ATTENTION:HE CHEATED MY FEELINGS
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im surprised. how come some people seem intent on giving the victim a hard time instead? perhaps they feel she's not suffered enough mental trauma?
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Hmm... somehow, i find the person in the pix to be very familiar....Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:Ey, investigate first lah...
don't come to it without any consequences..
uve only seen 1 side of the accusations..
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Okay .. So what exactly happened?Originally posted by victimgal:I DID NOT. I DUMPED HIM AFTER THAT. HE WAS STILL GENTLEMANLY ON THE FIRST DATE. ITS WAS THE SECOND DATE THAT SHOWED HIS TRUE COLOURS.
Did he molest you or commit a crime?
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I believe cos i know who he is ahahahOriginally posted by XciteZ:HOW TO BELIEVE SMAPLionheart's words?!!?
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Who does it resemble?Originally posted by Axelheat755:Hmm... somehow, i find the person in the pix to be very familiar.... -
because they think it is her fault that she becomes a victim...Originally posted by HENG@:im surprised. how come some people seem intent on giving the victim a hard time instead? perhaps they feel she's not suffered enough mental trauma? -
HE WAS VERY INSISTENT AND GOOD AT SWEET TALKING. HE ALSO USED ALL WAYS TO MAKE ME AGREE. I WAS VERY HESITANT. HE'S A FRIEND OF A FRIEND, IN A WAY.Originally posted by shirurinu:Welcome to the real world gal... this tells u that never trust 100% of what people tell u especially with people u have never met before, with no credentials from ur friends. And if it's only the 2nd date, how come he's ur bf already? -
im surprised. how come some people seem intent on giving the victim a hard time instead? perhaps they feel she's not suffered enough mental trauma?
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If you want , i can help u msg his friends in friendster....
and direct them to this link....
u want??
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He's not applying emotional blackmail to her...Originally posted by HENG@:i take it that u missed the point that she's not a willing girlfriend to begin with? and that some boys are very good at applying emotional blackmail to girls to get what they want, and then taking advantage of their inexperience with situations like that. if a guy has to make an advance, instead of it being a spontaneous thing, then i don't feel it's a respectful relationship to begin with. that fact YOU can't deny.
He chatted her up.. acting gentlemanly via net and on the first date.
He showed his true colors on the second date.
She alleged that she rejected his advances repeatedly in the cinema on the second date...
Then she dumped him afterwards...
Wait...
then when does the stairwell comes about? after the cinema? -
some people think so funny one huh?Originally posted by rainee:because they think it is her fault that she becomes a victim... -
No doubt this is a serious matter...time to let those friends of his know his true colours...
Anyway, i grow up from young til now...never touched beyond a girl's hand... -
I CANT TRUST YOU ENOUGH TO DO THAT. BUT IF YOU WANT TO YOU ARE WELCOME. YOUR HELP WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:If you want , i can help u msg his friends in friendster....
and direct them to this link....
u want??
PM ME.. -
Maybe he scared of AIDS so dun dare to go near s1utty gals...lolzOriginally posted by victimgal:IF YOU DO NOT BELIVE ME U CAN ALWAYS TRY TO CHAT HIM UP AND ASK IF HE EVER HAD A STEAD. I AGREED TO BE WITH HIM ONLY AFTER HIS INSISTANCE. HE DRAGGED ME TO THE STAIRWELL AND FORCED KISSED ME AND TOUCHED ME WITHOUT MY CONSENT. I FEEL SO DIRTIED. AND YET WHEN MY GOOD FRIEND POSSED AS A SLUTTY GIRL AND ASKED HIM, HE DENIED EVERYTHING.
Seriously,u should really be careful...gauage if e person u r talking to online b4 meeting him/her....or u will suffer in e end.... i feel sorry for u...but please learn ur lessons....there r good pple out there too...u just have to make sure e pple u meet r not pretending to be nice..... how to know??? thru prolong talks with them... on e phone at least....meet up that time ,onli go places where there r alot of pple....than he no chance to do anything to u...do take care of urself n move on in life ...leave ur bad experience here n move on please
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Maybe he offered to send her home?Originally posted by shirurinu:He's not applying emotional blackmail to her...
