FAlll IN love with a Girl with BF
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It does...I am 40Originally posted by Deportivo:7 + 10 = 17 years,
how old are you? it doesn't add up you know. -
intenseflame u gone case, chasing someone who is attached is not the right thing to do. like some poster had say, wad IF u are the bf?? how will u feel..? i was in this situation before..someone chasing after my dear dear when he knows that she has me as a bf, nearly cause us to break!! i was so fucking sad that time but i eventually i got my dear back.
so please spare a though for that guy
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don't steal pple's gf..
its a terrible feeling...for the guy -
i am not giving advice on this one... cos personally, if i know a guy i like got a gf, i will back away. i'll even avoid him cos i wouldn't wan to risk having my feelings for him to grow while he still has a gal.
u can love a gal who's attached. but dun give chase until she is available. -
x2Originally posted by starblue:i am not giving advice on this one... cos personally, if i know a guy i like got a gf, i will back away. i'll even avoid him cos i wouldn't wan to risk having my feelings for him to grow while he still has a gal.
u can love a gal who's attached. but dun give chase until she is available.
take this advice, from a girl...
and wake up your bloody idea~ -
it's just a crush and you'd be over it in no time.
how can you even claim you LOVE her?
do you believe in karma? at least do not do unto others what you don't wish other do unto you.
if she can leave her guy for you, she can leave you for other guys.
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I find your predicament disturbingly similar to mine.
Just a note of caution: Before wooing her, make sure you know what you are in for. In this case, you must keep in mind that if she does leave her boyfriend for you, she can repeat the same feat to you in future. Take a good look at all the risks that you are taking. If you are willing to brave them, then go ahead.
No one here can stop you with their words, no matter how much they try to hurt you with them. Everyone has an opinion on this matter, but what's more important is your own towards this issue. -
You Really SUCK MAN.
IF, I Go After Your GF.
HOW Would You FEEL ?????
That Is what HAppen To me.
I Hate BASTXXX Like You, MAn.
Never Think For Other.
Care Only For YOURSELF.
Even You Are together, She MAy leave YOU TOO!!!
So, Why DO that to Other???
Use Your FXXKing Brain.
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Wow it looks like so many of you hate me....
ACtually... i like her and i have no idea how i like her , if you can control your feelings for someone that is NOT LOVE . Love is pure and it is blind too. I tried not to call her or even sms her but i failed.
Yeap , i do think of her bf and my bad deeds. I am not trying to cause break ups between them or both of them. That is the last thing i will do. I will not confess my love to her but i am sure she knew i like her. I will not cause any harm on this girl and also wish that the choose the right person in her life rather than a perfect person.
Going romantic places ..... hmmmm.... actually she suggested it and i just implement. When i first date her....she suggested beach walking. I have never involve in any physical / sexual activities with her since she is still attach.
I believe that love is not just commitment , Love is more than commitment , LOVE is Passion and Affection. If love is just a matter of commitment , break ups will happen even after our marriage. That is one of the social stigma these days. Love is about fireworks and romance and being passion , caring and builing dreams together. THIS IS HOW I DEFINE LOVE.
YEAP... i met her like recently , two months. I believe in one thing...if a guy treats a girl nice , caring , passion , affection and bring her at the top of the world , it is impossible she will fall for another guy. But if a guy treats his gf just for social status and needs....then it is most likely he will loose her.
WHAT IF SHE TREATS ME AS SPARE TYRE ????? CAN I WAIT THAT LONG ??
The answer to that question is.... she might treat me as a spare tyre. It is me who loose everything in life but i belive she will loose more because girls speak through heart and emotions. If she dump me and go back to her bf I will not be angry with her because i prepared for the worst. I am sure she will be bored going for a relationship with the bf since she spend so much time with me.
GUYS and GIRLS are different in nature. Guys convey message by using logics while girls convey message through feelings and heart.
sorry for causing so much trouble in this forum but i do hope you guys learn something here and treat your gf with passion and affection. No matter what guys came into her life she will still be with you because girls dont choose the best guy , they choose the right guy in their life.
For me i am just tring to find the rifght person in my life . I will treat her the best and make her life a wonderful journey under the roof of fireworks. -
I do not hate IntenseFlame but agreed along with him.
Hey you guys ever thought of wat the girl actually did?
She is the one who asked him out.
If she is so faithful why is she doing this?
I have know girls who had bf and even refused to go out at all with any guys becos of their bf.
Should she be the bad and evil person who is actually playing her bf out?
I believe is no longer a case of third party anymore but more of a case of a gf who is tired of her usual bf and decided to get the poor IntenseFlame out for a fling.
Why do all of you keep blaming him ? For wat? Going out with a girl who had already cheated on her bf ? Hey she may even be sleeping around too rite?
Are you 100% sure she never cheat her bf at all or maybe IntenseFlame is only one of her play toy?
You guys keep blaming him but hey is the THE GIRL who actually making all the moves by asking him out rite?
Come on people wake up!!!
He is not in a third party case but only a toy to the evil girl who plays with her bf. -
i dunno.. but flame sounds like he's justifying himself...
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People often justify themselves, it's only normal.Originally posted by starblue:i dunno.. but flame sounds like he's justifying himself...
No point for anyone to point any finger, for ultimately.. People would still be seeing things from their own perspective. -
For me, very simple, in this world, there is nothing is "RIGHT", and nothing is "WRONG". People see things from different angles, I don't have to agree with what people said, and people don't have to agree with what I said. "You just get the girl you love what, everyone also like that what"....blah blah blah....
What did I do after someone snatched away the one I love? I won't like some s.t.u.p.i.d-i.d.i.o.t that shows in the newspaper, cut the person into pieces?
