its over.. everything..
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Were there escapes from Trolls Zoo in Chit Chat forum?
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amusing laughter.Originally posted by yourma:was that a friendly or a threatening smile?
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Originally posted by sunpastilles:should i wait for a patch or something???
He can do it once he can do it again.Originally posted by sunpastilles:so.. even if he asks for a patch, i should reject becos it'll only be giving him another chance to hurt me??
The boy is just too immature,
So just move on.
I can see that u liked him alot.
But it goes one way not 2 way.
So good luck...
I might advice not goading him towards any girls,
He might hurt ur friends and other gals...
Cheers...
The Grass is greener on the other side ^^, -
Your life seems to revolve around sms eh
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All the more, he flirts...Originally posted by sunpastilles:he was a flirt.. i gave him a chance, thinking he will change. even though i know he do small things like smsing chat with other girls or talk to them through phone, i didnt care. we gave each other all our attention. even thou there were times we fight cos we're jealous seeing each other so close to the opposite sex. i could really feel "it" from him. from what i see.. he really did changed.. but i guess my fear of him straying lead me tightening my 'grip'.. he 'held' me tightly too..
den he said he felt stress when with me.. i duno why he felt this way... it seems like its my fault now.. but... i guess im just too afraid to let him go... im afraid he might fall for others... he's always hanging around 2pretty girls.. i hav very very low confidence and self esteem.. im afraid he'll fall for either of them..
and today he jus msged me... so we chatted like frens.. i asked if he's chasing anyone of those 2.. he said if there's a chance, he will. he admitted to me even when we were together, he always felt something for that one girl and its like theres smth in her that luring him, making him wanna go close to her..
and those 2 girls.. out of which the one whom i think he feels for.. is actually my good fren. i really cannot accept this. all along i only asked him to not be so close with these 2, fearing that he might really fall for either of them. he always promised me he wont, but behind me, he's always with them. and now, my greatest fear.. of my bf falling for my fren.. has happened. but as mentioned, he said something in her makes him feel like going near, he said he isnt really in love with her though. i really dunno what he's thinking.. sighs..
But then again, the line between Flirting and Chatting are quite close in the relationship. Depends on your kind of view.
When my gf says she don't like me going out with gals alone, I stopped short.
Cause, my god siss' and friends always needs some listening ear or some advices.
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Dear SunPastilles,
Welcome to the adult life Alright, I'm kidding. You're at an age where everything appears to be all roses, there's Nothing for you to really worry about, apart from your studies. From time to time, you bump into people who don't have the same ideals as you, or even jerks, but this is all part of growing up.
Your ex is still young, only 16. In time, when he has his heart broken, he'll grow into someone more mature. Right now, it's the experimental age, & experimenting is probably what's right on his mind right now. We wouldn't know for sure whether he'll grow up, or whether he'll be stuck in the jerk mode (some guys do, I know 1 & he's past 30!), but put it down as a life experience.
There're plenty of good guys out there. It's just a matter of luck, & perseverance.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by sunpastilles:my one year 2weeks 4days relationship ended a few days ago. found out he's been flirting, smsing girls things like "miss you alot, really. but you don believe, neither do you miss me, sighs" he even says "i love you"... hais.
he's been doing that for the past 3 months le. i was being lied to for our last 3months by my bf. i cant believe it.
theres even once he said he wanna meet me in morning, but in the end didnt came, he said he went for breakfast alone.. now then i know.. he went to a girl's place. he wanted us to quiet down during O lvls, like no more smses/calls. im okay with that. den i only msged him GoodLuck for his paper n stuffs, he says things like "i say don msg me anymore, i wan study, wont msg u either".. den im like, fine then. no msgs loh.
but now i know, he's been smsing others all along. for every paper, he sends Goodluck to a particular girl, but not me. the girl take diff subj and there were days he didnt have to go sch for papers, he'd woke up early to just send her a msg.
things were so cold between us. after which i found out all these abt a week ago, i asked him. he said sorry and those msgs were just for fun. hais i dun understand wats so fun about it. idiot. he said he's guilty and sounded reluctant to break. so i kept it aside. till one morning, i woke up and still don see any msgs from him, i thought about it for awhile. i msged him. he still gave me those attitude and i feel that he dont think he did did anything wrong.. stuffs like that. i couldnt take it. i said "lets break.." all he replied was "fine. lets break then"...
the feeling of being lied to, and then not being sincerely apologised to, sucks. and even after i told him i knew the truths, he still carry on msging girls. hais. even up to the last moment.. he couldnt answer me when i asked if he still loves me.. i guess the answer's no..
hais. everything just keeps reminding me of him. it seriously sucks. and my frens who went out with him after we broke, said that he's still as happy.. seems to be enjoying himself. sighs, i wonder how he 'recover' so fast... -
He is really shitty man, isnt worth it. get over with it ba. guys tend to be more immature at that age. and will often be fascinated with new things and lose interest in old things very fast. Of course not all guys are like that, learn to open your eyes big big when you choose a bf next time. Learn from your mistakes ba. take care~
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sunpastilles
he never love you at all.
