would you go for someone who's attached?
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my ex-boyfriend left me for someone totally detestable.
before the breakup, i sort of knew that something not right was going on but i kept quiet.
in the past, he used to tell me that her character is really lousy.
after the breakup, his family and friends were outraged...
her character sucks and he is totally blinded.
everyone could tell that she is not sincere. and she lies.
it is really sad. his family still look for me, invite me over...
the other day, he scolded me. apparently, she complained to him that i have been calling her and harrassing her. that was totally untrue. i cannot be bothered with what she said because she is capable of doing really dirty shameful things. my heart really broke when i realised that he chose to believe a lowly person like that.
it is painful to be jilted.
it is WORSE to be jilted because of 3rd party.
it is WORST to be jilted because of a 3rd party with lousy personality.
in the past, i told him that i will let him go if he finds someone else much better than me. now...i suppose they deserve each other. stupid man deserves wicked woman.
please....dont ever be the 3rd party. it is really mean to be 3rd party deliberately. -
wat if u cannot help it?Originally posted by foxwalk:for me, i wouldn't. i think it's wrong. but maybe it's easy for me to say cuz i've never liked someone who's attached... maybe i somehow subconsciously prevented myself from ever liking such people..
however i have liked someone who liked someone else too... that was a bit painful...
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Side track a bit..
i think if you really go after someone who is attached and managed to suceed..
it is important to make sure the attached party have a clear cut with his or her gf/bf first before u 2 start..
snatching gf/bf is already bad enuff
to go steady behind their back and expose later on is really no no -
Yap, being a third party is bad enough, sms me and warn me not to call, msg or email my ex is extremely mean.
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Same for marriage yeah..?Originally posted by Forever84:If they really like each other so much, i don't see how someone new can just pop out and break them up
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My friend has fetish for married men... All her ex bf r married men. She say they r so attractive. Although she know tat its very wrong but she still can't overcome the fetish. This type of ppl need to go for psychology treatment??
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I won't go so far to say that your friend needs psychotherapy.... but she does need to be counselled. She knows that what she's doing is wrong, but she still insists on doing it for the thrill.Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:My friend has fetish for married men... All her ex bf r married men. She say they r so attractive. Although she know tat its very wrong but she still can't overcome the fetish. This type of ppl need to go for psychology treatment??
The question is, has she ever been on the receiving end of a third party before?
If that is what that has happened, then maybe she's having the fetish out of revenge...... Nothing much to be proud of either..... -
y do ppl always blame the third party? it is her capability that she is able to keep ur bf interested in her...
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Never let the bad guys win, if the girl means as much to you, even as a friend.You can tell by his behaviour that he will not put her in front.Such people, you don't have to feel guilty about taking them on.Who knows, she might thank you one day.Originally posted by ptw:Thanks for your advice,
My ex told me that I am a nice and trustable person, but just dont have enough time for her due to my studies and work. She want someone to tease her, talk to her everynight. Like a young girl kinda thing. I focus on future but she look at the current things that makes her happy. Yet, she trusted a guy whom she know for less than 2 months! I dont know, its like entering a trap kinda thing.
Before we broke up, I asked her to give ourselves some cool down period to salvage our relationship. But just before the cool down period ends, she initiated for a breakup and her friends told me she was actually trying out to see if that guy is trustable, if not, she would rather stay with me. Yah right, she assume that trust can be tested within a few meetups.
He is mean, I believe he made my ex to cut off all communication means away from me. Its like hell, dont know what did I do wrong, no head and no tail. Its only recent that we start to comm via email.
Its like stabbing you deep and dump you at a corner suffering.
I need to move on and hope that she do not need me in future cos if she really does, something terrible might have happened to her. -
ditto!! yupx i realliE fond of this cute gal frm muh class..Originally posted by 798:i will not. if i'm really interested in her, i will wait. but snatching her away from her lover is totally uncool. 
and yeaHx, she's attached.. so im waiting..not even givin' e slightest hint tt i lyk her, for she would prollie b troubled if she realised so.
