I think Maids are quite rude these days
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I'm 16, and i have a maid who is rude, and brainless. Though some maids are good and have their bad points, this maid of mine really gets on my nerves.
Firstly, when my parents just talk about something unpleasent which regards her even if she did something wrong, she would give the " Cant be bothered " look and keep herself busy like doing chores while my parents talk to her.
Secondly, She breaks a lot of stuff, est. about 20 items from the start of the year till now. Usually when maids break stuff, the employer would demand her to pay for it, but my parents didnt even ask her, and yet she gives that asshole attitude as if she did nothing wrong. The worst part is she did something wrong and push the blame to someoone else like my elderly grandma despite us knowing she was the culprit.
Thirdly, When she breaks stuff she would conceal it by hiding it and throwing it away quickly. And when people question her about it, she would say " I don't know, I never see ".
All that i can say is that she should be lucky to have an employer like my parents.
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u lucky lor, my former 2 maids took my money off...with my dog too.
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You, your parents should let her know that you employ her. Not the other way around.
She will slowly get her way, she will take kindness for weakness. Time to get tough on the her and show her who's boss.
If you cant...
Change the maid, don't expect her to change...
Get one who appreaciate kindness. There are such maids around.
Don't be wimpy, and get stuck with a rude maid.
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on the other side of the scale, how are employers treating the maids?
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Originally posted by FireIce:
on the other side of the scale, how are employers treating the maids?
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The maid abuse cases got how many? We only look at them coz its in the news. When maid steal money, newspaper got publish? Police got take action? At most sent back unless the sum is uber big. I forsee the day when maids will threaten to cry abuse when employer want to send them back
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Originally posted by dadeadman1337:
The maid abuse cases got how many? We only look at them coz its in the news. When maid steal money, newspaper got publish? Police got take action? At most sent back unless the sum is uber big. I forsee the day when maids will threaten to cry abuse when employer want to send them back
yup..maids bring back boyfriends back home to fuck..who to blame? later say, employer at fault..everytime cooped up at work..one more thing, most maids do not come here "empty handed".
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i have to agree with you Driftsmoker, my maid is a pain in the ass. She does the same thing as your maid does. The worst thing is after she shits she does not wash her hands. OMG
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ding
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Still employ her for what... Terminate the contract la...
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Ask your parents to change....
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ur maid got degree anot?
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Originally posted by angel7030:
u lucky lor, my former 2 maids took my money off...with my dog too.
Even the dog do not want a whore to be his master so he escapes with he maid.Poor whore
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I understand how you feel, cos I'm in the same situation as you. Mine understands the English language, yet when we speak to her, she pretends as though she couldn't understand a single shit. It just makes the whole situation so frustrating and job can't be done as instructions can't be conveyed out or rather, when she doesn't want to listen. Mine is someone with a degree fyi.
And let's not talk about those employers who abuses their maid, leave that to another thread if you want to argue from that point. There are 2 sides to it, I believe if you employ a maid, treat them with respect, and they in turn, should also do their job properly. Right now, we are talking about us treating them properly but they, not doing their job!
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Originally posted by Driftsmoker:
I'm 16, and i have a maid who is rude, and brainless. Though some maids are good and have their bad points, this maid of mine really gets on my nerves.
Firstly, when my parents just talk about something unpleasent which regards her even if she did something wrong, she would give the " Cant be bothered " look and keep herself busy like doing chores while my parents talk to her.
Secondly, She breaks a lot of stuff, est. about 20 items from the start of the year till now. Usually when maids break stuff, the employer would demand her to pay for it, but my parents didnt even ask her, and yet she gives that asshole attitude as if she did nothing wrong. The worst part is she did something wrong and push the blame to someoone else like my elderly grandma despite us knowing she was the culprit.
Thirdly, When she breaks stuff she would conceal it by hiding it and throwing it away quickly. And when people question her about it, she would say " I don't know, I never see ".
All that i can say is that she should be lucky to have an employer like my parents.
sounds exactly like my maid!!!
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U are the boss, u call the shot.
Tell her if she don't perform. Send her back and change a new one. If she don't heed.
JUST DO IT!
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Well, my maid took great care of me during my preschool days. When she returned to her hometown, she still send postcards and photos to me. I shall never forget that.
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For those who complaint about their Maid.....this is what I have to recomend.....
How about U being the Maid for 1 day....and the Maid order you around and after 1 day you can tell us why your Maid is Rude and brainless.
For those who stayed in apartment/Flat U don't need a Maid. do your own housework don't be lazy. Save that money.
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Originally posted by Arapahoe:
For those who complaint about their Maid.....this is what I have to recomend.....
How about U being the Maid for 1 day....and the Maid order you around and after 1 day you can tell us why your Maid is Rude and brainless.
For those who stayed in apartment/Flat U don't need a Maid. do your own housework don't be lazy. Save that money.
I wonder would you still say the same should this situation be in a business organisation. The CEO takes over as an office boy and see if he is still as brainless or not.
There are the good maids and those black sheep too, what we are pin pointing out here are some of the traits that certain maids display when they are not up to their mark when doing a job.
A job is afterall a job, if they had chosen to apply for it whether in forced circumstances or not, they ought to carry out their role and responsibilites.
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no maids for me ..dont like to stay with some 1 i dontknow
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Originally posted by SGporkz:
no maids for me ..dont like to stay with some 1 i dontknow
can 培养感情 mah
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dont want la...
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u scared wat?
most of them cannot eat babi -
now u say... thats why ..
porky perfer... taiwan jp. . HAHA
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Originally posted by Shao Wei:
ur maid got degree anot?
mine got, 250 degree shortsighted on left eyes and 200 degree on the left.