She has BF. Should I woo her?
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Go ahead woo the girl. Show the world how good you are snatching others GF.
After you get her, then should try her mum, she also other people gf who are attached. -
BELIEF is a VERY STRONG THING. 'Right' or 'Wrong' is sometimes just of sub-importance.Originally posted by Li Ka Shing:I dont think I waste anybody's time. I want to know more views, even though I have my own views, it doesn't mean my view is the best or the only one view. I want to know what other people think. If they can give me good views and good arguments, I am open to change my own view. I am not someone who thinks I am the one who is right and everybody is wrong. So I want to see see first. When I explain my views, im merely explaining and describing them, without saying that my views are surely the only correct ones.
IF YOU are VERY CONFIDENT that it'll all END with GOOD RESULTS, just go ahead and TRY IT?
I would PARTIALLY AGREE with you that IF the girl you're INTERESTED IN is going through SH|T and you can PROVIDED BETTER. And the girl is GENUINELY INTERESTED IN YOU without you playing any trick up your sleeve, WHY NOT?
It's just like STEPPING on a weak plant and growing your OWN out of its place. -
Dunno, personally I'd prefer to stay clear of these things I believe in retribution. OR basically what you sow you reap.
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after u got her...
i'll woo her...
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Yupe2.....strongly agree wif Devil....if the girl is still lovey dovey wif her current bf, (in my opinion) I dun think it's wise to woo her.........
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Even if they are not lovey-dovey, just let them be.
Don't even think about interfering.
If you do manage to successfully snatch the gal, wait till someone else snatches her. You had better be emotionless when that happens.
If you protest at that, then you're a hypocrite.
One thing about me - I'm brutally direct. -
life is full of regrets.....
I have been in such a situation...
i am still this situtation...
but i dun see from the point of retribution..
bcos this is only a clear subject that pple see retribution.. but in fact.. alot of things we have done.. we didnt see it..
so.. if u feel tat its rite.. *in fact, there aint rite or wrong*
go ahead.. pursue for happiness...
we are no saint...
everyone has the rite to grab their chances and pursue their love n happiness..
besides.. even if u try, things wont garuntee that u will succeed..
just tat u dun wanna have another regret.. at least u tried..
on a nuetral point of view..
1st- think trhu it very carefully
2nd- decide and just do it...
3rd- never regret wat u have decided...
*tats y step 1*
we are in the same shoes
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but i'm sure as long as she is happy, u will be happy too right...
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true. but what if he didn't snatch the girl. next time he gets a girlfriend the normal way and someone snatches her. how would he be justified? just because u're a good person doesn't mean bad things don't happen, then whats the point of being good?Originally posted by fudgester:Even if they are not lovey-dovey, just let them be.
Don't even think about interfering.
If you do manage to successfully snatch the gal, wait till someone else snatches her. You had better be emotionless when that happens.
If you protest at that, then you're a hypocrite.
One thing about me - I'm brutally direct.
just a theological question -
Some of my friends have put forward this question before - why bother being good when bad things can still happen to you?Originally posted by dumbdumb!:true. but what if he didn't snatch the girl. next time he gets a girlfriend the normal way and someone snatches her. how would he be justified? just because u're a good person doesn't mean bad things don't happen, then whats the point of being good?
just a theological question
Well, my answer to that - at least if bad things happen to you, then you can tell yourself that you didn't do anything to deserve it. While you may suffer, you can at least have a clear conscience knowing that you didn't commit any wrongdoing to justify your suffering.
But if you did something wrong, then, well - you've got yourself to blame for anything wrong that happens to you. In the end you're going to have to suffer for the bad things that have happened to you AND have a guilty conscience at the same time.
Quite a number of people have wronged me before in the past, and they all ended up suffering in the end. I can give you examples if you want, but it'll take too long. Whether it's divine intervention or pure coincidence is a question which I do not have the answer to.
The bottom line is pretty simple though - be a nice person. Make the world a better place to live in. -
Take these words into consideration:
"What comes together, can always come apart"
Boyfriends and girlfriends can be exes in a blink of an eye. Husbands and wives can always get a divorce to be with somebody else.
I'm not encouraging you to break up their perfectly good relationship, but if you're meant to be with her and she sees it and has the cow-sense to acknowledge, than I believe yes, you should go and woo her. Well, at least there's no harm in trying is there? -
WTH, at first my class de girls all attached... Now all slowly breaking up with their BF one by one... but I not interested in anyone of em...haiz..