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grab ur chance and not wait for the chance to come... for one day u might regret..tat when given a chance yet u din cherish it... nv wait till it is too late... its not considered as baddies or "pei1 bi3" for achieving wad u wan.. if u wan it go for it! anyway its up to the gal to choose whether to be with u or the bf... u din force her and she's given a opportunity to choose... if she really choose u den its not ur fault.. she willing to accept u and tis prove there is something much better of u den the bf... maybe it will be quite sad for the bf but everyone has the freedom to choose thier own happiness...maybe the gal will be happier too... dun u wan the gal u love to be happy...? go for it... allow urself a chance to give her happiness!
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my sentiments exactly. but make sure we're impartial when we compare them to ourselvesOriginally posted by LazerLordz:Never let the bad guys win, if the girl means as much to you, even as a friend.You can tell by his behaviour that he will not put her in front.Such people, you don't have to feel guilty about taking them on.Who knows, she might thank you one day. -
they are not married; only dating right?
before people marry, they still have the right to choose....
which means you can and should go give it a shot.
you won't know till you try. -
Its not whether she is married or not but rather on how she end the current relationship. By doing it behind my back and still allow that guy to sms me is really mean. She can choose any guy she wants but should do it by ending current relationship first. But anyway, I am thankful to all for the great advice. Just hope that she is fine. If that guy can do this to me, I believe he isnt that simple and decent afterall.
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but sumhow wont proposing to her while she's attached lyk..swaying her heart?Originally posted by m)phosis:grab ur chance and not wait for the chance to come... for one day u might regret..tat when given a chance yet u din cherish it... nv wait till it is too late... its not considered as baddies or "pei1 bi3" for achieving wad u wan.. if u wan it go for it! anyway its up to the gal to choose whether to be with u or the bf... u din force her and she's given a opportunity to choose... if she really choose u den its not ur fault.. she willing to accept u and tis prove there is something much better of u den the bf... maybe it will be quite sad for the bf but everyone has the freedom to choose thier own happiness...maybe the gal will be happier too... dun u wan the gal u love to be happy...? go for it... allow urself a chance to give her happiness! 
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i have liked someone who is attached before...and the feeling is damn bad...and it breaks my heart~~~Originally posted by foxwalk:for me, i wouldn't. i think it's wrong. but maybe it's easy for me to say cuz i've never liked someone who's attached... maybe i somehow subconsciously prevented myself from ever liking such people..
however i have liked someone who liked someone else too... that was a bit painful...
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Well, for those who think it's ok to go for someone attached, or even married, can you give me your girlfriend's contact or wife's contact?
I will make sure, I get her lay for me, and I am sure she will be happier when she is with me. Since you love her, you should give her CHANCE to enjoy HAPPIER life, whether it's for the whole life or just few days.
I am sure you won't feel hurt, because even for yourself, you might go for someone attached, and you will not care whether her partner get hurt or what, you just want a happeier life for yourself, or for her. Yeah, same to me, I want to give your other half a better life, happier life. Who cares about your feeling, you must be fair too right?
Come, give me her number. Stop takling lan-jiao. I promise to give her more precious moment that you can give.
If not, you are just talking C.O.C.K, talking rubbish, craps, bulls.h.i.t. -
Obviously, those who think is ok to go for someone attached, they are super-selfish jerks.
Imagine this, if you love her, will you put her into difficult position and push her to make a decision? That's call love? OMG!
Well, I can tell you, those jerks they don't love people, they just love "THEMSELVES". They just want to "POSSESS". They just want what they want.
There are no future for you to be with those jerks, if you can think carefully.
Well, if you like someone who is attached, but never get into their relationship, and still be a friend to her, and keep quiet to wait for a "chance", and if, if really one day they broke off, they have cut all tie, then you approach that girl, that's a totally different story, that's what we called "LOVE".
You say you love her, but you don't even have that kind of patient? WTF of love is that? It's JOKES.
