After Some Time...
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No
Seriously, dunno what to write in it My most private thoughts, are shared only with my guy. The others? Let's just say that I'd rather share them here : ) So AA is my blog
FeowFeowOriginally posted by DeadPoet:Do you have a blog?
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yah yah stay here and write write.
AA needs someone to inject light and hope(in a way)
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Maybe squirrels are Not suited to them? Maybe they're more suited to the appetites of little mice & hamsters?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Tuatau:Yet there are nuts, never to be found by any squirrel -- blind or otherwise -- left rotting on the ground, awaiting the next spring... -
Hiyah Starblue,
I hope that every article posted will help someone feel better : )
FeowFeowOriginally posted by starblue:feow just uplifted my spirits today... nothing like a little dose of happiness for a morning. -
I guess for some, it's both? : ) In a way, the longer 2 people are together, the more "stale" it can get. The 1st sparks & excitement fade with time. But with time, a stable companionship & deep care can be established with the dedication & effort which you've mentioned : )
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Nelstar:love is not about the time... but the emphasis is on your dedication and effort. -
wat are u waiting for???
get married -
Yah lah yah lah
I thought mods would like people to come here & share share what
FeowFeowOriginally posted by M©+square:yah yah stay here and write write.
AA needs someone to inject light and hope(in a way) -
And incur all the pressure from parents, etc?
It's better to elope & get married secretly, don't you think? The worst part is: both of us are the type who'd do just that We're pretty adamant that this is just about the both of us.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by BaByBoY:wat are u waiting for???
get married -
Originally posted by Devil1976:
that is so right?
Take a little opportunity to be a 'wet blanket' here...
Anyone envying FeowFeow here...?
Ok, ok... FeowFeow wasn't born with such a fantastic relationship to start... It probably took her much failures.... Angers.. And to an extent some 'sufferings' from previous ones...?
What I'm trying to say is "Don't give up"... If you don't keep walking after failures, you probably won't see what's up in line for you... Even if it's not the next 1... The next 2 or the next 3...?
You earn your rights to find out... Provided that you're walking in the RIGHT DIRECTION...?
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Maybe FeowFeow can teach us on how to maintain a relationship.
Cos i feel is easy for some people to get a gf or a bf but is tough to maintain one. -
hmmm....Originally posted by Nelstar:love is not about the time... but the emphasis is on your dedication and effort.
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Harlow
What do you think is my purpose of posting these kinda things? I'm trying to share my way of "maintaining" the relationship, although I see it more as how to just keep enjoying your partner
I'll try to write what I've experienced from time to time, & hopefully, they might be of help to someone : )
FeowFeowOriginally posted by drx:Maybe FeowFeow can teach us on how to maintain a relationship.
Cos i feel is easy for some people to get a gf or a bf but is tough to maintain one. -
I guess we're lucky to still have the sparks n excitement, and have the stable companionship n deep care all at the same timeOriginally posted by FeowFeow:I guess for some, it's both? : ) In a way, the longer 2 people are together, the more "stale" it can get. The 1st sparks & excitement fade with time. But with time, a stable companionship & deep care can be established with the dedication & effort which you've mentioned : )
FeowFeow
the flames may hav died a little, with everything becoming kinda like a routine.. the stuff we do together n etc ^.^
but the sparks are definitely there, waitin to get fanned into flames again once every few days -
Of course there're also other ways to keep things exciting
But eh hem, I'd better Not teach you indecent things hehehehhehehe
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:I guess we're lucky to still have the sparks n excitement, and have the stable companionship n deep care all at the same time
the flames may hav died a little, with everything becoming kinda like a routine.. the stuff we do together n etc ^.^
but the sparks are definitely there, waitin to get fanned into flames again once every few days -
We dun have to do things that are indecentOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Of course there're also other ways to keep things exciting
But eh hem, I'd better Not teach you indecent things hehehehhehehe
FeowFeow
well, doin sth out of the routine would make things exciting a little?
routine is ok with me, what's most important is to be next to him everytime we're doin sth, together or not.
