I suceed in cutting in but.. now i lost interest..
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http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=149320&page=0Originally posted by shinta:must provide link...
NLNT
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Expecting another round of flames......Originally posted by Mao x 2: -
hmm.. dun do/prove things @ ppl's expense.Originally posted by Ayukat:I guess you don't understand...
Its the stubbornness.... especially when all ur friends tell u no hope liao... all the more u wan to prove it to them...
I wish I had the ability to execute what I preach.... sighz... -
Hey.. are u a man or not. Sometimes u gotta do whatever u gotta do. Ur friends tell u no hope ? In this world no one is ur damn friend.. prove to them. Whatever it takes.. even at the cost of whoever it's gotta be. U can execute what u preach.. just gotta believe it. Prove to them u are not as weak !Originally posted by Ayukat:I guess you don't understand...
Its the stubbornness.... especially when all ur friends tell u no hope liao... all the more u wan to prove it to them...
I wish I had the ability to execute what I preach.... sighz...
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*BISH* Penguin! Don't anyhow teach that kid, he's bad enough as is! Unless you condone someone stealing your gf, otherwise don't anyhow say
As punishment, you're banished from my freezer. Please find someone else's freezer to live in
FeowFeowOriginally posted by BadzMaro:Hey.. are u a man or not. Sometimes u gotta do whatever u gotta do. Ur friends tell u no hope ? In this world no one is ur damn friend.. prove to them. Whatever it takes.. even at the cost of whoever it's gotta be. U can execute what u preach.. just gotta believe it. Prove to them u are not as weak ! -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:*BISH* Penguin! Don't anyhow teach that kid, he's bad enough as is! Unless you condone someone stealing your gf, otherwise don't anyhow say
As punishment, you're banished from my freezer. Please find someone else's freezer to live in
FeowFeow
FeowFeow .... i ... No...not other ppls FREEZER !!! NOOOOO!!!! No ma.. i just thought.. mmm... u know... coz i am sure someone will beat him up n stuff like that lo...so he will know that its wrong.. i just accelerating the process o.. pls dun banish me... PLEASE! If u love penguins..for the love of God...NO!! 
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Ok, explanation accepted, otherwise I would've had to topple your little penguin igloo
Then you'll hafta pack your black tuxedos & white shirts & move out
FeowFeowOriginally posted by BadzMaro: FeowFeow .... i ... No...not other ppls FREEZER !!! NOOOOO!!!! No ma.. i just thought.. mmm... u know... coz i am sure someone will beat him up n stuff like that lo...so he will know that its wrong.. i just accelerating the process o.. pls dun banish me... PLEASE! If u love penguins..for the love of God...NO!! -
Looking back thru ur previous post,Originally posted by Wolfwoof^^:Hi..i manage to cut into their 4yrs rs. She break up wif her x to be wif me. At 1st it was like honeymoon for us..those sweet sweet feelings for each other but i realise she havent forget about her x.. &..he keeps on pestering her. Her family also object to our rs. Somethings bcos of all tat pressure she face from her family, moodswings tends to get in.
When i saw her in such an angony..i tried to give her up. She just don't wana let me go.. Im honest & truthful to her & yet she said she got no confidence in me. Damn it realli piss me off..Im beginning to drift away from this rs but i still luv her.. IF ANYONE HERE HAS BEEN THROUGH THIS PLS ADVISE ME WHAT TO DO..
I luv her..& i wana b wif her.. i even wana marry her but WTF i feel im drifting away.. I really don't knw what to do..
rgd u slapping ur ex,
making her go for abortion,
in love wif someone whom is getting married soon,
waiting to commit suicide,
and now being involved in a r/s which u supposingly won successfully..
Have u ever recollect wat u ve done over this period of months and do u know wat u r doing??
Mayb u ve got the looks, or a glib tongue with lots of sweet nothings tat gals flock to u juz like u r honey. Yes, they boosted ur ego and u enjoyed the feeling and thrill of gaining their attention... and felt very attractive.
Other than dat wat do u gain from them? Love?? Sex??? I don't think tat's wat u r looking for in life...
And i m not here to condemn u for watever u have done or undergone.
To mw, u are juz like a missing kid looking for it's nanny goat. U have no aim, goal or direction in life.
Get a grip on urself..
Since u mentioned tat u love ur present gf and u even have the intention to marry her, then y do u want to give up? Cuz she's too easy to get?? Cuz she's not the type who can provide u wif the excitement u want?
