If U Were Me......
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He shdnt be called a guy to start off in the first place
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shut up la...i dont chat with losers..Originally posted by RuthBaby:He shdnt be called a guy to start off in the first place
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especially ppl who lose in reasoning and starting calling ppl names and making childish remark
THIS IS NOT KID FORUM!!!!
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TAKE A LOOK AT THIS!!!this is what i expect to see....what u all post are scolding...not advice....PLS LEARN!!!!U ARE AS CHILDISH AS "RUDEBABY" AKA RUTHBABY!!!Originally posted by LoVa:ya rite....want to post then cannot accept wat pple say...negative comments onli u u shoot back the person..cannot lose cannot lose face attitude,wat for?go write into letter then mail to ur own house read urself loh
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lestersia
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Registered: Jan 2002
posted 31 January 2002 03:30 PM
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vti_79, chio look dont exist forever, but a good heart can. your present gf may not be capable of rising her financial status, but, I am sorry to say this, it is us GUYS to provide them with comfort, to go out in the working/business world to earn money and cover expenses for both party.
there are tons of ways to convince your gf why she should upgrade or even adopt an entrepreneurer spirit. You have only tried so many ways to get her to increase her chances of improving, and failed, but there many other options left.
true enough, few guys can tahan girls with no look and to take them in as their wife, but fewer amongst those to recognise the hidden treasure beneath the not so presentable appearance.
for a couple who earns an average combined income of 4k, is not enough to cover expenses for a house, car and other luxuries, but you need NO CASH to cover for a open, kind heart like your gf.
if you think, that
1.she has no brains,
2.she has no looks,
3.she has no money,
4.you can find a better girl,
get out of her life, for she deserve a better man than you are.
if you think, that
1. you resign yourself to a simple life
2. forever envying big houses and fast cars,
3. you can never show her in front of your friends,
get out of her life, for she deserve a more matured, down to earth guy than you are.
if you can think, that
1. both of you can change for the better in characteristics
2. her heart is made of gold,
3. you will stop nagging, and sit down to communicate thoughts in a finer way
4. pretty looks will fade over time
5. you will carve yourself a wonderful career path that covers far more expenses for both of you
6. she will continue to sacrifice for you (with brains or no brains)
7. you will never think of messy thoughts of why you dont deserve a pretty, brainy chick,
then i say, you must take her as your wife
otherwise, once again, i say, rather than be agonizing over these issue, get out of her life. she deserve a better man than you are.
you know what i mean, it is the painful truth that hurts you the most. but if you are willing to look forward, the future can be just as sweet for the both of you. You seriously need a change in character and thoughts first.
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YES..I LOVE HER A LOT!!!Originally posted by -Wilson-:hi
do you love her a not????
if you do you should love her everything include bad and good point
you talkin about cannot bring her to face your friends but you should not say tat
it your gf not their ...you are the one with her not your friend .. must rem...
now i will accept her as a person!!
not someone that i expect to change later...
thanks!!!
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Yes Mr LoserOriginally posted by vti_79:shut up la...i dont chat with losers..
especially ppl who lose in reasoning and starting calling ppl names and making childish remark
THIS IS NOT KID FORUM!!!!
LOL
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you are welcome dun be like mi lose the one then regertOriginally posted by vti_79:YES..I LOVE HER A LOT!!!
now i will accept her as a person!!
not someone that i expect to change later...
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playing piano to a cow~~~~Originally posted by vti_79:TAKE A LOOK AT THIS!!!this is what i expect to see....what u all post are scolding...not advice....PLS LEARN!!!!U ARE AS CHILDISH AS "RUDEBABY" AKA RUTHBABY!!!
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lestersia
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wahahahah thats a cool pic wor...