Well, there are lots of better ways, so, I made a trip to Thailand, find a master, curse him, incant him with black magic incantation, with my blood, a pass away baby (3 days old), and a black dog's head...well, he is kind of s.t.u.p.i.d to let me find out his date of birth, and his real name.
Yes, that's what I did to the person, and he deserved that, and even more than that.
Who's "RIGHT", and who's "WRONG", not me, and not him either. He made his choice, so do I. But he deserved to "ENJOY" what he suffers now. You know how he is suffering now? Well, now, by looking at him, you can't even tell that he is a "human".
Well, you don't have to agree with what I did, same here, do I have to agree with what you said? It's a matter of choice, you hurting people, be prepared to be hurt by them, in whatever way.
Good luck, "what goes around, what come around", retribution will come, but might be in different way. -
Looks like the fireworks is still firing to dizzy heights,
The supernova still loud & bright
The glitzty stardust yet to settle.
when it is all gone & over with,
Who will she love.
Who will you love.. -
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You dun sound sincere abt getting serious with her den why break up them??
You want is hurting other.
Seem like you loves that.
Shame on You.
I wish you GOOD Luck... -
Broz and sistas here,
lets wish him luck... they do make such a great pair:
a selfish man and a loose woman...
salvation for the boyfriend...
let me tell you my definition of love:
i waited quietly (no dating, no phone calls, no whatsoever at all) for my fiancee for 15 months, seeing her going through 2 other relationships before i made my move...
what i did is nothing compared to many many others out there but i am sure of one thing at least and that is you know nothing about love at all... -
Broz and sistas here,
lets wish him luck... they do make such a great pair:
a selfish man and a loose woman...
salvation for the boyfriend...
let me tell you my definition of love:
i waited quietly (no dating, no phone calls, no whatsoever at all) for my fiancee for 15 months, seeing her going through 2 other relationships before i made my move...
what i did is nothing compared to many many others out there but i am sure of one thing at least and that is you know nothing about love at all...
You Think I Care How My Words Sound To Your Ears?
Dear FRiend,
We, Think Very Much Alike.
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do unto others what you want others to do unto you.
so please think carefully before you go round stealing someone's else girlfriend. -
haizz...beware dude, the gal might just want ur attention that's all. If she feels that there's no point in dragging her current relationship....she probably would have broke up ages ago.....i guess the reason she's still in the relationship...is to have the best of both worlds...haizz... one is always selfish..
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Liking someone who already has bf/gf is so common today.
and I had heard so many ended up ok anyway,
ie, the '3rd' party finally get the gal/guy.
Many people nowadays are only attached in so called 'convenience' relationship.
It takes 2 to clap.
Thats how the society is right now.
Of cos, its not like i would be a 3rd party, just my observation. -
Its nothing wrong , jus tat fate played a trick on u at the moment when u tot tat u finally can have some1 special all by urself , but tat wasnt the case .
U have given effort to stop this from happening but the feeling is unbearable , the same feeling i felt some yrs ago .
In fact i had tried going after some1's gf b4 , it wasnt intentional .It all started as normal frens n things jus sparked somehw. It takes 2 hands to clap , i would say for my experience , the gal was sorta interested.If she had given the stop sign , i would nt have gone further . I m sure of tat . Haix, ultimately i indirectly caused the their broke up , which remained gulity . But y i said indirectly , cos the gal didnt chose me , in fact she had chosen some 4th party. , lol , he jus hopped out from no where .
U koe the feeling of helplessness is unbearable n things jus go on its on beyond our control.Selfish as it may seemed ,but hw many of us can say n do the right thing when such incident happen to us. Bystanders will flame n curse , i would too in fact , but i have sinned n experienced it .
hmm , wat i wan to say is , u have given ur efforts to stop , but has the gal realised wat has she been doing ? she is giving u hope by going out with u , a sensible method of a responsible gf is nt to go out on dates with a interested guy . m i rite ? haix .. things arent within our control ..
the famous sayings .. fight for ur own happiness .. don build ur joy on ppl's misery ...
wtf .. sometimes life jus screw all of us -
let it go...
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10 cents' worth....
1. she reali worth the wait ? WOrld 's nt gonna end wif ur butt on the seat.. Look out 4 other available gals.
2. Go befren teh bf... u noe ur enemy well , u noe how 2 defeat him if u r gg 2 make a move.. .... or if u r morally uprite.. u wun snatch a bro 's gf... .... or along the way, u learn the wrong things tt guy do 2 her. Dun do the same ting on the another available gal..
3. some gals stick 2 their bfs no matter how they suckx.. no b'day or v'day celebration, no gifts, no surprises, boring routine of shppg, dinner and movie... Some r on the lookout 4 rabbit boyz.. U noe the ans... the wait mayb long
4. Reduce gg out wif her alone... tis wil reduce cravings... n if u do go out wif her...dun tink so much.. juz enjoy her companionship as frenx @ least....
Life's lidat.. the one u luv n like nw may nt b the one who wil walk u thru ur life... It's full of twists n turns... tt's y life is interesting. I haf met wif same situations b4 n i noe waiting s waste of my time.. Go n tell the gal tt u carry torches 4 her.. n full stop.. coz it's her choice liaoz... mayb it's juz wrong timing ... if nt hold ur peace N Get on wif life.. there r gals out ther tt u nvr met nor seen....
Guo Lai Ren
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ehmmm.....
I think you guys are right. If someone steal my gf that would be a nightmare to me.
So... what should i do ? Should i not call her again ? Ignore her ?
recently she had a bad day with the bf..... i think i dun want to continue this misery quest. How do i end this misery mission ?