my guy... almost.
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sometimes i just feel that we are in a relationship already, if not for the official title. but i am not sure, since this is my first attempt.Originally posted by mistyblue:he also can be shy what. he also don't want to push you into corner and make life difficult for you. Ask once liao .. you answer is wishy washy... then what do you want him to do. Ask you every month?
I think its your turn to ask back ... If its so hard to even confirm the r/s....
Oh I als can talk lots with lots of people but don't mean I know them well or understand them at all. Its very different of the level of talking I am asking about... -
i get ur prob..i was tryin 2 encourage indirectly u to deal with itOriginally posted by Cinderella.:haha, yeah, i got so erked so many people say i am a clone i just took revenge.
you don't get my problem do you? i just have difficulty verbally expressing my feelings. it has nothing to do with gender equality.
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Just ask him to indulge you... and confirm you guys are actually more than just friends...Originally posted by Cinderella.:sometimes i just feel that we are in a relationship already, if not for the official title. but i am not sure, since this is my first attempt.
If he agrees .. you have your answer. Its not the title that matters, its the unease and discomfort in your heart that makes you feel "unhappy". Hence you seek answers from us in a forum...
Got it? What I am asking you to do is simply to set your heart at ease... -
girls and guys can never be best friends... it usually escalates into something else..
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Playgirl Alert!Originally posted by mistyblue:Just ask him to indulge you.... -
ask him to indulge me? what does that mean? how exactly do i do that?Originally posted by mistyblue:Just ask him to indulge you... and confirm you guys are actually more than just friends...
If he agrees .. you have your answer. Its not the title that matters, its the unease and discomfort in your heart that makes you feel "unhappy". Hence you seek answers from us in a forum... Got it? What I am asking you to do is simply to set your heart at ease...
i just feel that this "relationship" is not official, somehow it is just too unsettling for me. but i will try the stance starblue taught me just now. i will let you guys know if it works. -
Playboy Alerted!!Originally posted by alexkusu:Playgirl Alert!
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i accuse u of lyingOriginally posted by mistyblue:Playboy Alerted!! 
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Just ask him when you guys are doing nothing too serious ... and just say... "Are we more than just friends?" And smile ...Originally posted by Cinderella.:ask him to indulge me? what does that mean? how exactly do i do that?
i just feel that this "relationship" is not official, somehow it is just too unsettling for me. but i will try the stance starblue taught me just now. i will let you guys know if it works.
Or say "Can I assume we are more than just friends?" and smile... He ask why..
and just tell him "Cus you like him" ..
Sigh... just conversation mah... -
er, i know we are more than just friends, because he is the only guy i held hands with. and he knows it. so it will not be apt to ask that question right?Originally posted by mistyblue:Just ask him when you guys are doing nothing too serious ... and just say... "Are we more than just friends?" And smile ...
Or say "Can I assume we are more than just friends?" and smile... He ask why..
and just tell him "Cus you like him" ..
Sigh... just conversation mah... -
I don't accuse. I state you are slandering..Originally posted by alexkusu:i accuse u of lying -
stop playing with the guys feelings! dont manipulate him!Originally posted by mistyblue:Just ask him when you guys are doing nothing too serious ... and just say... "Are we more than just friends?" And smile ...
Or say "Can I assume we are more than just friends?" and smile... He ask why..
and just tell him "Cus you like him" ..
Sigh... just conversation mah... -
Then what else you require of him?Originally posted by Cinderella.:er, i know we are more than just friends, because he is the only guy i held hands with. and he knows it. so it will not be apt to ask that question right?
Or you can even tell him your previous answer to the question he pop ... after some thought...is that you want to be with him...
BTW, Must he ask again? Is it so important? -
me? slander?Originally posted by mistyblue:I don't accuse. I state you are slandering.. 
is an innocent person like me capable of such a scheming, devious, manipulative deed? 
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Are you the guy?Originally posted by alexkusu:stop playing with the guys feelings! dont manipulate him!
This is call manipulation?
You got GF? -
actually, u can just write a letter..n put it in his bag for him to find. Simple, n gets ur message across.
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No, dont haveOriginally posted by mistyblue:Are you the guy?
This is call manipulation?
You got GF?
Im a shy guy..i dont know how to chase girls -
Is your pants on fire???Originally posted by alexkusu:me? slander? is an innocent person like me capable of such a scheming, devious, manipulative deed? -
just imagine you are in my shoes. holding hands with the guy you like, but you are not officially together. it feels strange, and somewhat imbalanced.Originally posted by mistyblue:Then what else you require of him?
Or you can even tell him your previous answer to the question he pop ... after some thought...is that you want to be with him...
BTW, Must he ask again? Is it so important?
and will the two of you stop arguing?
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nope, not wearing themOriginally posted by mistyblue:Is your pants on fire???
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does it have to be official? kenot take baby steps issit?Originally posted by Cinderella.:just imagine you are in my shoes. holding hands with the guy you like, but you are not officially together. it feels strange, and somewhat imbalanced.
and will the two of you stop arguing?
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That's why we ask you to confirm with him. You telling us also no use. I cannot go and ask for you. Its best he tell you directly and then you would not feel so uneasy.Originally posted by Cinderella.:just imagine you are in my shoes. holding hands with the guy you like, but you are not officially together. it feels strange, and somewhat imbalanced.
and will the two of you stop arguing? -
So you wear old man diapers?Originally posted by alexkusu:nope, not wearing them :Mr. Green:
does it have to be official? kenot take baby steps issit?
btw..we r not arguing..we r just flirting
Flirt?? Ok lah... I am your training ground lah... Next time you better treat me to dinner... -
yaya.. try that... i'm sure that's the most effective way lah.. hope you get officially attached soon!!Originally posted by Cinderella.:ask him to indulge me? what does that mean? how exactly do i do that?
i just feel that this "relationship" is not official, somehow it is just too unsettling for me. but i will try the stance starblue taught me just now. i will let you guys know if it works.
damned.. all that studying's making my stomach cramp... -_-"" -
"Do you remember the last time when we were at XXX... And you asked me if I would be your gf...? I've been thinking... Do you still want a 2nd opinion...?"Originally posted by Cinderella.:i don't usually come to the forum. but i have a question i need answers to.
there is this guy whom i have liked for 2 years. i think he likes me too because we are always going out together, studying together. his family knows me and my family knows him. but we have never been officially attached. the last time he poped the question, i was still unsure of the relationship, so i gave a vague answer. but after that, he didnt ask anymore.
and i am the really shy type, i really don't know how to ask him. what should i do?? "