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ThEsE wOrDs YoU SaId lAsT NigHt
SeEmEd hArMlEsS LikE a ChILd'S SmILe
BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
LiKe A MemORy CuRtAin
DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe -
yah loh...
liberty see him also damn buay song -
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Guess |'m late posting this,but it's just something.Yer right,if she don't suit you,asOriginally posted by vti_79:i recently celebrate my 2nd annivesary with my gf.we had been together since my first year of ns and now i had ord...she was still by my side..all of u must have know that this girl really love me!
i know this girl from irc from the first time we meet,i was only prepare to go steady with her on a "walk first seee how" attitude.after a few month,i found that this girl is hopelessly in love with me..she give me all her love and everything..
when i cough,she will get some med to me after work and see me at my house.when i was broke during ns,she pay for some of our date and when i say i want to learn bike,she save up $1 out of her $3 pocket money for me!i told her that if i really got a bike and if we not steady anymore,she will still be the first one to sit my bike..really glad to know such a girl.she is the girl who give me her everything.whatever i want,she will give..include sex!!
but the problem is this girl is not my dream girl.what i want is a girl with brain and a bit of looks..i often dream of me and my future wife earning a$2000 each a month so that we can led a comfortable life...but she earning $1300 at the moment and i ask her to upgrade herself which she did.the way she do things and the way she talk also piss me off sometimes..always say things wrongly and doing things the long way.
for her looks...she wasnt good looking loh!i just want someone who is PRESENTABLE,NOT CHIO..but i felt i couldnt bring her out to see my friends cos of her looks...
all the guys here...i wonder if u agree with me?
for girls right,either we get a one with no looks but got brain...or via visa..but for her,she got none loh...
i am thinking really far loh..cos i want her to be my future wife.
recently she was getting tired of all my nagging..asking her to change this and that and she say she is willing to break up with me and she dont love me as much...
we broke up once and later i patch with her cos i feel that i cant find someone who love me so deeply like her...i may be able to find a chio and smart girl,but will the girl love me so deeply???
shall i follow my dream..find a smart beautiful wife get married,each of us earn a decent sum of $2000 no problem having a nice car and house..but love is so so only..OR
marry my present gf with no looks and brain,live a simple life..evny others with cars and nice houses(i will be very sad,cos im a great car lover)...ENJOY HER DEEPEST LOVE TO ME...while i continue to nag all her wrongdoing till she correct herself FOR THE REST OF MY 30,40,50,60,70,80 YRS OF OUR LIFE?
IF U WERE ME......what is your decision?
to how little she earns,and her disposition,
with other flaws you see in her,just ditch her,simply as that.|'m sure you'll find better girls,but why the hell from irc?!|f
you are capable,you don't ever have the need
to find girls!They are the ones to approach us guys.At this stage,if | were you,|'d probably thinking likewise.Since you mention
she's juz an ugly and stupid pig,why not
break up?It's according to yer plan right?And
since you don't appreciate her,why did you
go with her initially?You know,having a girlfriend is absolutely different from what
having marriage settled down.If you don't the
least bit enjoy yer present courtship,just hump it off yer head and look for a new one!
You can't possibly "walk" for a lifetime,til
yer old?!Bullshit!I always forget everything
once | break with a girl,and everyday is
anew.Yeah,|'ll feel sad too,but it's peanuts
to me.Hey,buck up,and do what's best for you,
terminate this r/s if yer feeling unworthy,
there's no point for a sad one.Life has to be
enjoyable,y'know?Good luck!
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Excuse me I am 24 now and I had a good gf. Thanks for your concern.I think you should get a mirror to see your own reflection. Do you think that your gf didn't think the same way as you? thinking that oh just endure him, there isn't much choice for me. If I ever find any other better guy, I will ditch him first.Originally posted by vti_79:of course i have my good point.....every human is like that.....no one perfect....
FYI..we enjoy and like spending time doing things together...not wasting time like what u say.....
if u dont have such a good gf ,dont envy!!!
"grow up"???
your cock hair grow fully already?wanna talk about growing up.....
little kid,dont know dont reply....just see and keep quiet!!!
haha.
think of what other thinks first before you think about yourself.
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wow...pretty..whos that?
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...Originally posted by userid:wow...pretty..whos that?
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ThEsE wOrDs YoU SaId lAsT NigHt
SeEmEd hArMlEsS LikE a ChILd'S SmILe
BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
LiKe A MemORy CuRtAin
DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe -
definately not vti's gf
wahahahaha -
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"PLS HOH......MY GF TO ME IS THE BEST ONE FOR ME.......I LOVE HER MORE THAN ANY ONE IN THE WORLD"Originally posted by JacK84:Guess |'m late posting this,but it's just something.Yer right,if she don't suit you,as
to how little she earns,and her disposition,
with other flaws you see in her,just ditch her,simply as that.|'m sure you'll find better girls,but why the hell from irc?!|f
you are capable,you don't ever have the need
to find girls!They are the ones to approach us guys.At this stage,if | were you,|'d probably thinking likewise.Since you mention
she's juz an ugly and stupid pig,why not
break up?It's according to yer plan right?And
since you don't appreciate her,why did you
go with her initially?You know,having a girlfriend is absolutely different from what
having marriage settled down.If you don't the
least bit enjoy yer present courtship,just hump it off yer head and look for a new one!
