at times is because there is some problem ....Originally posted by hopy:yes humans do era but soooo many times?! wats the problem here, if u feel tt u cannot keep to ur part of the bargain juz dun promise anything...simple as tt!
Originally posted by hopy:becoz i always give pple the benefit of doubt, since he say he wants to change to a more responsible person who keep to his words, i gave him the chance to...but seems tt action speaks louder then words...now i really know wat they meant by words are cheap! real cheapo in this case man!![]()
wah couldn't agree more man!Originally posted by Whistar:Cool down gal...
If its a very serious matter which he promised.....that person odd to take responsibility for what he said he would do...otherwise...NEVA trust his words again....cos he just aint trustworthy enof.....
thanks for ur concern..Originally posted by Yunhaier:Haiyo what happen? Chill dudette~
Words are merely words - listen listen, but don't believe thoroughly. Because there are such thing as Art of seduction - phrase two, law ten, demonic words. Learn to focus more on what he has to prove than what he has to say.
Cheers
Chill Hopy~Originally posted by hopy:thanks for ur concern..
What if it's a misunderstanding? Sometimes life just ain't what it seems to be?Originally posted by Whistar:Cool down gal...
If its a very serious matter which he promised.....that person odd to take responsibility for what he said he would do...otherwise...NEVA trust his words again....cos he just aint trustworthy enof.....
once, twice im ok w/ it...but SOOOOooo many times?Originally posted by Devil1976:What if it's a misunderstanding? Sometimes life just ain't what it seems to be?![]()
Aiyo.... Who broke their promise u to ar...?Originally posted by hopy:once, twice im ok w/ it...but SOOOOooo many times?![]()
Err... I have a question?Originally posted by hopy:once, twice im ok w/ it...but SOOOOooo many times?![]()
Well.....if you can be very sure its not a misunderstanding..then definitely that person is not a man of his words....Originally posted by Devil1976:What if it's a misunderstanding? Sometimes life just ain't what it seems to be?![]()
Oh well...Originally posted by Whistar:Well.....if you can be very sure its not a misunderstanding..then definitely that person is not a man of his words....
If its a misunderstanding...that person should clear it up...but in hopy's case.....i think she is very sure its definitely NOT a misunderstanding......
Life is a coat of lies. The F is always placed last and treated as an aSs (lol)Originally posted by hopy:Dun u guys juz hate it when pple juz gave empty promises!![]()
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Originally posted by www:correct..... Just become 1 gal cheated my feelings doesn't mean that I view all the gals in this world as !@#$%^&*().
coz u havent see all yet?
dont sterotype, esp if you are [b]that sure that ur fellow gender wouldnt do the same.[/b]
Life is full of colours, not black and white.Originally posted by {WuMing}78:I agree.... promise is a promise.... irregardless of gender, we must abide to it
But ask yourself, have you ever lied before. I dare to say all the people in here, not even one of you has not say a lie at all, whether it's a white lie or whatever.
No matter how you justify your lie, it's too a lie. You say you lie because it is for a good cause, it's too a lie.
The same applies to the promises. One may break their promises maybe because they REALLY can't fulfill them and not on purpose. Some of them may be asshole and play aeroplane with you, some of them really can't make it? How can you tell ? But the truth is all of them break their promise.
It's not about whether you lie or you break your promise, because we are imperfect in nature. However, what we can do is 1) do we realised our mistakes and 2) Am I gonna make this mistake again?
For point 2), I can say that not many people can correct their mistakes the first time, specially for those who are already hard-core. They may make the mistake the first time, second time and so on.
The real solution lies on us (they) whether do we (or they) want to forgive them (or us) and give them chance to redeem theirselves (or ourselves).
Thought for the day.
Originally posted by Nelstar:Life is full of colours, not black and white.
Lies isn't bad, and promises aren't either.
Nothing is something, Everything is something.
Appreciate the effort placed, though a futile attempt. Laugh at it when someone makes promises again, and never expect promises to be true. Why expect someone to promise when it's easily broken? As long as you don't believe, when someone really lived up to the promise, you'll appreciate everything more.
hey welcome backOriginally posted by {WuMing}78:correct..... Just become 1 gal cheated my feelings doesn't mean that I view all the gals in this world as !@#$%^&*().
bitter memories are remembered better than sweet onesOriginally posted by hopy:if only things are tt simple...the more u see of this world, the uglier it gets... ut guess life still goes on...![]()