Release Your Burden On Your Heart....
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haa.. no la.. hmm.. i liked her since sec school.. it's like 4 yrs something alr.. but we got together recently, it should be a dream come true. She's my first and i'm kinda like her's too.. But i dunno my feelings for her.. It's not like the past when i go head over heels with her.. is it because ppl dun usually cherish things when it comes to hand??
o0ooohhh.... how you jio her ??? LoL... Teach us ~!!!
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hmm abt she dun wan tok 2 u hoh..tink gt no ideas last time i aso like tt 1..i end up in tragedy man..dun force too much la..take care of urself =D..and bout feeling lost..i aso gt sia..fark man..nw wadever tings i do i feel so feeling-less..tink last time kena hurt too much nw too numb liao..but den my tt ger..at 1st aso like tt..but i know i like her 1..so i 'force' myself to feel gd..and nw..those old feelings bout being in love is comin back yay !
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Heh... I know that forcing will bring no happiness... LoL...so i decide to let nature takes its course... LoL.. walk one step, see one step... LoL....That's why I'm always relaxed !!
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lol same =) i scare i stead-ing inexperience sia..T_T
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Hahax... I'm proud to say I have not found my first luv yet ~ Anyone else ??? LOL
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LOL nvm 1 la..nw adays ppl are coparing e no. of ex dey hav..and im fukin piss off by tt.i seen a ger on my msn..'haix im so sad..i will nv leave u de wun forget u..love u 4eva' nx few days ' love u dear dear' *note tt is new bf* and tis always countine man..wtf !
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Hahax... Youngsters nowadays..hai ~ ... LoL... Must wait till they become matured then will be able to think well... so now... To all those quite, get not much attention from gals, guys... good luck ~!! Lol... It's hard to find a good gf... Lol
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I didn't jio her.. it's like i tell her i like her and we got together liao..Originally posted by Mrfunnyguy:o0ooohhh.... how you jio her ??? LoL... Teach us ~!!! -
WHAT'S GONE IS GONE.
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some how i agree with the moderators sentence.
Anyway.. if you wanna "jio" a gal, you just have to be darn honest with her.
Don't go around asking her trying to talk to her or investigate her life or even mix around her frens just to know her.
Just tell her you liike her and wants some time to get to know her.
Tat way u can save time and effort and much fewer heart breaks.
Well it did work with me. lol...
Regards
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I hope someone can give me a good advice too. I have been betrayed by my ex when I am preparing for my exam last year. She tole me that she has broken up with me before accepting that guy. I knew the whole story after her own friend told me everything that she has been meeting that guy behind my back. I cant accept it at first. Very hurt and one day, I receive a call from her parent apologising for what she has done, they told me that its not my fault that things turn out as such. She is naive, fickle minded and created alot of trouble that causes her to lose her job etc etc. I have suffered all hardship with her and this is how she treats me.
As for now, I felt quite numb but just dont have any courage or drive to chase after another whom I have known in the institution where i am studying. I have dated her out a few times. My friend told me that maybe she is giving me a chance but I really cant pick up courage to woo her. Pls give me some advice, thanks. -
Here's a piece of advice,
Try talking to her about your previous relationship with her just for once.
Never bring it up or referr to it in the future though...
This may bring you closer to her, also yyou must forgive the previous stead and move on. It is because you have not forgiven her that guilt and ghost of a love is there achoring you to the past.
Do cheer up, you were right some girls are indeed fickle minded and naive.
These can't be helped. They are just looking experiance in love.
Always treat the present as a precious thing. Never give up on Your future.
Regards
Sekundes AkA XEK -
Why is it always me who cares most and got hurt the most in the end? And is break up supposed to be this painful or I am just simply going against my heart?
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Thanks Sekundes for your advice., feeling much better and hope that one day I will forget her. I believe her parent is setting up alternative route for her if things doesnt turn out well for her and that is to remain in contact with me. Believe it or not, she is 27 this year, old enough and nobody believe that she will do this type of things to me. She has cut off all communication and thinks that she has done the right thing.
So unfair as she has a companion to spend time with her, enjoying with her and as for me, so empty, lonely even when I am with my friends. Really unfair.
As for icyprincess, the more committed you are in your relationship and before you know it that he is leaving you, for he has prepared to leave you, its like stabbing you deep and let you suffer alone. I have been through this and I am still struggling to move on. Aint easy to step out of this traumatic nightmare. Really need time and effort on your part to move on. One thing for sure, if you didnt do anything wrong, you have nothing to regret. Seeking for more advice and hope that all will turn out well in future. -
sigh....
22 this year already..
as we get older, the mind games get more and more complicated...
and the bad experiences deter u away from any action because u cherish the friendship...
However, Inaction in itself is the greatest crime of all...
