if we were to follow by psychological actions, if he wasn't comfortable with it, you won't place it there because why would he be suspected gay for not being comfortable with them at the first place?
ps, you're being pwned by a kid. yeah. be shamed. ^_^V
From who's perspective? Yours or mine? When did I ever mentioned that he's comfortable with the gay community.From a psychological action too, you should know that if one is hating the gay community TOO much then, he MIGHT be a gay with denial.
P.S. You call it being pawned if you want. Whatever that makes you happy. From you're writing and childish rebuttles, I am sure that you were just a kid. Happy growing up, right.
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oklar huda,
i go sleep kay?
tomorrow got school.
evening i entertain you somemore.
i suggest you cut ur cheeks to make urself slimmer.
okay?
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
and if you're a good kid and people call you mat and ahbeng for the way you look. would you be happy? i know i won't. i get that all the time.
Then this reflect back to your own self-esteem. Why should you be upset? Are they so impt that their opinion matters so much to you?You know that you are not a mat/ahbeng. Then why should other ppl's opinion affect you?
And you are not good kid. A good kid know how to control and mind his language.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
For Normal Heterosexual guys,
How would you react if someone calls you gay.
I have many guy friends whom sometime i joke that they are gay. Yet they laugh and ignore it and deny it of course.
But there is this one guy friend, when i called him gay, he was so angry till now he hold a grudge towards me. Is he unknowingly gay, that he himself is afraid to question? Coz since young, he has been very over-sensitive over the issue of someone being gay.
He's kinda feminine. When I asked the people that knew us both about it, many wasnt suprised if he's gay.
What do you guys think?
me gay no way
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Originally posted by huzane89:
From who's perspective? Yours or mine? When did I ever mentioned that he's comfortable with the gay community.From a psychological action too, you should know that if one is hating the gay community TOO much then, he MIGHT be a gay with denial.
P.S. You call it being pawned if you want. Whatever that makes you happy. From you're writing and childish rebuttles, I am sure that you were just a kid. Happy growing up, right.
wow. homophobic people who have been punching my fren are gays in denial
nice theory woman.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
Then this reflect back to your own self-esteem. Why should you be upset? Are they so impt that their opinion matters so much to you?You know that you are not a mat/ahbeng. Then why should other ppl's opinion affect you?
umm. i don't know? when your teacher see you as a paikia, he treats you differently than the rest. friends treat you differently than the rest.
you're treated differently on who you're viewed on.don't you know the basics in life? i pity that you've grown up differently.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
oklar huda,
i go sleep kay?
tomorrow got school.
evening i entertain you somemore.
i suggest you cut ur cheeks to make urself slimmer.
okay?
huda?
Even you got my name wrong.
Go to school and learn some manners so ppl wont assume that you're a bad kid. Even if you are.
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Originally posted by huzane89:
huda?
Even you got my name wrong.
Go to school and learn some manners so ppl wont assume that you're a bad kid. Even if you are.
ismail lar ismail.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
wow. homophobic people who have been punching my fren are gays in denial
nice theory woman.
they are homophobic. This person is not.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
ismail lar ismail.
Ismail? Wrong again.You better check your information. cause you pawning your own self.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
umm. i don't know? when your teacher see you as a paikia, he treats you differently than the rest. friends treat you differently than the rest.
you're treated differently on who you're viewed on.don't you know the basics in life? i pity that you've grown up differently.
Like I have mentioned. You know who you are, the rest doesnt matter. Have more self-confidence.
Unfortunately, you've sinked into the importance of how others see you. I pity you more.