if girls make the first move??
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he is 28yrs old..he very prima & proper and thats wat i like about him.. he not like those guys at the clubbing scene..then very funny also loh...Originally posted by heavenlyfire:you alreadly make the move, if he interested in you, he will most likely give you an ang bao, present or maybe give you a treat depending on his age. How old is he?
you mind if i ask you why you like him so much? what has he done that makes you llike him? was it the way he carried himself or the way he dresses?or character?
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my party will consist of the frens we party together ma....so there is nothing to be uncomfortable about..Originally posted by heavenlyfire:It is very rude not to reply to message,SMS, at least acknowledge. It is his fault. you might want to try message him again. maybe he forget to reply or lost in air..
but His reply is most likely,"yup, my apologies, got something on."
like you say, he is very shy, so you expected him to go to your party with no friends around? who he talk too? he is sure to feel uncomfortable .
and to add...on sundays he spends with his family..i like loh this kind of guy....... -
thanks for the info, update us if you need advise again.Originally posted by bluepiggy:my party will consist of the frens we party together ma....so there is nothing to be uncomfortable about..
and to add...on sundays he spends with his family..i like loh this kind of guy....... -
homely guys perfer homely girls
are you one? -
wah gd luck to u lorhh..i mean..its a gamble la..if u succeed den gd..if u don't..well, u may not even be friends with this guy ever again, consequence abit serious la but yeahh..this is life ain't it..? either u get it,or u don't...if u don't then well....haf a backup plan lol
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im homely too~ u like me too then~Originally posted by bluepiggy:my party will consist of the frens we party together ma....so there is nothing to be uncomfortable about..
and to add...on sundays he spends with his family..i like loh this kind of guy.......
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Woah relax, no need to shout like that.Originally posted by bluepiggy:NOPE HE IS NOT ATTACHED..I CHECK LIAO...MY FREN SAYS HE VERY SHY Anyway shy guys like him sure have someone in his heart one. -
but if both like to stay home with mummy then how??Originally posted by drx:homely guys perfer homely girls
are you one? -
yesterday he busy so never replied my sms...but later on i did sent another one...anyway he called mi and we chatted abit...
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if he so homely then still go cheong one leh??Originally posted by drx:homely guys perfer homely girls
are you one?
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If he keeps on reserving........
are u gonna play along for the next 6mths, worst 1 year, 2 years?
This isnt fishing.... u play with the catch until it's tired, then u pull it up
Chop Chop curry pox, get the ans and move one le -
I CANT chop chop..i will see him in my work place..then pai sayOriginally posted by OldAhPek:If he keeps on reserving........
are u gonna play along for the next 6mths, worst 1 year, 2 years?
This isnt fishing.... u play with the catch until it's tired, then u pull it up
Chop Chop curry pox, get the ans and move one le -
You'll surprised that it's quite opposite!Originally posted by drx:homely guys perfer homely girls
are you one?
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don worry, take your time, slow and steady win the race.Originally posted by bluepiggy:I CANT chop chop..i will see him in my work place..then pai say
Relationship is just like stewing, the longer the taste better.
so, you manage to convince him to go for party? or he pretend say cant go, so that to give you a chance to let you convince him? -
he said maybe see how first... i said if he were to go, i would be happier..Originally posted by heavenlyfire:don worry, take your time, slow and steady win the race.
Relationship is just like stewing, the longer the taste better.
so, you manage to convince him to go for party? or he pretend say cant go, so that to give you a chance to let you convince him?
then he said i still have loads of other frens wat.. then i dont know wat to say liao...
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Have you revealed your interest in him yet?Originally posted by bluepiggy:he said maybe see how first... i said if he were to go, i would be happier..
then he said i still have loads of other frens wat.. then i dont know wat to say liao...
ay ya.. maybe i will take it slowly....
He may be playing along too.
My advice: Don't be too pushy appear in front of him too much.
When you get the chance. Hit it hard on him(i mean do something out of this world to him.), he'll remember you and stick to you after that.
Dbl Edge method. But at least you know you won't have to go thru this slow torturous chase.
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how to reveal???? hit him hard with wat??? i dont know leh.. can tell mi how?Originally posted by M©+square:Have you revealed your interest in him yet?
He may be playing along too.
My advice: Don't be too pushy appear in front of him too much.
When you get the chance. Hit it hard on him(i mean do something out of this world to him.), he'll remember you and stick to you after that.
Dbl Edge method. But at least you know you won't have to go thru this slow torturous chase.
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you know what to say, but you don want to say only. heheOriginally posted by bluepiggy:then he said i still have loads of other frens wat.. then i dont know wat to say liao...
ay ya.. maybe i will take it slowly....
you want to say, "you are different from them" right?
but you feel that it is not the time.
If the guy never went through any relationship before, you will need more time,courage, advise and patience .
He may have heard that how relationship is like this or like that...or even worse, he only knows the cons of relationship.
example, relationship can be painful or hurting.
He may be also be afraid of rejection, because if he step in, this would be his first time and you know if first time get rejected, maybe will lose the confidence of asking another girl next time will be difficult or that he has being rejected before and will only step in only when 100% sure, you like him.
another thing is that, thanks to your sisters out there, he know of the "good" reputation of SG girls, being materialistic and other stuffs like playing with men and hence not sure.
All these are based on the assumption that the guy is shy, that is what you say. anyway good luck and keep us updated if possible. -
ya i wanted to say that but stuck loh..then he 28 yrs old..i dont believe never have gf....Originally posted by heavenlyfire:you know what to say, but you don want to say only. hehe
you want to say, "you are different from them" right?
but you feel that it is not the time.
If the guy never went through any relationship before, you will need more time,courage, advise and patience .
He may have heard that how relationship is like this or like that...or even worse, he only knows the cons of relationship.
example, relationship can be painful or hurting.
He may be also be afraid of rejection, because if he step in, this would be his first time and you know if first time get rejected, maybe will lose the confidence of asking another girl next time will be difficult or that he has being rejected before and will only step in only when 100% sure, you like him.
another thing is that, thanks to your sisters out there, he know of the "good" reputation of SG girls, being materialistic and other stuffs like playing with men and hence not sure.
All these are based on the assumption that the guy is shy, that is what you say. anyway good luck and keep us updated if possible.
they keep saying he shy... -
and also... i afriad thta he will treat mi as a buddy...then i sure die..once a guy treat u as one of them then i guess no hope of having any thing romantic happening liao....
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hard to say. SG last virgin, got chance ask him, not the part about virgin, but the part about whether being in relationship or being ditched before.Originally posted by bluepiggy:ya i wanted to say that but stuck loh..then he 28 yrs old..i dont believe never have gf....
they keep saying he shy...
You can start off by saying, you got a friend who is being played by playboy blar blar blar, and ask him why all guys like that? -
i guess if you wanna know his true feelings you have to get him alone.. like.. dinner etc?.. or during lunch breaks.. i believe there will be opportunities where you both will have time to talk about personal affairs right? gambatte
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not confirm, u still think, secondary BGR or poly BGR? it will still depend on what type of guy is he. 28 seems to me the right age to finding gf, he should be starting to look for one by now.Originally posted by bluepiggy:and also... i afriad thta he will treat mi as a buddy...then i sure die..once a guy treat u as one of them then i guess no hope of having any thing romantic happening liao....
5 years to test whether the relationship will last and at the same time to save up.
32-33 get married.
54, eldest child 20, should be able to fend for himself, then can retired. Perfect! -
wat i gather from here... u guys are supporting that i go for it rite???
okok then i will try my berry best..but not scare him away la...
hehe..so excited