help in my love problem
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dun think he'll off the light so he wont bring himself to do it i guessOriginally posted by ILPSY:A relationship becomes more complicated when sex is involved.
but i think this is a very very selfish guy who's superficial and shallow at the same time. i think people like him shouldnt even be granted love. -
who doesn't enjoy being loved by someone?Originally posted by browniebaobao:
coz u are selfish. U enjoy the feeling of being loved and wanted.
If you let her go, u will feel a loss of admiration or love from somebody.
I really wonder what she sees in you..but then most women are blind in love. -
so far i didn't think of having sex with her but only a little dirty talk with her. that's allOriginally posted by ILPSY:A relationship becomes more complicated when sex is involved. -
i think u are selfish.. u want to be love but dont want to love her becoz she is not good looking...
She deserves better....if u want to do one last good thing for her.. THEN LET HER GO ... because u are really cruel now to her....
U will never accept her... u already have this thinking of wat underground relationship..
She is just a simple girl and really blind... blind to fall for someone who doent see her beauty...
i'll pray for her tonite.. -
yes....but do u know u are using her to get your gains...u think that is fair to her?Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:who doesn't enjoy being loved by someone?
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u dun deserve love.Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:who doesn't enjoy being loved by someone?
period. -
i never expect anything from her k.Originally posted by StarPuppy:yes....but do u know u are using her to get your gains...u think that is fair to her? -
then u will continue using her until u get sick from her...is that it?Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:i never expect anything from her k. -
c'mon wat i use her abt?Originally posted by StarPuppy:then u will continue using her until u get sick from her...is that it? -
hmmm
jus for discussion sake
wat happens if the gender is reversered???
i mean a reversed situation is rather common rite??
if we say the gal can try to accept the guy for his sincerity
why not for a guy to accept a gal for the same reason?? -
but even so....the first thing he should have done is prevent further misunderstandingOriginally posted by BaByBoY:hmmm
jus for discussion sake
wat happens if the gender is reversered???
i mean a reversed situation is rather common rite??
if we say the gal can try to accept the guy for his sincerity
why not for a guy to accept a gal for the same reason?? -
Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:who doesn't enjoy being loved by someone?
not if u dun love that someone or she irritates u? -
Enough of this. What exactly are you wondering about now?Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:i never expect anything from her k.
You never expected anything but by reciprocating you are giving her false hopes. Since you arent even sure about her to begin with, what was your objective in talking dirty?
If she wasnt nice I would understand. But she is, and the plain fact is that if someone better came along you would jump ship.
What kind of help are you seeking in this "love problem"? Someone to tell you where to find better looking girls? Someone to tell you its ok to date ugly people?
If your heart isnt in it, dont waste her time please. -
from my understanding of the point of view from the author`s sideOriginally posted by StarPuppy:but even so....the first thing he should have done is prevent further misunderstanding
he did try to reject the gal rite??
it`s her persistance and motivation that touched the guy in this instance
thus the guy decideds to give both of them a chance??
i don really see a prob w that
to fully understand how he feels before flaming him at all,
put urself in his shoes ya?
keke
IMHO, nothing wrong w giving ur both self a try
juz make sure u`re truthful to ur feelings
don hurt each other this way
if things are not to work out, at least u`ve tried
One of the greatest regrets in life is not to haf tried and failed, but not to try at all.
Frog, i admire ur courage to try, but please dont do it for fun
make sure u put in ut heart k?
my blessings
BaByBoY -
Ok....Let me just give u one good advice....if u really want to try a r/s with her,please do not just dump her halfway,i am sure if u do,she would do something stupid...Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:i never expect anything from her k.
If u really do not want to start any commitment with her,just end it quickly....dun create a further mess
P.S:I admit i was biased in my post and i ask for your apologies....U do have your right in looking for the girl u want....
but please do not use her because she treats u well and u have no feelings for her -
It's b'cos it came all so easily to you.Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:i never expect anything from her k. -
I don't do for fun I will put my heart in if i get into a relationship with her .but someone did mentioned like if i dump her halfway she might do something foolish .that's what i am afraid of because she is the type of girl who will die for the guy she loves .Originally posted by BaByBoY:from my understanding of the point of view from the author`s side
he did try to reject the gal rite??
it`s her persistance and motivation that touched the guy in this instance
thus the guy decideds to give both of them a chance??
i don really see a prob w that
to fully understand how he feels before flaming him at all,
put urself in his shoes ya?
keke
IMHO, nothing wrong w giving ur both self a try
juz make sure u`re truthful to ur feelings
don hurt each other this way
if things are not to work out, at least u`ve tried
One of the greatest regrets in life is not to haf tried and failed, but not to try at all.
Frog, i admire ur courage to try, but please dont do it for fun
make sure u put in ut heart k?
my blessings
BaByBoY -
Originally posted by BaByBoY:from my understanding of the point of view from the author`s side
he did try to reject the gal rite??
it`s her persistance and motivation that touched the guy in this instance
thus the guy decideds to give both of them a chance??
i don really see a prob w that
to fully understand how he feels before flaming him at all,
put urself in his shoes ya?
keke
IMHO, nothing wrong w giving ur both self a try
juz make sure u`re truthful to ur feelings
don hurt each other this way
if things are not to work out, at least u`ve tried
One of the greatest regrets in life is not to haf tried and failed, but not to try at all.
Frog, i admire ur courage to try, but please dont do it for fun
make sure u put in ut heart k?
my blessings
BaByBoY
If u know that or unsure whether u will love her, then dun ever try. The damage done can be very very great. Might even ruin her future. No kidding. -
Never give someone hope and later crush it with your own hands. For that, I curse them to death.
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hmmm.....Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:I don't do for fun I will put my heart in if i get into a relationship with her .but someone did mentioned like if i dump her halfway she might do something foolish .that's what i am afraid of because she is the type of girl who will die for the guy she loves .
however there`s one thing i don really like abt wat`s gg on..
don take her for granted
more clearly, don put her as an underground gf
only to share ur own precious time `alone`
when u`ve reached the state where u loved her enuff
the rest of the world doesn`t even matter anymore
so dun need to bother abt her looks ba -
S HIT ruin her future so jialat ..but i can try to love her mah since she is so good to meOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
If u know that or unsure whether u will love her, then dun ever try. The damage done can be very very great. Might even ruin her future. No kidding. -
i call tt giving everyone a chanceOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
If u know that or unsure whether u will love her, then dun ever try. The damage done can be very very great. Might even ruin her future. No kidding.
since the aurthor is willing to love
wat`s there to stop him? -
accountability for his actions.Originally posted by BaByBoY:i call tt giving everyone a chance
since the aurthor is willing to love
wat`s there to stop him?
Would her peers or family take kindly of the way he is handling her right now?
More often than not we percieve the whole world revolving around us and our feelings. But we forget abt the causality of our actions. -
kns.dun waste her time leading her on.I am sure U would be able to find a way to make her understand that u mind her looks and doesnt love her.just a matter of whether U want to do it or not.She would be better off WITHOUT U.Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:S HIT ruin her future so jialat ..but i can try to love her mah since she is so good to me -
his immature outlook in life and.. i dunnoe.. love? by the fact dat he wants an underground relationship, u can tell that he places himself first, and others second.Originally posted by BaByBoY:i call tt giving everyone a chance
since the aurthor is willing to love
wat`s there to stop him?
im not saying this is wrong, its natural. so am i, i don't have the right to go say i will love till i am willing to die and go to hell and back.
this will be his highest obstacle in this relationship.