ATTENTION:HE CHEATED MY FEELINGS
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eR , well i can do much more worser things then dat...Originally posted by victimgal:I CANT TRUST YOU ENOUGH TO DO THAT. BUT IF YOU WANT TO YOU ARE WELCOME. YOUR HELP WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.
i will go to all the top forums in sg...and post.....spuggers...hardwarezone..sammyboy...77th street...
posting bulletin.....
But i really scared later the person is innocent.. -
hmm, one thing, i realize you are feeling angry, but can don't every post also use caps lock?Originally posted by victimgal:HE TOOK MY HANDS ON THE FIRST DATE. HE TOOK MY ARM ON THE NEXTDATE AND MOVED UP TO MY COLLAR BONE AND MY LIPS BEFORE THE MOVIE STARTED. I BRUSHED HIM OFF AT EACH OF THIS STAGE. BUT HIS HANDS WENT TO MY WAIST AND THIGHS. I FIRMLY REJECTED IT AND TOLD HIM NOT TO BOTHER ME. BUT BEOFORE THE MOVIE ENDED, HIS HANDS WERE ON MY ARMS AND WAIST AGAIN. AND HE WAS MUFFLING INTO MY NECK. -
Originally posted by victimgal:HE TOOK MY HANDS ON THE FIRST DATE. HE TOOK MY ARM ON THE NEXTDATE AND MOVED UP TO MY COLLAR BONE AND MY LIPS BEFORE THE MOVIE STARTED. I BRUSHED HIM OFF AT EACH OF THIS STAGE. BUT HIS HANDS WENT TO MY WAIST AND THIGHS. I FIRMLY REJECTED IT AND TOLD HIM NOT TO BOTHER ME. BUT BEOFORE THE MOVIE ENDED, HIS HANDS WERE ON MY ARMS AND WAIST AGAIN. AND HE WAS MUFFLING INTO MY NECK.
Time to drop him a message in friendster ... -
u want to look for trouble? dun say i din warn uOriginally posted by SMAPLionHeart:
Time to drop him a message in friendster ... -
Need mi to find someone to finish him off?Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:
Time to drop him a message in friendster ...
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The truth comes in the hard way.. some of us are just trying to be fair in situations like this.. y each individual is unique? Coz each's way of thinking and perception are different. Some of us here wants to analyze the situation and offer advices, some's heart goes all out to the victim. It's different people, different approach. But it's her here doing all the talking.. who should we give the benefit of doubt to... Each is an innocent person unless proven guilty. That's how the court works isn't it.. This is a delicate situation. Just based on a one sided accusation and had to label a 17 yr old boy a pervert, is it too much?Originally posted by HENG@:im surprised. how come some people seem intent on giving the victim a hard time instead? perhaps they feel she's not suffered enough mental trauma?
No one here is trying to give her a hard time... We are just trying to share our opinions. -
In this case , i think its beyond our control to get involved...
too complicated ler....
Well ....er..i guess i have to ask him as well...............................
Hell hath no fury as a women scorned....
i remember my ex went around telling lies about me...last time when we broke............. =/
but in actual fact, i didn't do some of the stuffs she accused i did... -
that's why I said no need to blame anyone anymore, don't blame the guy or the girl, the warning has been given, I think should just let this rest...Originally posted by shirurinu:The truth comes in the hard way.. some of us are just trying to be fair in situations like this.. y each individual is unique? Coz each's way of thinking and perception are different. Some of us here wants to analyze the situation and offer advices, some's heart goes all out to the victim. It's different people, different approach. But it's her here doing all the talking.. who should we give the benefit of doubt to... Each is an innocent person unless proven guilty. That's how the court works isn't it.. This is a delicate situation. Just based on a one sided accusation and had to label a 17 yr old boy a pervert, is it too much?