Everyone around goes on about how
"having loved and lost is better than never to have loved at all"
but at my age, pride and sensibility push me to not act rashly.
Still holding a candle for this gal since 2001, well she said she used to like me, but in these years she's been attached all the while. Everyone says not to disturb her, and i respect the fact that she has a bf too. However, no matter what i do, this small flame still burns on in my heart. Trying to drown out and extinguish this flame by filling up my life with activities and making myself busy has been all i've done.
i'm so..so..confused...
I'll be heading off to australia for studies this july, probably graduate in 3-4 years time.. think she'd probably be married or something by then.
Guys n gals, please cherish your opportunities and the people around you..
Don't be like me.. what a loser...
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Hey its always the people who cares about the relationship gets hurts.Originally posted by icyprincess:Why is it always me who cares most and got hurt the most in the end? And is break up supposed to be this painful or I am just simply going against my heart?
i.c.y
You're not the only one. but there is a question for you. Why are you going against your own heart?
Hmm... I think this is running away from the problem, there's always a shadow or a residue of crush left. Its hard to fully give up, well only time can tell. Even though i advice you to find a new gal, its always hard to do it.Originally posted by xpsyche:sigh....
22 this year already..
as we get older, the mind games get more and more complicated...
and the bad experiences deter u away from any action because u cherish the friendship...
However, Inaction in itself is the greatest crime of all...
Everyone around goes on about how
"having loved and lost is better than never to have loved at all"
but at my age, pride and sensibility push me to not act rashly.
Still holding a candle for this gal since 2001, well she said she used to like me, but in these years she's been attached all the while. Everyone says not to disturb her, and i respect the fact that she has a bf too. However, no matter what i do, this small flame still burns on in my heart. Trying to drown out and extinguish this flame by filling up my life with activities and making myself busy has been all i've done.
i'm so..so..confused...
I'll be heading off to australia for studies this july, probably graduate in 3-4 years time.. think she'd probably be married or something by then.
Guys n gals, please cherish your opportunities and the people around you..
Don't be like me.. what a loser...
I understand this too... I have been holding a candle, but not as long as you have.... I give you my faith for your life, all the best man...
REgards
Sekundes AkA XEK -
because if i follow my own heart, i will get even more hurt in the end....Originally posted by Sekundes:Hmm... I think this is running away from the problem, there's always a shadow or a residue of crush left. Its hard to fully give up, well only time can tell. Even though i advice you to find a new gal, its always hard to do it.
I understand this too... I have been holding a candle, but not as long as you have.... I give you my faith for your life, all the best man...
REgards
Sekundes AkA XEK
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For me its usually out of sight out of mind and out of mind out of heart. Sounds rather cold blooded but its the only way I can move on.
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dats wat I am doing now tho it is really painful, I would say extremely painful for me. And he probably think I was cruel to do this to him, but I really do it because I love him too much and want both of us to forget faster...Originally posted by pete98:For me its usually out of sight out of mind and out of mind out of heart. Sounds rather cold blooded but its the only way I can move on.
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well PLz forgive me for any misunderstanding, but I mean no one can forget forever, but do you know how he is really feeling?Originally posted by icyprincess:dats wat I am doing now tho it is really painful, I would say extremely painful for me. And he probably think I was cruel to do this to him, but I really do it because I love him too much and want both of us to forget faster...
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I do not know since I haven't been talking to him since our "break-up" the other day but my friends him eating alone the next day and said he looked miserable...he has also been to my blog a lot of times a few days after that...Originally posted by Sekundes:well PLz forgive me for any misunderstanding, but I mean no one can forget forever, but do you know how he is really feeling?
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Well, but how come you wanna break up with someone who loves you that much. Sorry If u don't mind...Originally posted by icyprincess:I do not know since I haven't been talking to him since our "break-up" the other day but my friends him eating alone the next day and said he looked miserable...he has also been to my blog a lot of times a few days after that...
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cos when he asked me to become his gf, I asked him if he loves me, and he said no, he said he will never fall in love with anyone at this time because it is not the right time. I was so disappointed that the next day, I initiated the break up.Originally posted by Sekundes:Well, but how come you wanna break up with someone who loves you that much. Sorry If u don't mind...
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ok.... I'm so so confused.
Hmmm But hey, maybe talking this over the msn is easier. haha...
U're online now right miss ?
Regards
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mmm....have to talk over here, or else talk on the shoutbox cos I am working now and I dun have MSN at work...Originally posted by Sekundes:ok.... I'm so so confused.
Hmmm But hey, maybe talking this over the msn is easier. haha...
U're online now right miss ?
Regards
Sekundes AkA XEK
Anyway, it is basically his actions dun tally with the words he said. Sometimes what he did really make me think he cares, but then he will say sth dat makes me think otherwise...
i.c.y