If you love someone, really really love, just don't make her life messy.
There are just too many jokers don't know how to differenciate what is love and posses. They only good at talking C.O.C.K.
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If she can be swayed, others can sway her too...Originally posted by o(O.o)o:but sumhow wont proposing to her while she's attached lyk..swaying her heart?
If that happens, you can only SUCK THUMB...
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Yeah... i can see what it has done to you from your avatar...??Originally posted by Danisdead101times:i have liked someone who is attached before...and the feeling is damn bad...and it breaks my heart~~~ 
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Hmm... And just how you know that you'll be better and make her HAPPY? Just by LAYING HER? Hehheh.. Pls don't make me laugh....?Originally posted by Canavaro:Well, for those who think it's ok to go for someone attached, or even married, can you give me your girlfriend's contact or wife's contact?
I will make sure, I get her lay for me, and I am sure she will be happier when she is with me. Since you love her, you should give her CHANCE to enjoy HAPPIER life, whether it's for the whole life or just few days.
I am sure you won't feel hurt, because even for yourself, you might go for someone attached, and you will not care whether her partner get hurt or what, you just want a happeier life for yourself, or for her. Yeah, same to me, I want to give your other half a better life, happier life. Who cares about your feeling, you must be fair too right?
Come, give me her number. Stop takling lan-jiao. I promise to give her more precious moment that you can give.
If not, you are just talking C.O.C.K, talking rubbish, craps, bulls.h.i.t.
Must be something VERY PERSONAL in your life? -
Originally posted by Canavaro:Obviously, those who think is ok to go for someone attached, they are super-selfish jerks.
Imagine this, if you love her, will you put her into difficult position and push her to make a decision? That's call love? OMG!
Well, I can tell you, those jerks they don't love people, they just love "THEMSELVES". They just want to "POSSESS". They just want what they want.
There are no future for you to be with those jerks, if you can think carefully.
Well, if you like someone who is attached, but never get into their relationship, and still be a friend to her, and keep quiet to wait for a "chance", and if, if really one day they broke off, they have cut all tie, then you approach that girl, that's a totally different story, that's what we called "LOVE".
You say you love her, but you don't even have that kind of patient? WTF of love is that? It's JOKES.
If you love someone, really really love, just don't make her life messy.
There are just too many jokers don't know how to differenciate what is love and posses. They only good at talking C.O.C.K. -
Well, you can try by giving me her number, and let me try the rest.
If you trusted her SO MUCH, and trusted relationship between both of you, nothing you should fear of. If she is yours, no matter what, she will still be yours.
Nothing to worry, just pass me her number, then we will know, whether I can make her happier than what you can do to her. I will make sure she begs for more.
Well, don’t tell me those who said “ok” have no guts to take this small-tiny test? Or you are just talking C.O.C.K? -
You're an IDIOT... She's my GF... Why won't I risk letting an idiot harass my gf...? Like if you tell me that you are 'so good and so good' then I should BELIEVE you...?Originally posted by Canavaro:Well, you can try by giving me her number, and let me try the rest.
If you trusted her SO MUCH, and trusted relationship between both of you, nothing you should fear of. If she is yours, no matter what, she will still be yours.
Nothing to worry, just pass me her number, then we will know, whether I can make her happier than what you can do to her. I will make sure she begs for more.
Well, don’t tell me those who said “ok” have no guts to take this small-tiny test? Or you are just talking C.O.C.K? Better WORK on your MARKETING...?? " -
By the way.. you can TRY the BAROriginally posted by Canavaro:Well, you can try by giving me her number, and let me try the rest.
If you trusted her SO MUCH, and trusted relationship between both of you, nothing you should fear of. If she is yours, no matter what, she will still be yours.
Nothing to worry, just pass me her number, then we will know, whether I can make her happier than what you can do to her. I will make sure she begs for more.
Well, don’t tell me those who said “ok” have no guts to take this small-tiny test? Or you are just talking C.O.C.K? 