we could watch shows together, or have pillow fights
He could play games while I read or sth dun really have to do things together, its the feeling of togetherness that's important -
Hehehe, then I'd better Not teach you indecent things that are out of routine
R(A) stuff aside, I know what you mean, sometimes we don't even need to talk, just sit leaning against each other reading He likes to point things to me when he sees something interesting, etc
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:We dun have to do things that are indecent
well, doin sth out of the routine would make things exciting a little?
routine is ok with me, what's most important is to be next to him everytime we're doin sth, together or not.
we could watch shows together, or have pillow fights
He could play games while I read or sth dun really have to do things together, its the feeling of togetherness that's important -
Of all the time we spend together, I love it when we take bus rides home. Thats when we'd be talkin more than usualOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Hehehe, then I'd better Not teach you indecent things that are out of routine
R(A) stuff aside, I know what you mean, sometimes we don't even need to talk, just sit leaning against each other reading He likes to point things to me when he sees something interesting, etc
FeowFeow
and also teh time when I'd learn more of what goes on his mind. -
I like it when he tells me his views about certain pieces of news, etc : ) Sometimes we have quite intense debates on what we think. Mostly though, we are on equal ground Sometimes his views are accepted, sometimes mine are Sometimes we just argue, then sulk, then 10 mins later, we're talking HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Bus rides are wonderful : ) I much prefer them to MRT rides. But when I'm Not together with him, I'd rather take the MRT since it's the shortest way to meet him! But it's fun to relax on a bus ride, looking at the scenery, laughing at some of the programmes on MobileTV (the other day, we were amazed at the way a chinese compere said "Music, please" He said, "Music, PLEZ!")
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:Of all the time we spend together, I love it when we take bus rides home. Thats when we'd be talkin more than usual and also teh time when I'd learn more of what goes on his mind. -
Originally posted by shinta:I guess we're lucky to still have the sparks n excitement, and have the stable companionship n deep care all at the same time
the flames may hav died a little, with everything becoming kinda like a routine.. the stuff we do together n etc ^.^
but the sparks are definitely there, waitin to get fanned into flames again once every few days -
INDEED.Originally posted by M©+square:yah yah stay here and write write.
AA needs someone to inject light and hope(in a way) -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:I like it when he tells me his views about certain pieces of news, etc : ) Sometimes we have quite intense debates on what we think. Mostly though, we are on equal ground Sometimes his views are accepted, sometimes mine are Sometimes we just argue, then sulk, then 10 mins later, we're talking HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Bus rides are wonderful : ) I much prefer them to MRT rides. But when I'm Not together with him, I'd rather take the MRT since it's the shortest way to meet him! But it's fun to relax on a bus ride, looking at the scenery, laughing at some of the programmes on MobileTV (the other day, we were amazed at the way a chinese compere said "Music, please" He said, "Music, PLEZ!")
FeowFeow -
I was kinda hoping it would also spur others on to share some of their own experiences.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Devil1976:INDEED. -
Married life is also routine.
U may try & plan some holidays or do some projects like learning a new sport/ hobby together to break the monotony.
Impt. is not to take each other for granted.
Must compliment him & let him know he is doing a great job, once in a while buy/cook his favourite makan, give him a massage, pamper him -
That must be Jacky wu..Originally posted by FeowFeow:I like it when he tells me his views about certain pieces of news, etc : ) Sometimes we have quite intense debates on what we think. Mostly though, we are on equal ground Sometimes his views are accepted, sometimes mine are Sometimes we just argue, then sulk, then 10 mins later, we're talking HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Bus rides are wonderful : ) I much prefer them to MRT rides. But when I'm Not together with him, I'd rather take the MRT since it's the shortest way to meet him! But it's fun to relax on a bus ride, looking at the scenery, laughing at some of the programmes on MobileTV (the other day, we were amazed at the way a chinese compere said "Music, please" He said, "Music, PLEZ!")
FeowFeow
I'd get upset if he starts reading on our way to anywhere.. (cos i dun have anything to read ) -
very funny meh?Originally posted by Devil1976: