Survey: How often do you fight with your other half?
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i wan to fight oso got no chance...
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wat for fight?Originally posted by huiz:i wan to fight oso got no chance...
no fight is better than fighting, dun u tink so? -
i mean i dun hav anyone to fight wif.Originally posted by rainee:wat for fight?
no fight is better than fighting, dun u tink so?
ok maybe occasional talking-back. -
Dramatics usually will meet my palm across their cheeks
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I'll fight with my split personality every once a month
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wa jia latOriginally posted by M©+square:Dramatics usually will meet my palm across their cheeks -
i can't stand dramasOriginally posted by rainee:wa jia lat 
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Originally posted by laurence82:I'll fight with my split personality every once a month
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thought generally should be :
courtship :
everything fresh, and interesting....all lovey dovey....both parties esp the guys will give in and at his most gentleman manner....and ladies..most sweet manner..so no 'fights' (if got 'fightings', then charm liao?? )
after long courtship....
start to feel like 'old couples', not so 'act' 'act' on showing the best behaviour liao....quarrel or argument here and there...men might still be the willing party to give in and apologize...(little peckering??)
married liao....
wah say...can relax and be yourself liao....hiak hiak hiak....true color show liao... kidding lah...but true to some extend lor.....the guys start to think more on work and career, maybe cos married man liao mah..must set priorities right...career and family...(slightly more 'fights??')
women might still be on the honeymoon storey....felt being left out...or that the hubby not as 'nice' as during courtship liao....women maybe also din realise they also relax liao...not as sweet or gentle as before....
so all change begin!!
the rest of the stories up to you to fill in...... -
i rem around the end of first year's marriage life, we had the most 'fights' (of our married life) mostly initiated by me....and that time he also no pang chance liao....very jialate but neber say want to divorce....
we had our most serious fight after we had our kids....i think intiated by me again..
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everyday.
then we have make up sex.
the best sex ever. -
i did a check with nellie...
we had 0 fight in our almost 9 mths r/s -
ah..... our courtship thing end liao lo... now's more like the lao fu lao qi kinda thing ler...Originally posted by a_splash:thought generally should be :
courtship :
everything fresh, and interesting....all lovey dovey....both parties esp the guys will give in and at his most gentleman manner....and ladies..most sweet manner..so no 'fights' (if got 'fightings', then charm liao?? )
after long courtship....
start to feel like 'old couples', not so 'act' 'act' on showing the best behaviour liao....quarrel or argument here and there...men might still be the willing party to give in and apologize...(little peckering??)
married liao....
wah say...can relax and be yourself liao....hiak hiak hiak....true color show liao... kidding lah...but true to some extend lor.....the guys start to think more on work and career, maybe cos married man liao mah..must set priorities right...career and family...(slightly more 'fights??')
women might still be on the honeymoon storey....felt being left out...or that the hubby not as 'nice' as during courtship liao....women maybe also din realise they also relax liao...not as sweet or gentle as before....
so all change begin!!
the rest of the stories up to you to fill in......
at first hor.. he would snatch teh dishes away from me... and say u're not here to be ah sum... u're my guest blah blah blah...
now... no more lo.. he'd only wash if i ask him to.. -
look at it as a promotion bah...Originally posted by shinta:ah..... our courtship thing end liao lo... now's more like the lao fu lao qi kinda thing ler...
at first hor.. he would snatch teh dishes away from me... and say u're not here to be ah sum... u're my guest blah blah blah...
now... no more lo.. he'd only wash if i ask him to..
gong xi ni sheng zi le... -
Hmm fight seems interesting, I never got into a fight with my gf,
Only just we get upset over things with have done, but she and I never fought.
is this.... Good or bad ? lol...
Anyway, My god sis and his bf fought so often, i would rather describe their relationship like a rough ride... -
Originally posted by a_splash:look at it as a promotion bah...
gong xi ni sheng zi le...
this kinda promotion i dun wan...
hmmm
someone said its not healthy for the r/s if we have fought not even once before marriage.
said sth about the r/s not tested fully.
but why fight when u can talk things out? -
Good for you During our 1st year, Hamster & I didn't fight at all either
Even now, we hardly ever do. At most it's just a mild disagreement that lasts less than an hour
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:i did a check with nellie...
we had 0 fight in our almost 9 mths r/s -
Not necessarily true..Originally posted by shinta:
this kinda promotion i dun wan...
hmmm
someone said its not healthy for the r/s if we have fought not even once before marriage.
said sth about the r/s not tested fully.
but why fight when u can talk things out?