You are a toy to him lar..
so why cry for him?
chey. -
leave him.
this two words come from a man who thinks ur ex is not worth it. -
ya, forget about him, move on, you'll deserve better, there are much better guys out there
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you so despo arh?Originally posted by sharked:ya, forget about him, move on, you'll deserve better, there are much better guys out there
-->me!!!!!
kidding, i'm a bas t ard
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took me a min to decide whether to add that last line or not..... haihz... life is filled with regrets
we make a choice, then we regret it, but the consequences are already before your eyes. You have no choice but to accept things as they are.
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getting laid now would do both your mind and body good i say. dont do it in a car at a multi-storey carpark though. aint safe no more.
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wait for a double-crosser?Originally posted by sunpastilles:should i wait for a patch or something???
move along. look for greener pasture elsewhere. -
not worth it.
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no.. u should give him another chance... pretend that u forgive him le.. then u two timed behind his back and then dump him!Originally posted by sunpastilles:so.. even if he asks for a patch, i should reject becos it'll only be giving him another chance to hurt me?? -
Originally posted by qooorange:no.. u should give him another chance... pretend that u forgive him le.. then u two timed behind his back and then dump him!
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Time heals all wounds....You'll find somebody better than him.
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Dun feel sad over someone who is not worth holding on to.
He din cherish u, it's his loss.
Move on, coz u have a more beautiful sky.
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agree...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Dun feel sad over someone who is not worth holding on to.
He din cherish u, it's his loss.
Move on, coz u have a more beautiful sky. 
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Originally posted by sunpastilles:my one year 2weeks 4days relationship ended a few days ago. found out he's been flirting, smsing girls things like "miss you alot, really. but you don believe, neither do you miss me, sighs" he even says "i love you"... hais.
he's been doing that for the past 3 months le. i was being lied to for our last 3months by my bf. i cant believe it.
theres even once he said he wanna meet me in morning, but in the end didnt came, he said he went for breakfast alone.. now then i know.. he went to a girl's place. he wanted us to quiet down during O lvls, like no more smses/calls. im okay with that. den i only msged him GoodLuck for his paper n stuffs, he says things like "i say don msg me anymore, i wan study, wont msg u either".. den im like, fine then. no msgs loh.
but now i know, he's been smsing others all along. for every paper, he sends Goodluck to a particular girl, but not me. the girl take diff subj and there were days he didnt have to go sch for papers, he'd woke up early to just send her a msg.
things were so cold between us. after which i found out all these abt a week ago, i asked him. he said sorry and those msgs were just for fun. hais i dun understand wats so fun about it. idiot. he said he's guilty and sounded reluctant to break. so i kept it aside. till one morning, i woke up and still don see any msgs from him, i thought about it for awhile. i msged him. he still gave me those attitude and i feel that he dont think he did did anything wrong.. stuffs like that. i couldnt take it. i said "lets break.." all he replied was "fine. lets break then"...
the feeling of being lied to, and then not being sincerely apologised to, sucks. and even after i told him i knew the truths, he still carry on msging girls. hais. even up to the last moment.. he couldnt answer me when i asked if he still loves me.. i guess the answer's no..
hais. everything just keeps reminding me of him. it seriously sucks. and my frens who went out with him after we broke, said that he's still as happy.. seems to be enjoying himself. sighs, i wonder how he 'recover' so fast...
Love that has faded away; you can almost tell them from your his behaviour. Actually technically, he didn't lie to you - he merely kept a certain truth and had you discover them by chance.
It has come to a stage where your Love has been declining rapidly without your knowledge... having virus within the structure of your relationship and annihilating all healthy 'cells'. You probably thought that a year old relationship means strong-going, but obviously, reality speaks of a different tale. Your relationship surfaces an unknown issue and this wasn't communicated. Then, it breeds hideously in the heart of your man and poison his feelings.
This breeding causes him to rethink his own relationship - the Love he has been receiving... is it what he wants?
His anger and irritability is a mask to justify his flirty act. His nonchalant attitude is a result of his failing relationship and fleeting Love. He understood the theory that this relationship must go... thus embracing his new found life at first sight of freedom. There is NO point retaining a souless man who doesn't love you anymore.
It's truly over - but are you going to let this relationship crumble you like a pack of cards? Or what if he wants to patch? Are you going to allow a man, who only has a small chamber for you in his heart, to delude you further? Are you going to strengthen yourself and out-live a better life than he has?
P.S: He has already moved on - when will you begin yours?
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haiz.. guys always like to flirt and play ard and not be reprimanded at all...
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it applys on both genders la.Originally posted by HolySniper:haiz.. guys always like to flirt and play ard and not be reprimanded at all...
annnnnnd.... i am a guy.. -
y bother on such things? everybody got his/her own life..there r more things for u to concern rite? get on wif it..
here's a story..
2 man was crossing a river..when they saw an old lady carrying a heavy basket staring at the rushing waters..
Man A: let us help her to cross the river..
Man B: ok.
after carrying the old lady to cross the river for 10mins..the old lady thanked the both of them and left with her heavy load of basket..
Man B: damn!! that lady was so heavy and so is her stupid basket!! Worse of all, the river was so difficult to cross..
For the past 10mins..Man B keep on grumbling whereby Man A only listened..suddenly Man B asked: how come u dun feel anything when u carrying her? she's very heavy u know?
Man A only replied : yes..she is..but that was then..but i had already unload her just now..haven u?
Man B:........
i know heartbreak is hard to take..most of us had gone thru it..i dun see how and y u cant go over it too..since the thing have already happened..it had..
time to put down the burden of yours then..