No one here is trying to give her a hard time... We are just trying to share our opinions. -
Looking for someone to go cycling with...is that okay with you?Originally posted by HENG@:u want to look for trouble? dun say i din warn u -
if i kena chased by pple carrying choppers...at least i'll fly to your place at london..Originally posted by HENG@:u want to look for trouble? dun say i din warn u
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I WAS NOT intersted in the things that happened in the stairwell, and as i was under his 'spell' i had no idea what was going on until after the incident and on the way home that i realised what has happened. i dumped him right after that. He did not pester me or try to explain anything despite his claims of eternal love.Originally posted by HENG@:she dumped him AFTER the stairwell, which happened when they were going home AFTER the cinema -
The incident is still new.. as in few days old? So victimgal need more time to heal... but i believe that she had learn something from the post here...Originally posted by rainee:that's why I said no need to blame anyone anymore, don't blame the guy or the girl, the warning has been given, I think should just let this rest...
My advice for her is... please dun acknowledge guys as ur bf so easily and fast... coz i feel.... she is really not ready... Acknowledge when u r really in love.. not for the sake of having a bf k... -
Well , no lah ... Sometimes these kind of things can happen ..but it seems so ridiculous and impossible to believe..Originally posted by Qo|phin:Need mi to find someone to finish him off?
look at his testimonials
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well.. this guy is my pri sch fren.. super
good in eng.. A1 some more!! *applause*
clever rite. next time can be a journalist or
a news reporter since your eng is so good.
hahas..
he's also good in music.. always talking
bout music stuffs..hahas..lolx. next time
can b a music teacher too..see..got so
many occupations suitable for u..
"
very friendly
very funny
very kind
very helpful
very talented
very cute
dunno liao la.
just stop here.
write for u another time if i noe wat to
write for u!!
take care..
frens foreva
smile always..=))
"
the first one b4.. lemme be one now..
this crapper here.. a very farn guy to
be wid.. he lyks to do crazieee
actions.. then lyks to tell his own
personal life stories to pple.. abit
lyk ms wong.. but then he hates ms
wong.. weird.. u two r so alike.. i
guess u two repels huh?? lolx..
anyway.. go out wid him is lyk cannot "
"insits that he doesnt brag about his
basketball skills..you dont have
really good joints dude..you can crack
them like you crack groundnuts..very
musically inclined..quite patient but
can be very serious when he comes to
singing...he gets along only with some
guys..one very playful boy here..i
suppose he is quite strong..eat
alot..i have nothing else to add " -
I am so sorry that such a sad thing happened to you, but i hope you do not stereotype me as one of the girls, for i am not one of them.Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:In this case , i think its beyond our control to get involved...
too complicated ler....
Well ....er..i guess i have to ask him as well...............................
Hell hath no fury as a women scorned....
i remember my ex went around telling lies about me...last time when we broke............. =/
but in actual fact, i didn't do some of the stuffs she accused i did... -
Come find meOriginally posted by SMAPLionHeart:Looking for someone to go cycling with...is that okay with you? -
"matthew comes from my church.He
treats me and my friends to 100plus
during service and doesn't really expect
much in return...hes really generous,he
even let hannah play with his pda (his
face was kinda black,though lol)!he
sings real good and cracks his knuckles
(though u shouldnt do that,ur fingers will
look like german sausages after a
while) real loud...i didnt know he played "
"Omg Matthew is one hilarious and
serious and also discipline person.He
is always focus and he is cute in the
looks and also quite handsome. He is
also Childish at times like to joke
around and everytimes irritate miss
wong... haha anywae nice meeting ya"
Welll...its really tough to believe...im neither towards here nor there... -
Ive forgiven her already =)Originally posted by victimgal:I am so sorry that such a sad thing happened to you, but i hope you do not stereotype me as one of the girls, for i am not one of them.
Okay bah, i choose to believe in your story.
So what do you plan to do now?
Time to move on in life...
Guys do get touchy sometimes....
But i don't...
