Choice Of Guys - A or B? HELP!
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Wow!!! I'm surprised... how do you know B guys are blah blah blah... either you are one or that is just your own conjecture. Dont be so irresponsible and give such generalizationsOriginally posted by parn:Guy B are usually the types of guys who are still looking for a girlfriend now and never got any. Not that they're not nice enough, but they're just absolutely clueless about girls and relationships....not to mention the only sex that they have are with their right/left hands.
Ok so you are like slapping Glossy_matte over here... its like telling her that she shouldnt have asked such a stupid question... so the question should be "I am in a relationship with Guy B, and I met Guy A. I feel some chemistry when I am with XX so who should I choose?????? then why ask in the first place??? unfortunately for you, life isnt so simple... there's something more than chemistry...Originally posted by parn:Girls don't just go into a relationship with any guys that are nice like Guy B. Don't you guys know that there's something called chemistry other than the usual physical attraction???
and dont go about saying Don't you guys know that there's something called chemistry other than the usual physical attraction??? its like a slap to your very own face... there is no connection between physical attraction and B guys...
If Glossy_matte did actually say that, then she is trying to justify why she is breaking up with guy B, but I dont think she did... so dont put words into her mouthOriginally posted by parn:Glossy_matte is probably regretting now that she've made a wrong choice by being Guy B's girlfriend. The reason is because she's not happy cos she realised that there isn't any chemistry between Guy B and her despite the fact that Guy B tries very hard to make things work but actually doesn't at all.
If she already complained that Guy B is not what she wants, then why ask the question in the first place... so dont put words into her mouth... anyway no one is pushing UNWANTED GOODY-NICE GUY B to Glossy_matte, she asked for opinions, and we gave it to her... notice we didnt say you MUST choose B guyOriginally posted by parn:Instead of choosing Guy B, why don't you guys advise Glossy_matte to choose neither of them? Don't you all know that she has already complained that Guy B is not what she wants? So get some education and stop pushing the unwanted goody-nice Guy B to Glossy_matte. She've already said that she realised she doesn't love Guy B that much.
For once I actually agree with what you say senseless people argue for the sake of arguing its pretty obvious... see belowOriginally posted by parn:Hate it when senseless people argued for the sake of argueing and end up destroying the purpose and intentions of the poster.Originally posted by parn:OMG...this thread is getting from worse to worst.
Now it's degrading the post with all those nonsense threads. -
Be with the one that can make u happy....
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Crappyz...come out with your own advices if you're really sincere in advising Glossy_matte.
It's useless to keep commenting and criticising on my post if you don't have an advice of your own.
Go check out some gripe forum if you got one of those i-can't-lose syndromes. You'll be happier posting there.
Can you actually hold your own arguements by coming up with a better arguement to challenge mine? Or giving unconstructive comments and criticising on my post is the only way for you to hold onto your 'arguement'?
Frankly reading, I don't even know what are you doing right now. You aren't helping Glossy_matte in anyway when you've no advice of your own and you don't even know what you're argueing about and what you actually wanted out of this arguement?
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Life may get bored at times. It takes both parties to spice it up....add some pepper, sugar, salt, chilli sauce, tomato sauce or ginger oso can. It's up to u both to decide.
Yes u may be still young and hasn't play enuff that's y when u rec' the kind of thrill & excitement from A, u cudn't resist the temptations... to fall for his charms. Alot of things are hard to say, mayb he's toying wif u or he may turn out to be the best for u! We cannot totally perceive a person's personality and characters by his cover; it's unfair.
Definitely, alot will urge u not to go for A as u might be the one suffering in the end as he's the kind of playboy as u mentioned. Nevertheless, u ve to make up ur own choice and bear the consequences should there be any.
As for Guy B.. i m sry but from my point of view, i can't help feeling tat there's insufficient room for developing a more steady r/s wif him as u already get SIAN of him cuz u r not the homely kind of girl.
Watever choice u make, remind urself not to get involve in any intimate acts in order to protect urself. Good luck -
haa... where u get these???Originally posted by leddy:you know why u find B boring? coz u haven't had sex yet.. trust me.. those guys seem nice, and boring outside.. are horny bastards... bet u will have the best sex ever, after that, u no wanna hang out with A anymore!! B is boring becoz he knows he can more than make up for that flaw with his skills in bed... A is fun or looks fun coz he gotta be FUN, esp when his skills in bed sucks.. such guys normally have premature ejectulations. So for the long run... B is definitely better
got disappointing experiences b4?? haa -
I'm sorry if you actually missed out on my advice...Originally posted by parn:Crappyz...come out with your own advices if you're really sincere in advising Glossy_matte.
Once again I'm sorry if you actually missed out on my advice... and for your info, I'm not the only one commenting and criticising on your post... but I'm sure I am happier posting here than anywhere else...Originally posted by parn:It's useless to keep commenting and criticising on my post if you don't have an advice of your own. Go check out some gripe forum if you got one of those i-can't-lose syndromes. You'll be happier posting there.
I'm sorry you have nothing better to write but to say that I'm not giving any advice... again I'm sorry if you actually missed out on my advice... well I am not here for an argument and have already given my stand, so, I'm sorry if you actually missed out on my advice or maybe you prefer the word argument???Originally posted by parn:Can you actually hold your own arguements by coming up with a better arguement to challenge mine? Or giving unconstructive comments and criticising on my post is the only way for you to hold onto your 'arguement'?
I'm sorry if you actually missed out on my advice... and I'm sorry you dont know what I'm doing either... Am I immature and need more education??? well... I am studying at two schools... I suppose that satisfies the need for more education... well for the immature part... if I'm that immature... dont you think theres no point in arguing with me??? Now whos the immature one???Originally posted by parn:Frankly reading, I don't even know what are you doing right now. You aren't helping Glossy_matte in anyway when you've no advice of your own and you don't even know what you're argueing about and what you actually wanted out of this arguement?