Both of u muz have gone thru some hurdles to be together now. And seeing the plight she's in, u should have be her pillar of strength instead of escaping from it!! now
She is brave enuff to get herself out from her 4yrs r/s to be wif u and now she has to face the pressure from her family's and frenz, including her ex. If she dun luv u, i dun think she will want tosuffer all these torments from them for this r/s.
Other forumites say tat u r selfish.. naturally, standing only in ur own shoes, u cannot really accept wat they had commented on ur doings. But everytime should a disagreement arises, there must be something wrong somewhere. It's juz tat u have yet to come to an agreeing point.
U should and better stand in ur gf position and try to visualize how and wat she is facing now and brave thru all these wif her, give her the moral, physical, mental support tat u can, at least if u love her enuff. Dun think for urself only , or plan for a back route. If u are mature enuff, u have to think for ur future.
Most importantly, i think u r the type of person who cannot love a person for a long period of time. It's mayb because u haven't meet a gf tat treats u very well and tat's y u nv learn a lesson out of it. If u ever ditch a good gf for another gal, and the gf is not as gd as the one before,then u will regret and u will definitely grow..from experience.
If u really love someone, u should hold her hands tightly and nv let her battle troubles alone...How cud u bear to see ur loved ones suffering?? and yet u chose to run away from it? Do u think by getting urself out of this r/s she will be better?? Then by tat time, u r really a Scary monster!!
Now if ur gf ever finds out ur intention of leaving her, how wud she feel?? Huh?? I wonder did the wolf devour ur conscience!!
Everyone makes mistakes. It is only the matter of whether did u learn something out rfom ur mistakes and not let history repeat itself. -
Crazy people...
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looks whos talking..Originally posted by Ayukat:Crazy people... 
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*waddles off with gratitude* ....Originally posted by FeowFeow:Ok, explanation accepted, otherwise I would've had to topple your little penguin igloo Then you'll hafta pack your black tuxedos & white shirts & move out
FeowFeow -
Originally posted by M©+square:Cos you let people taste the sweet le...but don't give them all. Tell them to look for it.
I like your style.
Haha 
Cheers
Only personal lessons are remembered deeply.
We are all writing our own books... we are the author of our own Love: this knowledge is everlasting. No matter how many different authors we have spoken or books read, eventually, we still have to publish our own destiny.
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Wah.... SIAM!!!!!Originally posted by Ayukat:Guan wo pi si?
As long as I get her, I wiill treat her like a princess... I dun care about the process of wooing her... as long as I get her...
AND THIS IS NOT MY THREAD!
Before I tu xue again.
Cheers -
*Pats pats Penguin's head*
*Opens freezer door*
*Let's Penguin waddle inside*
*Shoves in a plate of freshly sliced sashimi*
*Closes door*
FeowFeowOriginally posted by BadzMaro:*waddles off with gratitude* .... -
I remember the last episode too well!!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Yunhaier:Wah.... SIAM!!!!!
Before I tu xue again.
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if everyody when meeting their own emotional problem also can think logically n selflessly.. then there wun b so many touching love stories around...
its simple to tell right n wrong, good or bad about others.. but when cum to urself..its another case.....
can only say the writer is also a ordinary human nia... -
Not when I'd been in a similar position. There was an "ex" who was pursuing me quite relentlessly, until I started dating him. Guess what, 1 day, he let slip that he was in fact, very much with someone else! I ended the whole thing on the spot.
There's such a thing as a choice. I could've bu ze shou duan, & stolen the guy from someone else. But it wouldn't give me any satisfaction "winning" him. At least right now, I can say, my conscience is clear.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by zacken99:if everyody when meeting their own emotional problem also can think logically n selflessly.. then there wun b so many touching love stories around...
its simple to tell right n wrong, good or bad about others.. but when cum to urself..its another case.....
can only say the writer is also a ordinary human nia... -
Thks for ur advice.. she choose to give up all..Originally posted by Yunhaier: What do you expect? A red carpet rolled over the ground to welcome your humble presence into her life? You may have conquered the fortress, but the land where all the peasants lived will resist against your rule. You think life is going to be easy after you have gotten her successfully? Especially when this four years relationship has sunk quite deep roots.
This is just the beginning of a certain nightmare. Probably only endurance can get you through, but it seemed that you are also lacking in this aspect.