He chatted her up.. acting gentlemanly via net and on the first date.
He showed his true colors on the second date.
She alleged that she rejected his advances repeatedly in the cinema on the second date...
Then she dumped him afterwards...
Wait...
then when does the stairwell comes about? after the cinema?
A pity hypocrites exist in our world.. -
well, I guess it is not fair to blame anyone here, anyway it is already over, and she has warned everyone here about him...Originally posted by HENG@:some people think so funny one huh?
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dun do extra things like these. u want to make more trouble for the victim? what if her friends see le come n find her trouble?Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:If you want , i can help u msg his friends in friendster....
and direct them to this link....
u want??
PM ME.. -
Personally, I'm not doubting your stand victimgal. But objectively speaking, ANYONE can come out in the internet and post another person's photo and contact number and as easily just accuse him / her of almost anything...
My personal advice for you is to be too haunted by your experience with this guy, but instead be careful next time... Take appropriate actions necessary when you feel that you're really uncomfortable with something in your future relationship and not let the same thing or similar things happen to you again?
I would also like to tell you that you're still young.. So I hope you won't let this single experience of yours run you into thinking that 'all guys are jerks' and such thinkings.. And if he has already caused you enough agony, having him ruin your future relationships would definitely not be worth it....
Try to cool down and just let things pass for now?
I'm not sure how your relationship ended with him... But when a relationship ends, often the consequence can sometimes be ugly... As you know, we're only hearing from you at this point of time and so won't know exactly what is going on... Please try to understand even if some of us might find your story hard to digest?
Wish you well and to get over the incident soon.. At this point, I'll personally give both parties the benefit of doubt? -
HE TOOK MY HANDS ON THE FIRST DATE. HE TOOK MY ARM ON THE NEXTDATE AND MOVED UP TO MY COLLAR BONE AND MY LIPS BEFORE THE MOVIE STARTED. I BRUSHED HIM OFF AT EACH OF THIS STAGE. BUT HIS HANDS WENT TO MY WAIST AND THIGHS. I FIRMLY REJECTED IT AND TOLD HIM NOT TO BOTHER ME. BUT BEOFORE THE MOVIE ENDED, HIS HANDS WERE ON MY ARMS AND WAIST AGAIN. AND HE WAS MUFFLING INTO MY NECK.Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:Okay .. So what exactly happened?
Did he molest you or commit a crime?
or is it just casual touching or whatever? but you mistook his actions and shrug it away? -
She wanted to publicize his name...naturally everyone will find out..not just the friends..Originally posted by HENG@:dun do extra things like these. u want to make more trouble for the victim? what if her friends see le come n find her trouble? -
OMG~!!Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:Who does it resemble?
You are connected to cOoKiE mOnStEr through:
You
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CONNECTED~!
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YES, AFTER THE CINEMA. I WANTED TO GO TO THE LOO. I GOT DRAGGED THERE INSTEAD.Originally posted by shirurinu:He's not applying emotional blackmail to her...
He chatted her up.. acting gentlemanly via net and on the first date.
He showed his true colors on the second date.
She alleged that she rejected his advances repeatedly in the cinema on the second date...
Then she dumped him afterwards...
Wait...
then when does the stairwell comes about? after the cinema? -
she dumped him AFTER the stairwell, which happened when they were going home AFTER the cinemaOriginally posted by shirurinu:He's not applying emotional blackmail to her...
He chatted her up.. acting gentlemanly via net and on the first date.
He showed his true colors on the second date.
She alleged that she rejected his advances repeatedly in the cinema on the second date...
Then she dumped him afterwards...
Wait...
then when does the stairwell comes about? after the cinema?