True life story believe a not
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Thanks, i will be. Cuz i had a strong character... and will not be easily taken in again. Who wants to have abortion?? I can only say its all the past.
FOX I REALLY CONDEMN SUCH AN IDIOTIC MORON LIKE U, go ahead and say all u want lor, only a fool like u r not able to understand wat i mean and still wana continue to argue. I wrote in paragraphs hoping tat u will be able to understand wat i mean who knows??? u r an idiot, duno how to read! LOL.
Yes, i got pregnt twice. But tat doesnt mean my legs canot close ok. Dun tell me after ur mum give birth to u, her legs canot close. r really weird and CHILDISH. Never see such a thick skin person like u bu yao lian.
Did u ever think b4 u talk? or r u talking thru ur ass?juz like farting?
Wondering when foxwalk is going stop all the nonsense... -
well, i think it's pointless to explain sarcasm to you. i will stop my nonsense as of today. it's a waste of my time to spend more than a few words on you.Originally posted by kiekie:Thanks, i will be. Cuz i had a strong character... and will not be easily taken in again. Who wants to have abortion?? I can only say its all the past.
FOX I REALLY CONDEMN SUCH AN IDIOTIC MORON LIKE U, go ahead and say all u want lor, only a fool like u r not able to understand wat i mean and still wana continue to argue. I wrote in paragraphs hoping tat u will be able to understand wat i mean who knows??? u r an idiot, duno how to read! LOL.
Yes, i got pregnt twice. But tat doesnt mean my legs canot close ok. Dun tell me after ur mum give birth to u, her legs canot close. r really weird and CHILDISH. Never see such a thick skin person like u bu yao lian.
Did u ever think b4 u talk? or r u talking thru ur ass?juz like farting?
Wondering when foxwalk is going stop all the nonsense...
ps:dun say i swear when u do the exact same thing... when i've long stopped.
a drop of intelligence for u seeing u r quite challenged in tt aspect: smarter people need much fewer words to make their point. -
for the last time already,Originally posted by foxwalk:it was definitely fun to irritate u and ur clones.
i'm not a clone lah!!! you are really shen jing bing can!!! -
u know wat. u r no different from a serial killer, how do u sleep at nite?
having one abortion is one thing, having two quite another. having sex with men u dun even love... just shows u have no self respect. -
indeed simple minded, and definitely meant one thing u say another. u r neutral my foot, if they dip a litmus paper in u, it would jus corrode!Originally posted by kiekie:I am a simple-minded woman with complicated love life.
The stories below are all real life encounters of mine. Juz wana let them off my chest. Feel free to comment. I m neutral. -
indeed simple minded, and definitely meant one thing u say another. u r neutral my foot, if they dip a litmus paper in u, it would jus corrode!Originally posted by kiekie:I am a simple-minded woman with complicated love life.
The stories below are all real life encounters of mine. Juz wana let them off my chest. Feel free to comment. I m neutral. -
litmus paper.. i miss chemistry lesson.Originally posted by foxwalk:indeed simple minded, and definitely meant one thing u say another. u r neutral my foot, if they dip a litmus paper in u, it would jus corrode!
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You've got your point out. Just let her do her outpour lah....Originally posted by foxwalk:u know wat. u r no different from a serial killer, how do u sleep at nite?
having one abortion is one thing, having two quite another. having sex with men u dun even love... just shows u have no self respect.
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RELAX girl...Originally posted by kiekie:Thanks, i will be. Cuz i had a strong character... and will not be easily taken in again. Who wants to have abortion?? I can only say its all the past.
FOX I REALLY CONDEMN SUCH AN IDIOTIC MORON LIKE U, go ahead and say all u want lor, only a fool like u r not able to understand wat i mean and still wana continue to argue. I wrote in paragraphs hoping tat u will be able to understand wat i mean who knows??? u r an idiot, duno how to read! LOL.
