Single Yet Attached.. I need help before i go insane..
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ya ya.. i understand.. same here.. no1 is ever free for me..Originally posted by w3|:i oso an introvert..is nt me hu dun wan to interact wif others..when i ask them to go out..they all not free..they all haf their own things to do..ask ard in the end i oso stay at home rotting..thinking will that day arrive the day i m wif her.. -
introvert?? well no worries.. online.. u can be extrovert mah!! haha at most.. organise a "thread" outing.. haha all go out.. haha have fun.. not me la.. i working now.. shhhh.. boss later KP me...
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sometimes i dun wanna compare.. from the testimonials i saw him posted for his ex gf in friendster when they r still together, it seems so much different..Originally posted by boyboy18:e world changes,if we don change,things will not be e same.But since he treats u like that,u should hav no regrets.Cause u tired your best.Its just like asking a leopard to change its spot
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You can cry your heart out, but he won't know and understand the pain you went through.
To him, you are juz like an immature girl. You have already proved that point when you "begged" him not to leave you. That gives him more reasons to justify that wat he done is correct. No matter what you do, he won't feel sorry for what he has done to you.
Cry your heart out. Avoid all communications with him.
This will take few months...
Went thru that and been thru it.
p/s: It is cruel to raise somebody's hopes and later to crush their hopes. -
partly i think because he takes u for granted?u might have your strength that his ex don have,but his ex might also have the strengths u don have.So,ya..depends on how one see things bah =)Originally posted by PrincessR:sometimes i dun wanna compare.. from the testimonials i saw him posted for his ex gf in friendster when they r still together, it seems so much different.. -
it's hard though but i will try.. thanks alot!!!Originally posted by ILPSY:You can cry your heart out, but he won't know and understand the pain you went through.
To him, you are juz like an immature girl. You have already proved that point when you "begged" him not to leave you. That gives him more reasons to justify that wat he done is correct. No matter what you do, he won't feel sorry for what he has done to you.
Cry your heart out. Avoid all communications with him.
This will take few months...
Went thru that and been thru it.
p/s: It is cruel to raise somebody's hopes and later to crush their hopes. -
Time will tell you whether he is worth it.
I believe u will be able to move on. -
had confident, princessr.. it does matter how u look, do u noe that a ger wif confidence is the most attractive? if ur character is gd, i m sure a lot of ppl will notice u except u dunno onli.. well tat the way i find it. i m oso ugly n short but u noe wat..my "so called" gf nw likes me nt becoz f how i look is my character tat she likes..although things end up like the case in u..i tried many time wanted to gif up but i cant.. btw is this ur 1st luv?
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he was with his ex for 1 yr plus..Originally posted by boyboy18:partly i think because he takes u for granted?u might have your strength that his ex don have,but his ex might also have the strengths u don have.So,ya..depends on how one see things bah =)
he ex did wanted to break up with him once.. but he didnt wan it..
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i am looking forward to the day.. the truth might hurt but its better to know the truth..Originally posted by browniebaobao:Time will tell you whether he is worth it.
I believe u will be able to move on. -
nope.. but he was the first love 5 years back.. after that i had one bf which lasted 1 yr plus~Originally posted by w3|:had confident, princessr.. it does matter how u look, do u noe that a ger wif confidence is the most attractive? if ur character is gd, i m sure a lot of ppl will notice u except u dunno onli.. well tat the way i find it. i m oso ugly n short but u noe wat..my "so called" gf nw likes me nt becoz f how i look is my character tat she likes..although things end up like the case in u..i tried many time wanted to gif up but i cant.. btw is this ur 1st luv? -
hmmm..there u r..u saying sumthing that is happenin nw on u..i mean,he like don1 u,but u still want him c0s u still love him =)Originally posted by PrincessR:he was with his ex for 1 yr plus..
he ex did wanted to break up with him once.. but he didnt wan it..