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both ways, u suffer. but by being good, other ppl enjoy, not you. so what if u tell urself that u didn't deserve it? bottomline is, u still suffer.Originally posted by fudgester:Some of my friends have put forward this question before - why bother being good when bad things can still happen to you?
Well, my answer to that - at least if bad things happen to you, then you can tell yourself that you didn't do anything to deserve it. While you may suffer, you can at least have a clear conscience knowing that you didn't commit any wrongdoing to justify your suffering.
But if you did something wrong, then, well - you've got yourself to blame for anything wrong that happens to you. In the end you're going to have to suffer for the bad things that have happened to you AND have a guilty conscience at the same time.
Quite a number of people have wronged me before in the past, and they all ended up suffering in the end. I can give you examples if you want, but it'll take too long. Whether it's divine intervention or pure coincidence is a question which I do not have the answer to.
The bottom line is pretty simple though - be a nice person. Make the world a better place to live in.
whereas in the other case, at least u know u deserve it. but by being good, u know u didn't deserve it, but u still suffer, which is a major injustice! which is worse? -
Say what you will.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:both ways, u suffer. but by being good, other ppl enjoy, not you. so what if u tell urself that u didn't deserve it? bottomline is, u still suffer.
whereas in the other case, at least u know u deserve it. but by being good, u know u didn't deserve it, but u still suffer, which is a major injustice! which is worse?
I would rather suffer as a good guy than enjoy life as a bad guy.
I would rather go down in history at the guy who did the right thing in the face of suffering than have people spitting at my grave for enjoying life by committing bad deeds. -
If you really like her, I say go for it.
If her relationship is strong enough, you may have to give up eventually. But life is too short to have regrets of not having tried.Originally posted by Li Ka Shing:I like a girl who already has a BF. Should I woo her or not? -
haha.. i so used to be like you. until harsh reality sets inOriginally posted by fudgester:Say what you will.
I would rather suffer as a good guy than enjoy life as a bad guy.
I would rather go down in history at the guy who did the right thing in the face of suffering than have people spitting at my grave for enjoying life by committing bad deeds. -
If you think she's the one for you, just go for it.
Your xin fu lies in your hand, not with some old and stupid rules/regulations
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So itz her religion eh?? Damn... Guess no chance liao.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:i'm facing the same problem
it's quite sad that the girls that i like are either, attached, or they want to remain single (it's a christian thing)
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Personoally, im agreeable with Lee's views.
He was merey asking for different kind of views, before putting forth his owns. This, has shown that he was not trying to insert his belief onto others.
Should we put it in this way instead?
If today Im facing some competiton in my relationship, from other guys; and i feel insecured. The feeling of insecurity might be because of my inconfidence.
I guess, if the gal loves me, she will firmly reject the suiters. If both of us have confidence in this relationship, then the suiters would not in anyway affect our relationship. As simple as that. -
Pls dont break up a couple. I have suffered when my ex did the same thing to me. Going out with another guy and leave me when I am preparing for my exam. I felt being betrayed just becos thatguy can bring her out and woo her behind my back. Put yourself in my shoe and feel how will you react if your girl is to betray you. Unless that girl end up the relationship with his current bf, or else, get prepare that she will betray you again. The prob is if she can betray her current bf for you, she will do it again and again. There is honey moon stage in a relationship before getting dull. Once the honey moon stage is over and before you know it, she may have leave you for another guy. Good luck.
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You shouldn't intrude into their relationship. I think u should wait for them to break up or something... In the meantime, look for someone better in case they never break up and get married.
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hey now 2005 liao! plus going to feb now. ur view outdated already..Originally posted by Li Ka Shing:My view is: a dating couple is not like a married couple. I will never woo a married woman.
tht view is for those who want to woo a girl which already got bf. -
we boy must be da fang
if got anothef guy come woo my girl or wat
fair challenge u know?
see who win
like playing game
he win i congrat both of them
i win he congrat me and my girl
like this no ppl will be sad even the girl
because she knows its a fair challenge
mine view special sia
nobody said this
all i see like same same haha -
go ahead~ its open season
remember this mantra. the gal will alwas be better with you than with the other guy -
Blind belief. How do you even know if it's gonna be true?Originally posted by blur_blur:go ahead~ its open season
remember this mantra. the gal will alwas be better with you than with the other guy