Yes, i got pregnt twice. But tat doesnt mean my legs canot close ok. Dun tell me after ur mum give birth to u, her legs canot close. r really weird and CHILDISH. Never see such a thick skin person like u bu yao lian.
Did u ever think b4 u talk? or r u talking thru ur ass?juz like farting?
Wondering when foxwalk is going stop all the nonsense... -
there should not be any outburst.
if there is... what is there to learn from others or to provide advise.
As this is a Aunt Agony column,there should be positive listening and advise.
Futhermore, not everyone went through the same as the author. Everyone has different past and different path.
Pain is expressed in those words and accepting it has already been painful if not ,worse by adding salts.
You should be happy if none of this bad encounters has happened to you... or will it happen to you in future in one way or another. -
I know u r trying to be sarcastic again, but I have to agree wif u, during dos days i really can't sleep well at nite. i felt so dirty and whenever i recalled the video tape tat the counsellor showed me abt the precedure of the abortn, I juz felt like screaming my head off, even up till today. Everytime when i tink back, i juz go berserk..Originally posted by foxwalk:u know wat. u r no different from a serial killer, how do u sleep at nite?
having one abortion is one thing, having two quite another. having sex with men u dun even love... just shows u have no self respect. -
i juz cudn't control my emotions, i will hide in a corner tat no one cud see me crying. If I had kept my babies, one should be 3yrs old while the other is 2yrs old by now...
Sry i canot continue with .........its too painful to endure. I am a killer! killer! killer! ........arhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh -
Dun worry too much bcos u r trying to start everything afresh so give yourself more time to overcome those sorrow....Originally posted by kiekie:i juz cudn't control my emotions, i will hide in a corner tat no one cud see me crying. If I had kept my babies, one should be 3yrs old while the other is 2yrs old by now...
Sry i canot continue with my threads anymore.....
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there are others worse than you and they carried on life... u 2 can do it.
They go out and meet new people.. fall in love again.. married again.. have children again.... get old together..
if you dont conquer your fear.. u will always be in the shadow..
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Thanks for all ur advices.Originally posted by chaykwaytiao:there are others worse than you and they carried on life... u 2 can do it.
They go out and meet new people.. fall in love again.. married again.. have children again.... get old together..
if you dont conquer your fear.. u will always be in the shadow..
come out of the shadow...
In fact i tot i had gotten out of it, i always tried not to tink abt the process tat i had gone thru and avoid any topics related to it. I nv bring up these to any of my buddies except 1 who was my closest sis cuz i dun want to be reminded of my wrong deeds.
Reflecting on wat foxwalk had said....U r a serial killer! i realised tat i had been deceiving myself all these while.
Thinking back, Actually i mind a lot abt my abortions. Whenever i saw any movies related to it or heard my colleagues talking abt it, i will pretend tat i dun feel anyting. In fact, my heart was throbbing in pain. what else can i do? cry in front of my frenz telling them abt my abortions?
If its not for my character, i dun tink i cud even have the opportunity to post my encounters here. -
I am short tempered by nature and stubborn at times. However, i do not flare up easily unless it hurts tat mucH.
I can be a good counsellor, good listener to others' problems and will always analyze the whole situation before findin a way to tackle their problems.
When it comes to my own, its totally different. SOmetimes i will go geegee gaagaa or guuguu..
But since i had learnt things the hard way round, i always felt tat tomorrow will be better. Tat's the way i live by. Self-Console helps.. -
It is a good question. The fact that you asked this proves the point that this quotation is trying to pass to us.Originally posted by kiekie:The real problem is not whether machines think but whether men do.
B. F. Skinner
wat do u mean shake spear? sry.. i dun quite get it. can u kindly elaborate on it? thanks..
Lets analyse this. To do that, I think its good to know briefly who is B.F. Skinner. Could it be Boy Friend Skinner. I would not go to think so. The one I am referring to is Burrhus Frederic Skinner.
