No reply from girl, why lei?
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depends wat she like lor....but since u so keen die die must have her yea can send her flowers...but if hor she finds u "FAN" hor then u need to back off before ppl more angwee uOriginally posted by clarion:I am planning to send her a bouquet of flowers to her office with a friendship note perhaps on Tuesday or Wednesday.
Is that a good idea to let her know my sincerity? Lilies or roses?
There is two ways it can go, one is it will backfire on me and the other it might turn out to be good as she will be suprised and more sure of my sincerity. -
I am taking it as a gamble....to try to spur an answer/reaction from her...if she has not been replying for a good reason, she will then react positively to it...Originally posted by color ghost:depends wat she like lor....but since u so keen die die must have her yea can send her flowers...but if hor she finds u "FAN" hor then u need to back off before ppl more angwee u
If she was not replying because she was not interested anymore, she will then be spurred to reject me.
Like that at least someway i can have closure over the matter instead of it floating forever in my mind. -
I wonder if going to e temple we both go to pray and ask for divine interevention
Sharks cant get her out of my mind
My world seems to have stopped revolving -
You have lost... Its very damn clear...
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In my own opinion, it's a bad idea.Originally posted by clarion:I am planning to send her a bouquet of flowers to her office with a friendship note perhaps on Tuesday or Wednesday.
Is that a good idea to let her know my sincerity? Lilies or roses?
There is two ways it can go, one is it will backfire on me and the other it might turn out to be good as she will be suprised and more sure of my sincerity.
Surprises like this might distance both of u even further.
Send flowers only if she's receptive to you.
Try to ask her out again, face-to-face, find out from her if you stands a chance. Understand her first. -
well it is to my understanding that she wouldnt take his calls?Originally posted by Magnus:In my own opinion, it's a bad idea.
Surprises like this might distance both of u even further.
Send flowers only if she's receptive to you.
Try to ask her out again, face-to-face, find out from her if you stands a chance. Understand her first.
but usually my experience is..if anyone cannot be reached (after many tries) they are avoiding you on purpose. -
Well i asked her out via sms yesterday, no reply...things dun look too good.Originally posted by Magnus:In my own opinion, it's a bad idea.
Surprises like this might distance both of u even further.
Send flowers only if she's receptive to you.
Try to ask her out again, face-to-face, find out from her if you stands a chance. Understand her first.
I suppose send a flower is the only way to get a response...at this point of time, i am willing to risk it all especially since she no longer responding -
hey may b u can have a look at the meaning of flwers there..
http://www.prince.com.sg/Info_MeaningOfFlower.asp -
u no more chance liao
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Originally posted by clarion:I am taking it as a gamble....to try to spur an answer/reaction from her...if she has not been replying for a good reason, she will then react positively to it...
If she was not replying because she was not interested anymore, she will then be spurred to reject me.
Like that at least someway i can have closure over the matter instead of it floating forever in my mind.
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Boo hooOriginally posted by usck:u no more chance liao 
somehow i have a feeling too...but i am still willing to give it one last shot by spending on flowers to know the future.
Thats the only thing i can do now -
Hmm.... Interesting.... In what sense?Originally posted by Ayukat:You have lost... Its very damn clear... -
if she's not interested, it wouldn't help sending the whole Botanical Garden over.Originally posted by clarion:Boo hoo somehow i have a feeling too...but i am still willing to give it one last shot by spending on flowers to know the future.
Thats the only thing i can do now
Just chill. You are asking her a serious question and she's not ready to answer it. In fact, I think you've left her no choice because she'll think that calling you will give you the "wrong" impression, even if she enjoyed your company on your date.
Besides, you do sound kind of scary. Continue with your own life. If she's interested, you'll get an SMS. -
You have came on too strongly on her.I think you should have established your friendship first before moving on to such things.Now,you can only salvage the situation by taking a step back/taking a break before making your next move again.Next time when you meet her again,pretend that nothing has happened.
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Well the problem is we dun work at the same place or have mutual friends, i dun think there is any chance to meet her unless it is pre-arrangedOriginally posted by Marco_Simone:You have came on too strongly on her.I think you should have established your friendship first before moving on to such things.Now,you can only salvage the situation by taking a step back/taking a break before making your next move again.Next time when you meet her again,pretend that nothing has happened.
If only we worked at the same place, i dun mind putting things on the backburner, at least i can still see her. But in situations like that where we dun have chances to meet at all, putting things on the back burner, she might just forget abt me altogether -
I doubt if i will ever hear from her anymore, the more i sit down, and think and ponder over things, I guess i am too pragmatic in handling tings like what tau tao said. And of course a complete lack of skills in the dating game.Originally posted by ilovemyrolex:if she's not interested, it wouldn't help sending the whole Botanical Garden over.
Just chill. You are asking her a serious question and she's not ready to answer it. In fact, I think you've left her no choice because she'll think that calling you will give you the "wrong" impression, even if she enjoyed your company on your date.
Besides, you do sound kind of scary. Continue with your own life. If she's interested, you'll get an SMS.
I cant handle the silence...thats the problem -
If i dun send flowers, would it be a good idea to direct her to this thread?
So she can understand my intentions better?
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another thing u can do is STOP all communication. break 1 or 2 month...suddenly drop a note.
"hey long time no hear hows thigns?"
dat shows u still bu si xin hahahaaah. -
Yeah hahah done that with other gals before that i was not interested in beforeOriginally posted by color ghost:another thing u can do is STOP all communication. break 1 or 2 month...suddenly drop a note.
"hey long time no hear hows thigns?"
dat shows u still bu si xin hahahaaah. but this time i like this one...
She might just reply, oh sorry i am attached liao -
Why do i always end up getting attentions from women i dun like....
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oooooooooh see lor..now is retribution. da gal u like sabo u back.Originally posted by clarion:Yeah hahah done that with other gals before that i was not interested in before but this time i like this one...
She might just reply, oh sorry i am attached liao -
I know i always kenna this kind of shitty situations...Originally posted by color ghost:oooooooooh see lor..now is retribution. da gal u like sabo u back.
I can be considered quite good looking to most gals...being an ex model in my younger days..perhaps this lady i really like feels uneasy or dun trust me due to the old adage about good looking men not to be trusted -
Wow... the way you talk like you know everything like that... but just go with your institution lah... if you think she likes you she probably do... if not do things slowly lor... slowly...very slowly... cannot chiong de... But I noe u old le lah...
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I just speculating...but if there is no response from her i will never know which way she still swings....Originally posted by Ayukat:Wow... the way you talk like you know everything like that... but just go with your institution lah... if you think she likes you she probably do... if not do things slowly lor... slowly...very slowly... cannot chiong de... But I noe u old le lah...
Guys at 31 not old lah. -
Bad mistake... tsk.. tsk...
Let me teach you the important steps in a dating game.
1) You dumb shouldn't have told her you liked her during and after your date
2) You act so needy during the date. She sees you too easy to handle
3) No matter how much you like her, you WONT have to tell her first
4) Don't waste your precious money on flowers. She just blows you off when she recieved the flowers
5) Even on first date, DONT EVER OFFER TO PAY. NICE GUYS FINISH LAST.
6) *repeat* You dumb shouldn't have told her you liked her during and after your date.
Now she's playing hard to get.
It's so simple shit
what u suffering now is a onenitis.
Move on there's many chicks.
Learn from mistakes/failures and dun repeat it.
Ask me what u want and i reply them here.