You can't possibly "walk" for a lifetime,til
yer old?!Bullshit!I always forget everything
once | break with a girl,and everyday is
anew.Yeah,|'ll feel sad too,but it's peanuts
to me.Hey,buck up,and do what's best for you,
terminate this r/s if yer feeling unworthy,
there's no point for a sad one.Life has to be
enjoyable,y'know?Good luck!
PLS DONT INSULT HER!!!!!
if u wanna look for a stupid and ugly pig,look for the username "ruthbaby"..SHE FILLS THE BILL REALLY WELL!!!
thanks!!
now me and my gf got so much fun being together...look forward to seeing each other!!!!!
not like what u say loh....anyway ...thanks for your advice!!!!
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PLS LA.....I EVEN ASK HER TO THINK IN SUCH A WAY...telling her got so many nice guy out there...and i am not a good guy...Originally posted by medicheng:Excuse me I am 24 now and I had a good gf. Thanks for your concern.I think you should get a mirror to see your own reflection. Do you think that your gf didn't think the same way as you? thinking that oh just endure him, there isn't much choice for me. If I ever find any other better guy, I will ditch him first.
haha.
think of what other thinks first before you think about yourself.
haha
but she still stick to me.......HAHAHA!!
NOT ALL THE GALS ARE AS MONEY MINDED AS WHAT U THINK!!!!
BEWARE OF THE ONE NEXT TO U.....MAYBE SHE THINK THAT WAY....HAHA!!!!!
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LUCKY NOT MY GF...NOT MY TYPE TOO.....Originally posted by CurlyHair:definately not vti's gf
wahahahaha
too much attention already......
she is nice loh.....but so what.....compare to my gf....
i think i still perfer my gf inner beauty.....
cos EXTERIOR BEAUTY WOULDNT LAST FOREVER BUT INNER BEAUTY WOULD!!!!!!!
>>>>BTW,YOUR GF CANT BE ANY BETTER......IF NOT,WHY CHOSE A COCKHAIR....ERRR SORRIE<CURLYHAIR> AS HER BF??
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haiyah ok lah ok lah
get on with ur life, sick of your shallow replies liaoz~!
ur gf very good, ok? u are leading a meaningful life, ok? so get on with it, see ur comments everytime only scold people see also sianz...
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Excuse me? This is what you EXPECT to see? Oh. Why don't you make YOUR own private forum then?Originally posted by vti_79:TAKE A LOOK AT THIS!!!this is what i expect to see....what u all post are scolding...not advice....PLS LEARN!!!!U ARE AS CHILDISH AS "RUDEBABY" AKA RUTHBABY!!!
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lestersia
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Posts: 34
Registered: Jan 2002
posted 31 January 2002 03:30 PM
Don't like? no problem, just delete the post loh.
However i would like to remind you one more time. This is a PUBLIC forum. Anything you say will be subjected to all kinds of comments. Be it positive or negative. It just so happen that your particular post about your gf incured the wrath of some forumers here. Their fault? no?
Don't like, don't post.
And if you believe in yourself, and strong in your cause, no point flaring up, typing in caps, shouting vulgurities like a mad Dog.
You are only subjecting yourself to more critism.
Structure your sentence properly, use good and constructive words and debate back point by point.
We all know you love your gf very much, perhaps you say simply just say, that you have learnt your mistake, was shallow with your thoughts in the past, and now treasure her very much. She is the best thing that ever happened to you.
Then maybe the audience will start to sympathize you, and give you advice regarding your gf.
Note: Im telling you this as a piece of advice and not trying to flame you. I don't wish to see you end up getting heart attack due to too much anger.
p/s: Have a nice day -
did you all notice he said his gf got read this forum oso?
think he dare not post his real thoughts, coz when she saw this thread she wanted to break with him. so not scared liao, cannot anyhow say liao hahaha.
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