He was an American psychologist and author. He conducted pioneering work on experimental psychology and advocated behaviorism, which seeks to understand behavior entirely in terms of physiological responses to external stimuli. He also wrote a number of controversial works in which he proposed the widespread use of psychological behavior modification techniques in order to improve society and increase human happiness.
In simple terms, lets just say he was a guy who went to school. I know its a weird but some people do that.
I think most of us, or at least some of us know that machines cannot think. This is something that you have to take for granted even if you don't know it.
But why is he saying that there is a problem of whether men can think? This is because sometimes, some people, it can be anyone, you, your boyfriend, really anyone, do not think. If everyone took time to think before doing anything then the world would go very slowly. And Doctors would not make money by doing abortions and such.
I hope I have cleared your doubts about this quotation and that I was of some help at least. -
i think the worst thing a guy can do to his gf is to 2-time. there's no future with him. it's more constructive to find someone else who will appreciate youOriginally posted by kiekie:I am a simple-minded woman with complicated love life.
The stories below are all real life encounters of mine. Juz wana let them off my chest. Hope to share stories with pple who r interested. Feel free to comment. I m neutral.
PART 1 THE FIRST MAN IN MY LIFE (SINCE 25 NOV 1995)
We had been together peacefully for 2yrs, for we NEVER quarrel or fight before. But human do change.
I am the sort who seldom check on or question my bf about his whereabouts or watsoever. Bcoz i m afraid tat he might find me a pain in the ass for bugging him. I always tot tat if he wants to tell me, he will tell me eventually.
ANd he's juz like me.
Things started to change when its around my O'level as i cud remember vividly. i was absent from my fav. subj history as we broke up a day b4 the exam. And i did very badly for my Os as I got 30 points!! REal LOUSY. On top of this, i repeated a yr while all my buddies were in poly.
Everything was too sudden. I cud not find him for almost a week.
I only managed to talk to him on a few nights when his mum reminded him to call me; as i left a msg to her. Sadly to say we only tok for less than 5minutes. U know y?? because he reached home after midnight and said he's very tired wants to sleep.
I was as hot as the ants on the hot pan!! I waited till the wee of nights thinking tat he wud call me, in the end dis is wat i heard from him. With all the bottled up feelings, I broke off with him for the first time in 2yrs! VOLCANO ERUPTED!!
He said" break, break la, u dun regret!" those words really shattered my heart, cuz i nv expext him to say them.
I noe it was wrong of me to initiate BREAK in the first place. But i nv expect tat he wud agree readily. In a fit of anger, i told him i will go over to his place to collect my belongings some other next day, and he says ok but he might not be at home. (U noe, girls often threaten guys in this way) Tat was NEar Dec 1997
The following day, my anger eased and i decided to call him to say sorry. when i called his room number, an unfamiliar voice picked up. In a short while, he answered the fone. I felt puzzled as in his family, his mum is the only woman! WHO IS SHE??????
I asked him who the girl was. Immediately he said tat was one of his brudder's gf. I was abt to buy his story when the voice in his background exclaimed" CB LA, WHY THE HELL DO U WANT TO KNOW WHO AM I?"
Upon hearing dis, i was very furious, i mean dis woman is so rude!! I didnt know wat to do. I slammed down the fone. To think back, i m so stUPid!!
A few days later, wif the accompany of one of my buddies, i went down to Jurong west to collect my stuffs. I lost hope of patching back wif him when i saw the photoframe of us on the wall was no longer there. =SAD= I was devastated.
His mum hugged me tightly and the tears i tried to hold back came rolling down my cheeks controllably. I asked if he got a new gf, his mum says she dunno. She apologised to me tat her son has let me down. I m so touched by her kind words. Thou i forgotten some.
I had nv tot tat he wud betrayed my trust and love for him. Bcoz he doesn't flirt around. Perhaps i was to young at tat time.. His dad was so furious to find out tat we had broken up and even swear to confront him on my behalf!
