2nd Outing for Mushy Gang

• drx

  15 Sep 05, 23:56

  maybe used to simple life liao..
  hehe
  to me if i like a person I will not restrict what she wears cos I love her for the inside not the outside.
  
  Sugar looks very pretty without any makeup. guess she is a natural beauty..
  
• smudgey

  16 Sep 05, 00:00

  sigh....
  drx u got bro or not!!! so sweet wan!!!
  

  Originally posted by drx:

  maybe used to simple life liao..
  hehe
  to me if i like a person I will not restrict what she wears cos I love her for the inside not the outside.
  
  Sugar looks very pretty without any makeup. guess she is a natural beauty..
  

• drx

  16 Sep 05, 00:07

  your bf never treat you well meh?
  
  actually I got one problem with realationship.
  Is that I really do not know how to quarrel.
  I always treat my gfs so well that we never quarrel at all.
  
  Can teach me how to quarrel..?
  
  Haha was telling sugar about it and she say lets try..
  In the end we end up lauighing...
  
  haiz.,,
• Mao x 2

  16 Sep 05, 00:07

  
  

  Originally posted by drx:

  err smudgey
  who is next on the training list ?
  must train more romatic guys..
  the result are shown on mao and bear hehe

  Me need training one meh?
• smudgey

  16 Sep 05, 00:12

  in a sense that's my prob with my bf too...
  
  he is too patient... he ren ren re... so it always end up looking like I'm throwing a hissy fit!!! but it'snot fair!!! it is OUR problems... and only I seem interested in finding a solution... he never have anything more to contribute than... "you just have to be a bit more patient".... as if that'll solve all our probs!!!
  
  sigh.... fighting is not good but sometimes it can help bring a couple closer...
  
  sometimes I feel like I am trying so desperately to stay afloat and all he's doing is nothing.
  
  

  Originally posted by drx:

  your bf never treat you well meh?
  
  actually I got one problem with realationship.
  Is that I really do not know how to quarrel.
  I always treat my gfs so well that we never quarrel at all.
  
  Can teach me how to quarrel..?
  
  Haha was telling sugar about it and she say lets try..
  In the end we end up lauighing...
  
  haiz.,,

• drx

  16 Sep 05, 00:16

  mao is advertising leh
  shuu.....
• drx

  16 Sep 05, 00:20

  sometimes guys like us are confused as to what girls really want.
  haiz if we quarrel we will lose cos we love our gf so much that we do not mind
  we do not know how to quarrel backso we rather be quiet..
  
  so i am ask u for help in quarreling.
  
• smudgey

  16 Sep 05, 00:24

  communication is KEY, when you have ill feelings talk it out as best as you can. no NEED for quarrels...
  
  my issue is not that he don't quarrel with me it's that he don't tell me his feelings
  

  Originally posted by drx:

  sometimes guys like us are confused as to what girls really want.
  haiz if we quarrel we will lose cos we love our gf so much that we do not mind
  we do not know how to quarrel backso we rather be quiet..
  
  so i am ask u for help in quarreling.
  

• Mao x 2

  16 Sep 05, 00:26

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  in a sense that's my prob with my bf too...
  
  he is too patient... he ren ren re... so it always end up looking like I'm throwing a hissy fit!!! but it'snot fair!!! it is OUR problems... and only I seem interested in finding a solution... he never have anything more to contribute than... "you just have to be a bit more patient".... as if that'll solve all our probs!!!
  
  sigh.... fighting is not good but sometimes it can help bring a couple closer...
  
  sometimes I feel like I am trying so desperately to stay afloat and all he's doing is nothing.
  
  

  Sometimes, quarrelling can be a good thing too. we tend to hide things to ourselves, it's only during quarrels, we will say everything out.
• drx

  16 Sep 05, 00:27

  i see humm
  lets say if I am not happy with my gf actions I say it out straight in her face?
• drx

  16 Sep 05, 00:28

  mao sadly I really do not know how to quarrel.....
• smudgey

  16 Sep 05, 00:30

  the ideal way is to wait when you have quiet moment together and tell her gently,,,
  

  Originally posted by drx:

  i see humm
  lets say if I am not happy with my gf actions I say it out straight in her face?

• Mao x 2

  16 Sep 05, 00:31

  Originally posted by drx:

  mao sadly I really do not know how to quarrel.....

  just like what Smudgey said, if the communication between you and kitty is good enough, there's isn't a need to quarrel at all lor.
• binZ

  16 Sep 05, 00:33

  can i join in the fun~~
• drx

  16 Sep 05, 00:34

  haiz maybe mao is rite I think too much..
  
  "my issue is not that he don't quarrel with me it's that he don't tell me his feelings "
  
  smudgey can show me an example?
• Mao x 2

  16 Sep 05, 00:34

  Originally posted by binZ:

  can i join in the fun~~

  yes.. can i help you?
• drx

  16 Sep 05, 00:36

  hum ok smudgey will explain the charges..
• smudgey

  16 Sep 05, 00:36

  Join away...
  
  Miss maomao zao1 dai4 ke4 ren2!!!

  Originally posted by binZ:

  can i join in the fun~~

• smudgey

  16 Sep 05, 00:38

  when we quarrel he just keeps a straight face. i question him he don't answer.... just avoiding lor...
  
  sian la also dunno how
  

  Originally posted by drx:

  haiz maybe mao is rite I think too much..
  
  "my issue is not that he don't quarrel with me it's that he don't tell me his feelings "
  
  smudgey can show me an example?

• drx

  16 Sep 05, 00:43

  poor smudgey
  gives smudgey a warm hugz.
  
  So during quarreling your bf should say how he feels?
• smudgey

  16 Sep 05, 00:44

  at least say something... sorry? if it's his fault.... or just say something.... it angers me more when it's like ranting to a wall
  

  Originally posted by drx:

  poor smudgey
  gives smudgey a warm hugz.
  
  So during quarreling your bf should say how he feels?

• Mao x 2

  16 Sep 05, 00:45

  Originally posted by drx:

  poor smudgey
  gives smudgey a warm hugz.
  
  So during quarreling your bf should say how he feels?

  Yeah.. should be that way.. at least you know what's going on.. and what he's thinking.. if not, you can't solve any problems when you don't even know where the problem lies..
• smudgey

  16 Sep 05, 00:48

  hehehe yeah listen to maomao the LOVE GURU!!!!
  
  hehehe I gotta log off now... must rest my back...
  
  bye bye
  

  Originally posted by Mao x 2:

  Yeah.. should be that way.. at least you know what's going on.. and what he's thinking.. if not, you can't solve any problems when you don't even know where the problem lies..

• drx

  16 Sep 05, 00:48

  writes down notes humm..
  So what should your bf say?
  " ok ok i agreed with u?"
  
  ok lets say
  
  u want to go to place A for dinner and your bf wants to go to place B in the end where did u 2 end up going ?
• Mao x 2

  16 Sep 05, 00:49

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  hehehe yeah listen to maomao the LOVE GURU!!!!
  
  hehehe I gotta log off now... must rest my back...
  
  bye bye
  

  Bye... Smudgey.. good nite!!