My gf dresses conservatively.....
if u want..u can try wearing just plain t-shirt will do..
if u ever go dating.. -
Okay....surely no problems catching up with the chiobu...Originally posted by Axelheat755:Come find me -
well let me tell u if she's a geniuine victim, then your attempt to share your opinion is further causing her hurt she doesn't deserve in the 1st place.Originally posted by shirurinu:The truth comes in the hard way.. some of us are just trying to be fair in situations like this.. y each individual is unique? Coz each's way of thinking and perception are different. Some of us here wants to analyze the situation and offer advices, some's heart goes all out to the victim. It's different people, different approach. But it's her here doing all the talking.. who should we give the benefit of doubt to... Each is an innocent person unless proven guilty. That's how the court works isn't it.. This is a delicate situation. Just based on a one sided accusation and had to label a 17 yr old boy a pervert, is it too much?
No one here is trying to give her a hard time... We are just trying to share our opinions. -
you should've given it to him in the balls at the stairwell
definitely would've made this one of the more interesting posts around -
Dude...that's written by his fellow X'tian...e truth is we always try to act holy in church no matter how screwed up our lives r outside....it's only a few hrs a week n a way of saving his soul even after all e evil he might have done...i dun wanna judge him but there r pple who go to church who behave that way.Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:"matthew comes from my church.He
treats me and my friends to 100plus
during service and doesn't really expect
much in return...hes really generous,he
even let hannah play with his pda (his
face was kinda black,though lol)!he
sings real good and cracks his knuckles
(though u shouldnt do that,ur fingers will
look like german sausages after a
while) real loud...i didnt know he played "
"Omg Matthew is one hilarious and
serious and also discipline person.He
is always focus and he is cute in the
looks and also quite handsome. He is
also Childish at times like to joke
around and everytimes irritate miss
wong... haha anywae nice meeting ya"
Welll...its really tough to believe...im neither towards here nor there... -
17 yr old being curious abt intimate relationship is not surprising..Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:"matthew comes from my church.He
treats me and my friends to 100plus
during service and doesn't really expect
much in return...hes really generous,he
even let hannah play with his pda (his
face was kinda black,though lol)!he
sings real good and cracks his knuckles
(though u shouldnt do that,ur fingers will
look like german sausages after a
while) real loud...i didnt know he played "
"Omg Matthew is one hilarious and
serious and also discipline person.He
is always focus and he is cute in the
looks and also quite handsome. He is
also Childish at times like to joke
around and everytimes irritate miss
wong... haha anywae nice meeting ya"
Welll...its really tough to believe...im neither towards here nor there...
But frankly speaking from victimgal'saccount, i don't think that the things that he have done is very serious. The things he have done are very common in relationship. Just that victimgal felt that it's past her limits. That's y she's furious.
When she said dragged, the image that pops out in my mind is he's pullinh her with all his might and she's like resisting 100% while kicking her legs in the air? Or it's pulled her while coaxing her? -
I relate to you some of the stories by my previous ex...
My ex once had a grp of guys approaching her...etc...she quickly ran away....
Simple and smart thinking like this can't be challenged at all...
Reaction..my friends..reaction!
I once told a guy who pissed me off to stop it..i shouted..and he stopped...
set your OB markers.. -
i think its this guy...the topic starter...
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=96709
Maybe its the wrong guy... dunno... cos i saw his pix on msn... looks like same pix as victimgal posted...
Started out he asked me for my MSN saying he wanna talk to me online... den slowly he asked for intro and den started probing into, not his problem, but ME~!!! by that time i was getting alarms in my head... Net Wolf Alert~!!
Logged off and deleted/blocked him...
Too bad the history is gone cos i formated my comp early this yr...
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Young gals should be careful of who they meet up...and be firm in expressing Ur opinions...if U think its wrong for him to do the tins he is doing to U...n U feel uneasy abt it...tell him to stop...do nt keep quiet...the guy will tk it as a yes...