I told his dad"human makes mistakes, sometimes he's very mature but sometimes not". His dad agrees wif me.
My whole family learnt abt it and my mum called up his mum for a chat without informing me. I was so diu nian already....
argghh
Luckily my family is very supportive and tats when i realised how much my mum loves me. Bcoz i m so busy wif my own things tat i neglected my family.
Who noes, he still calls me occasionally to tell me where he was. I was surprised as i tot it's all over between us and he dun ve to report to me his whereabouts. Nevertheless, I was elated to receive his calls and the hopes of getting back together relinquished in my heart.
On his bdae, which falls on X'Mas eve, I called him to wished him HAPPY BDAE in the morning while i was at work as a sales promoter in town, waiting for my O'level results. To my surprised, Guess wat had happened??
At around evening time, He appeared before me!!!! I was totally dumbfounded and paisay.. I stood rooted to the ground for a few seconds. I cud not believe wat I saw.. am I dreaming?? I smiled to him and ask him how come he was here. He said, he came all the way down to see me. Naturally i felt he was so sweet. He told me tat actually he reached town at around 2pm but he wasn't familiar with town areas and had a hard time finding the place i was working in.
In my heart, i asked myself repeatedly what does this supposed to mean? is he trying to hint me someting? If he asked for a patch back, i wud definitely wagged my tail. I was over the ninth clouds. I think it was the best gift ever for my X'mas.
When i knocked off at 9.30pm tat X'mas eve, it was raining torrentially. I was
on my way to the Orchard MRT; I saw a very familiar back in front of me. I quickened my pace to check whether it was really him.
That was when all my hopes were diminished once again!! There he was walking in front of me holding the hand of another girl! I tried to catch up with him and wanted to confront him. But my voice held back. I felt tat I have no right to interfere who he was dating with; as i was no longer his gf. My throat was choking on the journey home and my eyes were red.
Ever since he nv called me. Can anyone Tell me wat is he trying to tell me???? he already has a gf then wat for he come down all the way from Jurong west to see me?? Am i an idiot in thinking tat he still loves me?? -
Maybe if you should have take longer time to choose your bf,you would have avoided such tradegy.From the time interval you took to change a new bf shows that you didn't really make your decision after careful consideration.
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I agreed...i was too .....fickle minded.Originally posted by Burgerking:Maybe if you should have take longer time to choose your bf,you would have avoided such tradegy.From the time interval you took to change a new bf shows that you didn't really make your decision after careful consideration. -
Maybe you are still young at that time..........Originally posted by kiekie:I agreed...i was too .....fickle minded. -
Originally posted by pysche:Maybe you are still young at that time..........
keke gd way to console myself...... thanks ya.
Pysche i realy hope u can stand up straight and be brave. in fact i still dun realy get the whole pic of ur story. but i do hope tat life will be better for u. -
aunt agony forum needs good counsellors. not just those who are expert but most importantly, those who care enough to listen and guide the troubled person along to recovery. it's always easier to solve others' problems than our own because our minds are more open when viewing from outside the box. you can benefit from helping others by being exposed to various problems and being more experienced when the time comes for you to handle your personal problems. so contribute freely. but learn to accept criticism gracefully because others may share your views yetOriginally posted by kiekie:I am short tempered by nature and stubborn at times. However, i do not flare up easily unless it hurts tat mucH.
I can be a good counsellor, good listener to others' problems and will always analyze the whole situation before findin a way to tackle their problems.
When it comes to my own, its totally different. SOmetimes i will go geegee gaagaa or guuguu..
But since i had learnt things the hard way round, i always felt tat tomorrow will be better. Tat's the way i live by. Self-Console helps.. -
This fox also one kind la. NB....disturb us from reading the fantastic Kiekie's 'X-FILES'.
(WHO'S NEXT TO CHUP ONE LEG?! )