2 Candidates that you can choose to be your life partner. Which one would you prefer?
1) A uni graduates, looks okay (not outstanding or ugly), got a fairly good paying job, a little bit boring with little social life but takes care of family (wife and kids).. (ie, life revolving around family)
2) A non-uni grads (with diploma), dyed golden hair, smoker, got a stable job (but dun earn as much as uni graduates).Got some social life. Looks better than uni graduates.
Both of them have similar family background. ie, non rich family..
Who would u prefer more... FYI..a lady fren of mine got 2 guys courting her at same time.. She asked me for advice.. So i thought I'll see wat u all have to say...
the way you the question is asked sound like you can buy a guy from Taka....
of course i'll go for the ger that takes care of family ![]()
look doesn't last long ![]()
Number 2, does he look after family too ? Which guy is more shang jing ? Money is secondary too, you can always upgrade yourself and find a better paying job. More information needed
But from your post, i obviously deduct some points for smoking. But then again, smoking can be quited too
you say the guy that wants to upgrade himself is better yet you say money is secondary.............???
very easy to solve this dilemma...........always be prepared that the marriage will fail...........so marry the guy that will agree to a pre-nup agreement, see which boy willing to give more to the girl..................
after all, the whole issue is about money isn't it ?
Originally posted by Straightstick:2 Candidates that you can choose to be your life partner. Which one would you prefer?
1) A uni graduates, looks okay (not outstanding or ugly), got a fairly good paying job, a little bit boring with little social life but takes care of family (wife and kids).. (ie, life revolving around family)
2) A non-uni grads (with diploma), dyed golden hair, smoker, got a stable job (but dun earn as much as uni graduates).Got some social life. Looks better than uni graduates.
Both of them have similar family background. ie, non rich family..
Who would u prefer more... FYI..a lady fren of mine got 2 guys courting her at same time.. She asked me for advice.. So i thought I'll see wat u all have to say...
Common Sense says 1) is better.
Most girls will go for 2) however.
of cos choose the 3rd choice lah.... Mi lor...
if the girl is only looking at the things listed.
the girl phail already
1... no social life good.. then he won't know so many girls therefore lesser chance of cheating.. :)
ya and after marriage with co-workers in the company bring him to KTVs for those PRCs chiobus, the one with lesser social life will get more into it then the other who might have already played enough liao by the time he decided to get marry
Originally posted by As romanista2001:you say the guy that wants to upgrade himself is better yet you say money is secondary.............???
very easy to solve this dilemma...........always be prepared that the marriage will fail...........so marry the guy that will agree to a pre-nup agreement, see which boy willing to give more to the girl..................
after all, the whole issue is about money isn't it ?
I mean degree and diploma doesnt always mean degree will earn higher money.
Originally posted by Straightstick:2 Candidates that you can choose to be your life partner. Which one would you prefer?
1) A uni graduates, looks okay (not outstanding or ugly), got a fairly good paying job, a little bit boring with little social life but takes care of family (wife and kids).. (ie, life revolving around family)
2) A non-uni grads (with diploma), dyed golden hair, smoker, got a stable job (but dun earn as much as uni graduates).Got some social life. Looks better than uni graduates.
Both of them have similar family background. ie, non rich family..
Who would u prefer more... FYI..a lady fren of mine got 2 guys courting her at same time.. She asked me for advice.. So i thought I'll see wat u all have to say...
Not enough to judge. What about character?
seems like u all think that i am not providing enough info... Character wise both about the same... Not much of difference..
Just list down if u all think i should add more traits of both guys for better comparison.. tks for help...
Just to add on... the lady is a uni grad also.. forgot to mention this point...
my life partner 
obviously one
Originally posted by FireIce:my life partner
Sculy he prefers guys ![]()
oh... think to most guys who would think logically and think further ahead they would surely choose 1.. but girls are highly unpredictabe one... especially those younger and bimbotic one.. who knows they would happily go for no 2 and regret in their later life??
Originally posted by Straightstick:seems like u all think that i am not providing enough info... Character wise both about the same... Not much of difference..
Just list down if u all think i should add more traits of both guys for better comparison.. tks for help...
Just to add on... the lady is a uni grad also.. forgot to mention this point...
which one more pro in bed
xD
Go for the one with bigger cock.
Originally posted by ���ら�:which one more pro in bed
xD
this is one my fren cannot confirm yet... haven try them.. but logically speaking should be 2.. since he got more ex gfs than 1 and i presume tat he got more sexperience than 1... Is this an impt consideration for u when comes to selecting lifepartner??
Maybe next time u choose bf must measure length and girth of meatstick??? hahaha... jk onli....
Not pro in bed then can bully mah..... wa u guys dono anything one
Originally posted by TTFU:Not pro in bed then can bully mah..... wa u guys dono anything one
hehehe.. TTFU.. from wat u said i think u are still a fresh virgin right?? later u young cow eat old grass let old aunty bully u and in the process let u learn new things and skills.. want or nt????
i think sexual performane of husband also impt... got ppl say tat sex is actually tangible part of love....
Looks can change but so can attitude.
Majority of the guys alway and I mean always try to act gentlemently on their first date with girls. After 'getting" the girl with their phoney tricks they then take a turn 360 degree change for the worst.
Being a Uni graduate doesn't guarantee a long term finance stability as well. The future is unpredictable. A small investment mistake or negligence in any aspect could end up in financial ruins.
Just because someone isn't earning as much doesn't mean he isn't trying as hard or working as hard. Some people just need a longer time then others but will eventually get there.
You shouldn't just judge a guy by his wordly possessions. Character is much more important. It is only through long term relationship that you can really judge a person and his worth.
BTW i'm sure non of us here has a magic crystal ball to look into the future neither do we have mind reading abilities. Every girl is different and have a mind of their own. We only truely really know the answer to that question when the girl has made her choice.