Is it ok to be naked in front of own children?
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Hi! I'm a 32 yo married woman with young kids.
Just checking with everybody here...it is ok or normal to appear naked in front of own young children? I have been bathing naked with my children age 3 and 7 since they were very young. Don't know anyone else here do the same? Is it normal?
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its ok, we bath together
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as long as you know when to stop doing it..
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u will noe when they wan to stop
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while u should stop now
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Originally posted by Bus&Soccer l0v3r (VO3x 1):
while u should stop now
u have children? -
so u dun understand how close your children are to your heart
the joy
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wait the kids get too used to it and wanna see neh neh when bathing how? TS is a lady.
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they sucked tat neh neh from baby
all children eventually belong to the mother wen they get older
the father is only a money supplier
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0-18 months old still acceptable, but not when the child is 36-84 months old.
Heck, I think you should stop now, I think an 84 month old kid should be sexually educated though, later when he grows old I don't think iit is good for his growth though.
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Originally posted by TIB1167D:
0-18 months old still acceptable, but not when the child is 36-84 months old.
Heck, I think you should stop now, I think an 84 month old kid should be sexually educated though.
u think? -
Originally posted by FBFIce:
u think?Has to stop.
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Originally posted by TIB1167D:
Has to stop.
u have children? -
The problem is really with the general Singaporean mentality. Too many people here make out the more private body parts to be a vulgar thing. Instead of using proper names, we use funny names teaching our children to view the breast, penis and vagina as something 'dirty' and 'wierd'. It is no wonder that you don't see as many mothers breast feeding compared to many other countries.
To CSW35, if you're a good mother, you'll know when to stop bathing with them. The signal will be very clear from your children.
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Hi,
I think for the 7-year old one.....is already too old for that.....
I believe you need to stop bathing together with the 7 year old.
For the 3-year old maybe is still ok.....but I am not sure.....I still think it is rather unusual that you bath naked together with them. I mean for kids to be naked is understandable but you are a grown adult. Actually maybe that is still ok but need to stop soon for the 3 year old (not sure when) and definitely need to stop for the 7-year old.
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Babies it's okay, because they forget easily. Older kids like those aged 3 and above, however, will have recurrent nightmares if they see parents naked.
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haha reminds me of my mom when I was a kid, probably 6-7 years old, when my mom change in front of me naked.
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ya i've seen my dad and mom nekkid b4.. no big deal.
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Originally posted by CSW75:
Hi! I'm a 32 yo married woman with young kids.
Just checking with everybody here...it is ok or normal to appear naked in front of own young children? I have been bathing naked with my children age 3 and 7 since they were very young. Don't know anyone else here do the same? Is it normal?
Your young kids, is boy or girl?
Girl, ok. Boy, up to you. If he ask silly question, then slowly stop.
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Originally posted by Rooney9:
haha reminds me of my mom when I was a kid, probably 6-7 years old, when my mom change in front of me naked.
once is okay, but too many times, i believe Rooney9 will be a different person liao..
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wah lao auntie, 7 year old liao still bath with you?
you ok anot?
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bathtub big enuf or not, if big, no problem, all bathe together also can, like japs, grandma, grandpa, uncles, aunties all join in...
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kids talking
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Uncle listening, good mah, young people like us talk and uncles enjoy it
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Originally posted by BanguIzai:
Your young kids, is boy or girl?
Girl, ok. Boy, up to you. If he ask silly question, then slowly stop.
my son is 3 yo my daughter is 7 yo. So far they never ask silly questions.