Depends on whether you can maintain the relationship in this way and IF things do HAPPENS TO blow up in the future, to what extent would it take place and would both of you be able to handle the situation...? (the 'not healthy' referred above might be talking about inexperience in handling such a situation...) -
ohhhhhhhhhOriginally posted by Devil1976:Not necessarily true..
Depends on whether you can maintain the relationship in this way and IF things do HAPPENS TO blow up in the future, to what extent would it take place and would both of you be able to handle the situation...? (the 'not healthy' referred above might be talking about inexperience in handling such a situation...)
hmm think we can maintain it this way bah...
*hopes so..* -
That's where the 'risk factor' comes in...?Originally posted by shinta:ohhhhhhhhh
hmm think we can maintain it this way bah...
*hopes so..*
If you've never been 'hit', you'll never really know...?
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'Bonus' for you... Just DISCUSS this with Nel and KEEP THIS IN MIND in case you happens to need it one day...?Originally posted by shinta:ohhhhhhhhh
hmm think we can maintain it this way bah...
*hopes so..*
IF SOMETHING BAD really EXPLODE between you and him one day.. REMEMBER. Things might not really be as bad as it seems... But only SEEMS SO MUCH WORSE because both of you are INEXPERIENCE in having such a 'MAJOR' OUTBREAK within your RELATIONSHIP... REMEMBER to STICK YOUR HEADS TOGETHER and FACE 'WHATEVER'... IT'S YOUR 1ST LESSON... TREASURE IT and it might PROVE to be a FRUITFUL ONE...?
And NEVER TAKE FOR GRANT that 'PEACE' between BOTH of you are MEANT to STAY and STICK THAT WAY... Sometimes situation changes.. REMEMBER to keep ALL 4 LEGS IN THE BOAT
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Nah...me and my gf hardly argue..bickering maybe but always those very harmless ones. You know lah...woman..they tend to be a bit more emotional..just bear with it for a while and they will be fine ler..no point starting an arguement which might just make things worse when you can just bear with it and it'll be back to normal after she cool down.Originally posted by rainee:Erm just want to hear what you guys think about this issue..
I rarely argued with my ai ai, and even if we did, it is quite rare and it will usually be resolved within hours, and more often than not, he will give in to me, or apologize, which has the effect of cooling me down immediately
Yet, I have heard of other couples who seem to argue a few times every month, there are even some of my friends who seem to argue with their supposedly other half like every other day. They will take longer to patch up oso, there seems to be so much pride and ego that neither of them wants to give in and compromise. But they will patch up within a week and then the cycle will repeat again...
So how's urs like? And is it normal for couples to argue every other day and to hurt each other so much constantly? Or you just kinda get used to the bickering?
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best way to avoid all these is to be yourself right from the beginning and try to stay as it is.Originally posted by a_splash:thought generally should be :
courtship :
everything fresh, and interesting....all lovey dovey....both parties esp the guys will give in and at his most gentleman manner....and ladies..most sweet manner..so no 'fights' (if got 'fightings', then charm liao?? )
after long courtship....
start to feel like 'old couples', not so 'act' 'act' on showing the best behaviour liao....quarrel or argument here and there...men might still be the willing party to give in and apologize...(little peckering??)
married liao....
wah say...can relax and be yourself liao....hiak hiak hiak....true color show liao... kidding lah...but true to some extend lor.....the guys start to think more on work and career, maybe cos married man liao mah..must set priorities right...career and family...(slightly more 'fights??')
women might still be on the honeymoon storey....felt being left out...or that the hubby not as 'nice' as during courtship liao....women maybe also din realise they also relax liao...not as sweet or gentle as before....
so all change begin!!
the rest of the stories up to you to fill in...... -
seriously, the nickname calling must stop....what ai ai, so so, miu miu, bui bui, papa, mama, loo loo, daa daa, [profanities, even split up, are still profanities, & hence, censored -- FeowFeow].
Where is the good old, honey, dear, darling and love? -
wat's wrong with ai ai?Originally posted by leddy:seriously, the nickname calling must stop....what ai ai, so so, miu miu, bui bui, papa, mama, loo loo, daa daa, [profanities, even though split up, are still profanities, & hence, censored -- FeowFeow].
Where is the good old, honey, dear, darling and love?
we call each other honey, dear and darling oso wat, but sometimes we need variation oso ma