Are you immature or do you need more education?
What do I really wany out of this argument??? Sincerely... for you to know that there are two sides to a coin, dont be looking at the side with the flower and say that both sides of a coin have flowers... and for you to stop making unfair, unjustified and irresponsible comments about B guys...
just because you have never seen red before, doesnt mean that the color red does not exist -
Forumites... Please be reminded that flaming is not encouraged in AA, whatever the cause may be....
Thanks for your co-operation.... -
Originally posted by Devil1976:Forumites... Please be reminded that flaming is not encouraged in AA, whatever the cause may be....
Thanks for your co-operation....
Yes, yes! Don't get too personal with all these posts! Aiyo...
Bu yao shang le he qi.
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are u pretty in the 1st place ?
or is A jus making a fool out of ya ?
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I thought vampires no 'qi' one...?Originally posted by Yunhaier: Yes, yes! Don't get too personal with all these posts! Aiyo...
Bu yao shang le he qi.
Cheers
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so glossy_matte, wad did u do?
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Originally posted by Crappyz:
I'm entitled to voice out my own opinions and never yours. Voice out your own opinions and advices but never try to change my opinions as you're absolutely nobody to me and I will never give in to whatever opinion you're trying to push to me if I've deemed them as nonsense opinions.
I'm sorry if you actually missed out on my advice... and I'm sorry you dont know what I'm doing either... Am I immature and need more education??? well... I [b]am studying at two schools... I suppose that satisfies the need for more education... well for the immature part... if I'm that immature... dont you think theres no point in arguing with me??? Now whos the immature one???
What do I really wany out of this argument??? Sincerely... for you to know that there are two sides to a coin, dont be looking at the side with the flower and say that both sides of a coin have flowers... and for you to stop making unfair, unjustified and irresponsible comments about B guys...
just because you have never seen red before, doesnt mean that the color red does not exist[/b]
I've right to defend my own opinions if anyone failed to comprehend my opinions in a mature manner and I HATE people who tries to mislead everyone by re-writing my post intentions with their petty criticism, cos that's a low act and are only used by low people who are at their desperate losing end of any arguements.
Don't assumed that I've never known any Guy A and Guy B if you do not know me personally. What do you know about me? I HATE guys like you and I HATE YOU. 
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Do what you must do as a Moderator :pOriginally posted by Devil1976:Forumites... Please be reminded that flaming is not encouraged in AA, whatever the cause may be....
Thanks for your co-operation....
Afterall, I've never planned and won't registered a new nick to cause trouble. -
Thanks for all your replies, did not have the chance to come online recently till today. Read through everything.
I chose to stick with GUY B. Guy A was dating another girl.
Some may think it's an expected ending, but it was really unexpected for me. ............................. -
Upz...Originally posted by parn:Choose Guy A but deny him SEX till he marries you for good. Lots of Guy Bs around, so don't worry.
Always make sure that you're with the guy that will bring you the most happiness and not stuck to one that's as constant as gravity for life imprisonment. -
i give double thumbs up for these..Originally posted by Devil1976:I think you should be thinking MORE over it...
Then C, D, E and F would also starts to come in liao...
rite i think the problem is with her. Think carefully who you love and what u really want ?
if you are really in love, even if guy B, C, D, E comes along wouldn't have make any diff... -
for me, i will choose nobody...
y nt A u shld know...
n i won't choose B cos it wld b unfair to him n to yourself.
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Just treat it as a lesson learned..Originally posted by glossy_matte:Thanks for all your replies, did not have the chance to come online recently till today. Read through everything.
I chose to stick with GUY B. Guy A was dating another girl.
Some may think it's an expected ending, but it was really unexpected for me. .............................
Good luck..
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Got leh... xie2 qi4 leh...Originally posted by Devil1976:I thought vampires no 'qi' one...?
Cheers -
Hhmmm... well, I have learnt much from this thread... anyway since this thing has come to an end, I wish glossy_matte all the best... just a thot: making a choice now doesnt mean you have to stick to that choice... make another when the need arises...
hhmmm... Ok lor... I think I understand liao... I had been too Kpo...Originally posted by parn:I'm entitled to voice out my own opinions and never yours. Voice out your own opinions and advices but never try to change my opinions as you're absolutely nobody to me and I will never give in to whatever opinion you're trying to push to me if I've deemed them as nonsense opinions.
hhmmm... Ok lor watever...Originally posted by parn:I've right to defend my own opinions if anyone failed to comprehend my opinions in a mature manner and I HATE people who tries to mislead everyone by re-writing my post intentions with their petty criticism, cos that's a low act and are only used by low people who are at their desperate losing end of any arguements.
Thanx you are the first =)Originally posted by parn:Don't assumed that I've never known any Guy A and Guy B if you do not know me personally. What do you know about me? I HATE guys like you and I HATE YOU.
Anyway this is my first nick, not that I register a new one to create trouble...
specially to parn:
I dont know you, you dont know me
I have absolutely nothing against you...
you are just a four letter word to me... parn that is...
Ya, so I apologize to you here if I have been a pain in the neck, It had never been my intention to be mean to you. I'm sorry things had turn out this way
To moderators:
Do what you think is right... killing me off can actually save me alot of time, I must be crazy to write all these when I have school tomorrow -
yapyap agreeOriginally posted by FireIce:gotta be B
A is good for bf
B is husband material -
hi glossy_matte glad that your problem is solved
sometimes you need to open eyes big big to see the one who is true to you. -
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~Hohohoho... <Originally posted by Yunhaier:Got leh... xie2 qi4 leh...
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