If you want to get involved with a girl who is currently attached - to cut without letting her clear her mess... you end up being the one clearing the pile of sh!t. So you just got to decide if this is worthwhile for a relationship to continue with the mess. Well, you can pursue this Love with her trying to regain stability - but you will end up suffering because the emotional burden will fall on you.
You made your choice. How far would you hold on your choice? This could be a game of endurance. Do you have what it takes to play this game?
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I go for wat i luv.. ya, its selfish but i knw i hv no regrets at allOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Dear Wolfwoof,
This is 1 of the most selfish posts I've ever seen. You didn't care whether feelings would be hurt, the aim of owning her being your only goal, making you oblivious of everything else. You didn't think properly of the consequences, & now, when the going gets tough, you wanna desert her? After what she's given up to be with you?
Your self-centredness ASTOUNDS me. You reap what you sow, & you should've been prepared for this before you selfishly butted into a relationship that has lasted 4 years. May this be a deterrent to those who're thinking of stealing someone away from a relationship.
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I didn't say i don't want her! I even tell her i'll kneel in front of her parents to give us their blessing. Fate really make fun of me..Originally posted by deathscythe99:Diaoz....u broke up her r/s, and now u dun want her?
Man...wadever made u wanna break up her r/s with her ex in the first place? -
Fuck and leave
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I didn't say i wana dump her.. im only drifting away.. My heart also pain whenn im drifting.. anyway i don't think u understands luv.Originally posted by rainee:just for the sake of challenge?
then win liao, just dump her? -
Haha, i tot only see Ye Li Cang Hua when it comes to $....now i see dat r/s oso can ganna dis move....learnt something new liao
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Originally posted by kiekie:Looking back thru ur previous post,
rgd u slapping ur ex,
making her go for abortion,
in love wif someone whom is getting married soon,
waiting to commit suicide,
and now being involved in a r/s which u supposingly won successfully..
Have u ever recollect wat u ve done over this period of months and do u know wat u r doing??
Mayb u ve got the looks, or a glib tongue with lots of sweet nothings tat gals flock to u juz like u r honey. Yes, they boosted ur ego and u enjoyed the feeling and thrill of gaining their attention... and felt very attractive.
Other than dat wat do u gain from them? Love?? Sex??? I don't think tat's wat u r looking for in life...
And i m not here to condemn u for watever u have done or undergone.
To mw, u are juz like a missing kid looking for it's nanny goat. U have no aim, goal or direction in life.
Get a grip on urself..
Since u mentioned tat u love ur present gf and u even have the intention to marry her, then y do u want to give up? Cuz she's too easy to get?? Cuz she's not the type who can provide u wif the excitement u want?
Both of u muz have gone thru some hurdles to be together now. And seeing the plight she's in, u should have be her pillar of strength instead of escaping from it!! now
She is brave enuff to get herself out from her 4yrs r/s to be wif u and now she has to face the pressure from her family's and frenz, including her ex. If she dun luv u, i dun think she will want tosuffer all these torments from them for this r/s.
Other forumites say tat u r selfish.. naturally, standing only in ur own shoes, u cannot really accept wat they had commented on ur doings. But everytime should a disagreement arises, there must be something wrong somewhere. It's juz tat u have yet to come to an agreeing point.
U should and better stand in ur gf position and try to visualize how and wat she is facing now and brave thru all these wif her, give her the moral, physical, mental support tat u can, at least if u love her enuff. Dun think for urself only , or plan for a back route. If u are mature enuff, u have to think for ur future.
Most importantly, i think u r the type of person who cannot love a person for a long period of time. It's mayb because u haven't meet a gf tat treats u very well and tat's y u nv learn a lesson out of it. If u ever ditch a good gf for another gal, and the gf is not as gd as the one before,then u will regret and u will definitely grow..from experience.
If u really love someone, u should hold her hands tightly and nv let her battle troubles alone...How cud u bear to see ur loved ones suffering?? and yet u chose to run away from it? Do u think by getting urself out of this r/s she will be better?? Then by tat time, u r really a Scary monster!!
Now if ur gf ever finds out ur intention of leaving her, how wud she feel?? Huh?? I wonder did the wolf devour ur conscience!!
Everyone makes mistakes. It is only the matter of whether did u learn something out rfom ur mistakes and not let history repeat itself. -
looks who's talkingOriginally posted by Wolfwoof^^:I didn't say i wana dump her.. im only drifting away.. My heart also pain whenn im drifting.. anyway i don't think u understands luv.
at least I know that love is not selfish, not something to be discarded and get tired of once you have it