Do u think u can trust yr good friends 100%
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One cannot live on friendship and fresh air alone.
Really.
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i have no $ to lend
other than a listening ear.
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Well, it depends on how much 5K means to me. If I can well afford it, why not?
But if it means life and death to me, then uh....... NO.
So it's not just the issue of trust...........
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no
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Originally posted by lovesgarfield:
For example, if they ask u to lend $5k to them, will u agree?
Yes...50k I also will lend to them if I had 50k.But I will craft a legal letter of agreement and ask him to sign on it before I loan him the money.
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5K is a big sum
i wont lend it de -
think the reason for this thread can be found in agony aunt forum
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nobody can be trusted 100%.
5k? to friend? fuck off lor.
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ive this fren, noe damn long liao. lent him like wad, 3~4k over 7 yrs. always delay returning one. i damn sian n buay song liao. so yea. nt gonna lend money anymore. frenship=shit when it comes to $$
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im pretty much a loyal frend, if a good frend got problems and come find me most prob id go down and help give off some punches and kicks.
but hor if ask me to lend $$$, no way man.... not anymore. lessons learnt.
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based on my previous experiences, i WILL NOT loan even a single cent to a friend, will just said no money that's all. Why subject yaself to mental torture on whether he will return up the $$$ tio bo?
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Originally posted by parn:
Yes...50k I also will lend to them if I had 50k.But I will craft a legal letter of agreement and ask him to sign on it before I loan him the money.
Bound by IOU of course will return the $$$ , but then you wun be able to see the true colors of your fren, the true test of friendship is based on $$$ issue.
Why don't you lent ya fren a amount that you could afford to lose and see whether he/she will default the loan. If defaults, stay away from that fren, if got return, congrats ya fren have passed the test.
How do you craft an letter of agreement anyway?
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Use google find template lor.
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Originally posted by ditzy:
Use google find template lor.
i have just realised that google can help you in many ways, endless possiblities...
Just use the template throw in the lender and borrower's name inside at appopriate places, and should borrower default just bring the letter to nearest police station, so simple..
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Exactly, thats why I rarely post topics.
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after reading all the replies i know 人情淡薄 is real.
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if he needs the money, should have say the reason cuz its large sum cause it is not 5000 rupiah.
did he borrow from you or other people last time before and return?
do you know him for long?
if needed everythin in black and white
cheers
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i will ask what is it use for.. $5k is quite a big amount to me~ i very poor de leh...
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Originally posted by Lorry`:
im pretty much a loyal frend, if a good frend got problems and come find me most prob id go down and help give off some punches and kicks.
but hor if ask me to lend $$$, no way man.... not anymore. lessons learnt.
i dun trust lorry drivers -
Originally posted by angel7030:
i dun trust lorry drivers
i also dun trust a certain owner of a pub at joo chiat called pub 88 , so as that person claim... -
i have learn my lesson. so now.. my take is.
if u decided to lend..then u must be prepared the money wont be returned.
usually my answer is sorry.
friends? there is only 2 friends ill lend to.. yes. 1 word trust .. of cos i wont lend all my savings..n kill myself..