guess he loves her.. -
ya i understand that.. i dun think he knows that i am feeling this way.. all these agony whatsoever.. haiss~Originally posted by boyboy18:hmmm..there u r..u saying sumthing that is happenin nw on u..i mean,he like don1 u,but u still want him c0s u still love him =) -
ok i c..but wat happen to ur sec bf? i suggest the best way to 4get sumone is to keep urself bz..if nt another way is to find another bf den u will 4get abt him n concentrate on ur new bf..Originally posted by PrincessR:nope.. but he was the first love 5 years back.. after that i had one bf which lasted 1 yr plus~ -
sometimes guys are just like gals?i mean some guys do also want gals to understand them 1st,rather then they understand galsOriginally posted by PrincessR:ya i understand that.. i dun think he knows that i am feeling this way.. all these agony whatsoever.. haiss~ -
he whacked me up.. then my parents locked me up from seeing him.. and thats how we broke off..Originally posted by w3|:ok i c..but wat happen to ur sec bf? i suggest the best way to 4get sumone is to keep urself bz..if nt another way is to find another bf den u will 4get abt him n concentrate on ur new bf.. -
ya i agreed..Originally posted by boyboy18:sometimes guys are just like gals?i mean some guys do also want gals to understand them 1st,rather then they understand gals -
guess like some said.. he isnt into me.. thats why he wun be understanding me..Originally posted by boyboy18:sometimes guys are just like gals?i mean some guys do also want gals to understand them 1st,rather then they understand gals -
i am a guy,i don't understand y guys like to hit girls.i really hate those "lady-beaters".I don't suggest u to find a bF t0 4gEt your him now,cos its like treating ur new bF as a substituteOriginally posted by PrincessR:he whacked me up.. then my parents locked me up from seeing him.. and thats how we broke off.. -
no worries.. i wun find another bf now cos i myself dun like the feeling of being a substitude.. so i wun do it on others.. cos the feeling isnt good..Originally posted by boyboy18:i am a guy,i don't understand y guys like to hit girls.i really hate those "lady-beaters".I don't suggest u to find a bF t0 4gEt your him now,cos its like treating ur new bF as a substitute -
erm..sumhow abt the same reason my gf broke up with her ex. she broke up becoz her ex beat her..twice.. haiz~ sumtime i really wish things haven happen at all..den wun haf this kind of problem..Originally posted by PrincessR:he whacked me up.. then my parents locked me up from seeing him.. and thats how we broke off..
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ya..oso true..somethings nit time to recover.. n time to 4get..so the onli way is to keep ourselves bz, to show them we can live better without them..rite? haiz~ i juz finish my third yr in poly..nw waiting for ns..veri sianz .. trying to find something to do to kill time..Originally posted by PrincessR:no worries.. i wun find another bf now cos i myself dun like the feeling of being a substitude.. so i wun do it on others.. cos the feeling isnt good.. -
i really detest this type of guys.. a few of my frens have the probof being beaten up by their bf as well.. sighh~ why why why!! life can be wonderful and yet it can sucks big time too..Originally posted by w3|:erm..sumhow abt the same reason my gf broke up with her ex. she broke up becoz her ex beat her..twice.. haiz~ sumtime i really wish things haven happen at all..den wun haf this kind of problem.. -
From what i see, u seems to have a penchant for BAD BOY.Originally posted by PrincessR:he whacked me up.. then my parents locked me up from seeing him.. and thats how we broke off..
what I would say is....if u 'cant play, dan dont play'.
go look for better more down to earth options...lots of them available.
u will prolly have less heartache.
the thing abt guy esp bad one is..they treat woman like piece of hole to drill.
after getting sian of drilling, will find all nonsense excuse to break free etc etc..
the truly good one will stick to u even if he gets very sian in drilling u.
cos the bad one will always have lust in their mind
while the good one can easily translate from lust to care and responsibilties.
Yours to decide.
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tats gd..l0l..w0nder if i sound my matured then my age..hAhAs !! u know sumthing? i compare choosing a lifelong partner with writing a chinese word or calligraphy.Choosing a partner is easy,but choosing 1 that suits u is difficult.If u chose e wrong 1,u will suffer for ur life.Just like writing a chinese word or calligraphy,when u r writing a chinese word or calligraphy,it seens easy,writing a word,who dono? But,1 extra stroke or 1 less stroke n your whole workpiece would be ruinedOriginally posted by PrincessR:no worries.. i wun find another bf now cos i myself dun like the feeling of being a substitude.. so i wun do it on others.. cos the feeling isnt good..